Sithethile kwizithuba ezininzi malunga nokubekwa, sinika izizathu zokuba kutheni kucetyiswa kwaye neengcebiso zokuqhuba ngendlela esempilweni. Namhlanje sikwachaza izibonelelo zokuqhubeka nezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba impilo yakho ithwele njani wena kunye nosana lwakho kwinqanaba leemvakalelo.
Kuya kufuneka uyiqonde loo nto yinto edlula ukuxhomekeka, iyimfuneko yomzimba. Usana lwakho luya luziqhela kubomi obungaphandle kwakho, akunampilo ukunqamla olo qhina kwangoko. Kuya kuba bhetele ngakumbi kwimvakalelo yakhe ukuba siyasihlonipha isingqisho sakhe kuphuhliso. Akulunganga ukwenza ngathi uhamba phambi kokuba ulungele, kwaye akulunganga ukuba uhlukane nobushushu bomzimba wakho kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi ixesha elide.
Ukufunda ukuhlala phesheya, uxinzelelo
Inqanaba lokuqala lobomi bosana lixesha elibuthathaka kakhulu apho umntwana wethu kuya kufuneka aqhelane neemvakalelo ezininzi ezintsha. Yinkqubo apho uyakufuna ukudibana nolusu nolusu. Uya kukudinga ukuba umncede ondle, ukuze umgcine ecocekile kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ufuna ubushushu bomzimba wakho. Ke ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba ulandele Ukuxhamla.
Ukuphuhliswa okufanelekileyo kweentsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha, indlela ye-kangaroo yenziwa, equka ukubamba usana ebeleni.
Le yinkqubo apho ixesha leenyanga ezili-9 emva kokuzalwa lihlonitshwa ngaphandle kokwahlula umntwana kunina. Ingathi senza inyathelo lotshintsho phakathi kokumitha kunye nolunye uphuhliso lwalo ngaphandle konina. Oku kwenzelwa ukuphucula ukukhula kwengqondo, kuba sizalwa sine-25% kuphela yophuhliso esinokulufikelela. Lixesha lokuba usana lwethu lube nolwazelelelo kutshintsho olutsha olubonakalisiweyo.
Izibonelelo zokuthwala impilo yakho kunye neyomntwana wakho
Njengoko besesitshilo, kuyimfuneko ukuba kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi kuyacetyiswa ukuba umntwana wakho angahlukani nawe ukuphucula ukukhula kwakhe. Oku Kuya kukunceda ukomeleza amaqhina okuncamathisela umntwana wakho. Inyaniso yokuba izandla zakho zikhululekile ngelixa umntwana wakho ehlala kufutshane nolusu lwakho iya kukwenza ufumane ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba. Oku kuyakuba luncedo kakhulu kubhalansi lwakho lweemvakalelo. Uyakonwabela ixesha nosana lwakho ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngumbono wakho njengomntu.
Umntwana wakho uya kuzuza nasempilweni, kuba uyakulila kancinci aphumle ngcono. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uchonge iimfuno zayo ngokunxibelelana nomzimba wakho. Kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba aqhelane notshintsho olusuka esibelekweni aye kwilizwe langaphandle. Ngokuziva ubushushu bakho kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo yakho, uya kuziva engoyiki kangako kwiimvakalelo ezintsha.
Ukuze ukufakwa kwezibuko kube luncedo kuthi sobabini, kufuneka sikhethe inkqubo kakuhle.. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba imeko yomntwana ichanekile ukuze ingonakalisi umqolo wakhe. Kananjalo nenkqubo yokuthwala inezincedisi ezaneleyo zomqolo ophetheyo. Inkqubo elungileyo yokuhambisa, nokuba sisikhafu, iMei tai, ubhaka we-ergonomic, ibhegi yegxalaba, isikipa okanye isingxobo, Ayizukulimaza umqolo wakho kuphela, kodwa iya kuyomeleza njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula.
Ukuqhuba njengesiqhelo
Amayeza kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo kuyaqhubela phambili kwaye kusenziwa ezinye izifundo ngokubhekisele ekukhuleni kweemveku nabazali babo. Kungenxa yoko le nto izibonelelo zayo zaziwa ngcono kwaye kukho iinkampani ezininzi ezinomdla wokwenza uyilo olukhuselekileyo nolukhuselekileyo lwabathwali neentsana.
Baninzi nangakumbi abacebisi bezibuko abathi banike iintetho, basazise kwaye basifundise indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo. Kuqhelekile ukubona oomama, ootata kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo bephethe abantwana. Sijongene nokukhula komkhwa, njengakwixesha labo zazineguggies okanye maxi-cosi, isihlalo semoto, njl.
Zizinto ezingenziwanga kuphela kwifashoni, kodwa kukwandisa ukhuseleko kunye nezibonelelo kuphuhliso lwabantwana bethu. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko iqala ukusasazeka, siyangenelwa kukwahluka kuyilo olukhoyo. Ngoku asinakunxiba kuphela ngendlela esempilweni nekhuselekileyo, sinokukhetha imibala kunye neepateni ezisenza sizive sibahle. Ukwabalulekile kwaye kufuneka ukhathalele ukuzithemba kwakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ukukuthwala uzive ulungile, ukuthwala akunakunceda ukuba kukwenza wena okanye usana lwakho uzive ungonwabanga.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba, nangasiphi na isizathu, ukuthwala akukhuthazwa wena okanye usana lwakho, akukho nto yenzekayo. Khumbula ukuba xa usendleleni, useta ithoni, akufuneki uzive unetyala. Nantoni na oyenzayo, iya kuhlala ilungile emntwaneni wakho.
Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngamazwi akho, ndinamava amnandi kakhulu ngezibuko, intombi yam sele inonyaka ubudala kwaye ndiyaqhubeka nokuzibophelela, kuthi kube njalo kwaye kuyinto entle. Kule bhlog uzakufumana okuninzi ngeposi malunga nokuthwala okunokukunceda ukuba ukwenze ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye unokufumana ulwazi malunga nayiphi na imibuzo onayo malunga nokondla okanye ukukhula komntwana wakho. Lowo ngumsebenzi wethu, ukuba oomama banamhlanje banoncedo kunye nolwazi abaludingayo ukuze babe ngabona mama bangcono, bahlala ngendlela yabo their