Amaxesha amaninzi sichukumisa iinyawo okanye izandla zosana lwethu kwaye ziyabanda, ke sicinga ukuba umntwana wethu uyabanda kwaye akusoloko kunjalo. Kungenxa yokuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alukabi nayo inkqubo yegazi ephuhliswe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi xa umntwana ebanda okanye eshushu, kufuneka uthinte imilenze yakhe, iingalo okanye intamo, kuba kulapho ubushushu bomntwana buva khona.
Ukuba kuyabanda, kufanelekile ukuba ubeke iingubo ezininzi ezingatyebanga kakhulu endaweni yesiqwenga esinye esishushu. Kwimeko apho kushushu, ungasusa impahla ngaphandle kokuyikhulula kakhulu. Ukuba kushushu akufuneki ukuba uwukhuphe phantse unganxibanga, kungcono usoloko unempahla eshushu, kuba utshintsho lwemozulu lunokuphola.