Kubazali, enye yeendlela zokuqonda ukuba abantwana bakhula njani ngokwesondo kukuba ifana nolunye uhlobo lokukhula komntwana kunye nokufikisa. Ufuna ukuxhasa umntwana Kodwa sukucinga ukuba into oyithethayo okanye oziva ngayo ngenye imini yindlela oya kuvakalelwa ngayo ngayo.
Ngelixa ezinye iintlobo zesazisi, ezinjengokwazisa ngesini kunye nokulalana ngokwesini, kubonisiwe ukuba kucacile kwabanye abantwana kwasekuqaleni ekukhuleni kwabo. Akukho datha injalo kwi-asexuality, eyinkcazo, Ukuqhelaniswa nabantu beza emva kokufikelela ekuvuthweni ngokwesondo.
Ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nokukhula
Ubuntwana kunye nokufikisa, kwelinye icala, zinkcazo, imeko yokuhamba kwaye hayi imeko yokuvuthwa. Akukho sizathu sokucinga ukuba umntwana okanye umntwana ofikisayo othe wabonisa umdla omncinci okanye awunalo kwaphela xa elala nabanye abantu akanakukwazi ukukhula.
Kubonakaliswe ukwahluka kakhulu kwaye ayimiselwanga mgangatho ngokunxulumene nexesha lokulandelelana (oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana oneminyaka elishumi elinesithathu unokuba neemvakalelo ezinamandla zokuthatheka kunye nomnqweno wesini, ngelixa umntwana owahlukileyo oneminyaka eli-XNUMX ubudala engenakho kuba kodwa wafikelela ekuvuthweni ngokwesondo).
Fumanisa umnqweno wakho wesini
Abasetyhini, ngakumbi, banokufumanisa kwaye baqale ukuqonda iminqweno yabo yesini kamva. Ukuba umntwana wakho uveza izimvo zakhe ezivakala ngathi zizi-asexual, kusengqiqweni ukuba nengxoxo efanayo naye nawuphi na umntwana okanye umntwana ofikisayo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo egxininisa ukuba akufuneki beve uxinzelelo lokwenza into yesondo abangayifuniyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kuhlala kuyindlela yokhetho, nokuba kungungqingili, ngqo, bi, okanye i-asexual.
Kubalulekile ukuba uhloniphe kwaye uvule ingqondo malunga noku, ngelixa uvulelekile ukuqhubeka nencoko kwaye ubavumele ukuba baqhubeke bekhula kwaye batshintshe njengoko bekhula kwaye amava amatsha okanye iimvakalelo zisenokuvela okanye zingaveli. Kuya kufuneka ukhumbuze bonke abantwana ukuba banobubele bendalo kwaye bayathandwa., nokuba bathini na ukuba bafunde ntoni malunga nokwabelana ngesondo okanye ngokwesini.