Uhlobo lomama esifuna ukuba lulo yinto esiye sonke sayiqwalasela ngamanye amaxesha. Ngaphambi okanye emva kokukhulelwa. Mhlawumbi sicinge ngomama esiza kuba nguye xa sibona umama ejongana nonyana wakhe embindini wevenkile. Y Ngelo xesha, sonke sasicinga ukuba asiyi kuba njalo, abantwana bethu bebengenakuba nomsindo, kuba siza kubafundisa ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Ke abantwana bokwenyani bafika kwaye uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto njengoko ubulindele. Yonke into oyicingileyo ngokuba ngumama yayisisiqhamo sefantasy entle. Abantwana bakho Banomsindo, kuba bangabantwana, bayaphila, baneemvakalelo kwaye abazi ukuba bangazithetha njani kakuhle. Bazivumelanisa nehlabathi apho yonke into iyatshintsha kubo. Kulapho ke kufanele ukuba uzibuze "Umama ofuna ukuba kubantwana bakho."
Iindidi okanye iintlobo zomama
Kuyinyaniso engenakuphikwa ukuba Umntwana ngamnye lihlabathi kwaye ke umama ngamnye ukwahlukile. Uhlobo lomama onguye luya kuchazwa ikakhulu bubuntu bakho. Kungenxa yoko le nto kunzima kakhulu ukuseka uhlobo oluthile lomama. Nangona kunjalo, siya kuzama ukugubungela iiprofayili ezithile, ukuze sincede uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuba ngumama onjani kubantwana bakho. Siza kushiya eminye imibhobho, kodwa asinakho ukuyigubungela iphela.
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Umama opholileyo:
Ngunina onika inkululeko iphelele emntwaneni wakhe, kukuvumela ukuba ufumane, ulinge, wenze ubuchule bakho. Konke oku ngenjongo yophuhliso lwayo. Umngcipheko wokuba lolu hlobo lukamama kukuba umntwana okhula ngaphandle kwemida uya kuba nexesha elinzima lokwamkela izithethe kunye nabasemagunyeni kwixesha elizayo.
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Umama okhuselayo:
Ngaba yile nto Wayeza kunikela ngomphefumlo wakhe ngenxa yonyana wakhe. Ewe kuyinyani ukuba sonke singathanda, kodwa yena Icacisa rhoqo. Awuzukubeka kuphela imida engaphezulu kunokuba iyimfuneko, kananjalo, ngokungazi, uya kuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba enze nawuphi na umzamo ngokwakhe, kuba uya kucinga ukuba ngale ndlela, uya kukuphepha ukubandezeleka. Kuyamangalisa ukuba umama wakho akukhathalele kwaye akukhusele. Umngcipheko wokuba lolu hlobo lomama kukuwugqithisa. Ke ungamenza umntwana wakho akhule enemiba yokuzithemba kunye nokungazithembi okunzulu. Abantwana boomama abagqithisileyo banokufumana iithagethi ezilula kubaxhaphazi kunye nabaxhaphazi, ngenxa yoku kungazithembi. Okanye ngokuchaseneyo, banokuba ngabaxhaphazi nabaxhaphazi, ngakumbi oomama babo, kuba baya kumbona njengesicaka esifezekisa imiyalelo yabo kunokuba abe ngumntu oneemvakalelo.
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Umama ongenanto:
Kuye awukhathali nokuba umntwana wakho wenzani, uthini okanye ucinga ntoni, ukuba ayimthinteli ekukhokeleni ubomi bakhe ndiphuphe. Ngokwesiqhelo ngoomama abanotyekelo oluthile lobundlobongela, abafumanisa kunzima ukuba novelwano ngabantwana babo. Olu hlobo lomama kukuba bahlala bexakekile neziqu zabo kangangokuba baphose ukukhula nokukhula kwabantwana babo.
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Umama woXolelwaniso:
Umdibanisi, yonke into yingxoxo kunye nothethathethwano. Ukuhlonipha iimvakalelo zonyana wakhe ngamanye amaxesha kuphelela kumkhokelela ekubeni anikezele, kwizinto eziyingozi kuye. Esi sidingo sokudibanisa yonke into singakhokelela kukungabikho koqeqesho lokwenyani kwaye sibhidanise omncinci..
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Umama ogunyazisiweyo okanye "umama wosayitsheni":
Ngokwaba mama, yonke into ifezekiswa ngomgudu nokusebenza nzima. Ukuya ku akukho mntu ebomini owabanika nantoni na kwaye baphila ngokuzingca ngayo. Kulungile ukuba abantwana babe nemithetho, imida kunye noqeqesho. Nangona kunjalo, ukugqitha kuyo kunokubangela uxinzelelo, unxunguphalo, unxunguphalo kunye nemvukelo eninzi.
Umama ofanelekileyo wabantwana bakho
Ngokwenyani umama olungileyo kubo, uya kuhlala unguye. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uyazenza iimpazamo, nabo bazakwenza njalo, kwaye bobabini baya kufunda kwiimpazamo.. Yiloo nto ukukhula malunga nayo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba bekunokukhethwa phakathi kwala macandelo akhankanyiweyo, ngokobuqu, andizukukhetha nayiphi na, ukuba ayizizo zonke. Kuba obu bomi benziwa ngamaxesha, kwaye kumzuzu ngamnye umntwana ufuna into eyahlukileyo.
Umntwana ufuna umama opholileyo omvumela ukuba azivakalise kwaye aphuhlise ubuchule bakhe. Ufuna umama okhuselayo, ngamaxesha apho uziva usengozini. Umama ongenzi nto ubalulekile kuye xa efuna ukukhula, esenza umzekelo wobume bokuncamathisela. Umama oxolelanayo kwimvukelo yehomoni yokufikisa. Kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, ufuna "umama wosayitsheni" ambonise ngeenyani ukuba ubomi abukho buhle, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba kwenziwe loo nto. Umama okufundisa ngexabiso lomsebenzi kunye nolwaneliseko lokufumana yonke into eyedwa.
Owona mama ungoyena mntwana wakho, unguye kwaye uya kuhlala enguwe, bonke, ukuya kwinqanaba abayifunayo. Nangona kunjalo, Umama endifuna ukuba kuye ebantwaneni bam nguye owaziyo ukusebenzisa uhlobo ngalunye lomama ngexesha elifanelekileyo, oqondayo kwaye abakhuthazayo. Lowo ukhula yonke imihla kunye nabo.