Baninzi abazali okwangoku abafaka iifoto zabantwana babo abancinci kunxibelelwano ngaphandle kokukhathalela kakhulu iziphumo zekamva, kodwa bajolise ekwabelaneni ngemifanekiso nosapho kunye nabahlobo kunye nokufumana 'ukuthanda' ukwanelisa iimfuno zabo zokhathalelo. Oku akunakuba nayo indlela elungileyo yokuhamba ukuba sihlala sithumela imifanekiso yabantwana bethu ngaphandle kokucinga ngenye into.
Ukongeza kwinto enokuba yingozi kubantwana ukupapasha imifanekiso yabo kwi-intanethi okanye kwi-Intanethi ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo izithintelo zokhuseleko, kunokuba yingozi ngakumbi ukuba ngokuhamba kweminyaka le mifanekiso iqhubeka ukuthunyelwa kwi-Intanethi kungekho mntu uyilawulayo. kaninzi.
Intombazana yaseAustria imangalela abazali bayo ngokuthumela iifoto zayo kuFacebook ukususela ebuntwaneni
Mhlawumbi nawe ungomnye wootata okanye oomama abangenangxaki ngokufaka imifanekiso yabantwana bakho nangayiphi na indlela. Ukuba kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba unomdla kwimeko yentombazana eneminyaka eyi-18 yase-Austrian egqibe kwelokuba imangalele abazali bayo-kuba bengakhange babalule ukubaluleka kwezicelo zayo-ngokwabelana ngekhulu lezithombe zayo UFacebook okoko ebemncinci ngaphandle kokuvuma kwakhe. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba xa ndandimncinci ndandingazi ukuba zeziphi iinethiwekhi zonxibelelwano, ngoku kunjalo kwaye ufuna ukususa yonke loo mifanekiso ayilayishwa ngabazali bakhe xa wayesemncinci.
Umfazi omncinci uphawula ukuba akafuni ukuba ezo foto zibekho kwiinethiwekhi zonxibelelwano kuba zibangela ukuba ubomi bakhe bube liphupha elibi. Kuko konke oku kwaye kuba kubonakala ngathi abazali bakhe khange bamnike ngqalelo ingako ekucingeni kwakhe ukuba izakudlula, ekugqibeleni le ntombazana igqibe ekubeni ibathathele amanyathelo asemthethweni. Kubonakala ngathi abazali bakhe bayenza esidlangalaleni nayiphi na imifanekiso ethathiweyo ukusukela ebelusana kwaye eli bhinqa liselula namhlanje libangela iingxaki zeemvakalelo.
Kodwa ngokungathi ayonelanga, emva kokuba intombazana ithathe onke la manyathelo kumzamo wokuzama ukwenza ukuba abazali bayo bamphulaphule, kubonakala ngathi abazimiselanga ukwenza njalo ... nokuba banabahlobo abangaphezu kwama-700 Kumnatha wonxibelelwano kaFacebook. Ndiyathemba ukuba uninzi lwabantu abangama-700 abayi kuba lusapho olusondeleyo okanye abahlobo, ke bavumela abantu abaninzi kakhulu ukuba babubone ubomi babo obusondeleyo kunye nobentombi yabo. Utata uthathela ingqalelo ukuba ekubeni ingumbhali wemifanekiso, unamalungelo amaninzi kwiifoto kunentombi yakhe evela kuyo. Igqwetha lomfazi omncinci lifuna ukongeza ekususeni iifoto, ukuba intombazana inikwe imbuyekezo yemali ngomonakalo weemvakalelo.
Lumkela ukwaphula amalungelo abantwana
Abantwana banelungelo lokhuselo lwabucala lwabo, kwaye thina bantu badala ikakhulu sinoxanduva loku kwenzekayo. Ukuthumela imifanekiso yabantwana bakho kwimidiya yoluntu kubabonisa ngokuthe ngqo kumakhulu, amawaka okanye nangaphezulu abanye abantu abanokufikelela kwiifoto. Kodwa eyona nto imbi ayisiyiyo, eyona nto imbi kukuba awuyazi into abanokuyenza bonke abo bantu ngemifanekiso yabantwana bakho. Abanye baya kubajonga nje, njengabo, kwaye ayikho enye into. Kodwa abanye banokwabelana nabo, bagcine loo mifanekiso, okanye bayisebenzise ngeengcinga ezimbi.
Iifoto zabantwana zinokutsala abantu abaxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo, abo baxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesini ... Kwaye eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba ngabazali ngokwabo ababeke loo mifanekiso kwitreyi kumnatha wonxibelelwano. Andifuni ukukukhathaza ngayo yonke le nto, kodwa yinyani kwaye baninzi abazali ekunokwenzeka ukuba ababuqondi ubunzulu bokufaka imifanekiso yabantwana babo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kwaye bayenze ukuba ibe sesidlangalaleni, apho amawaka abantu anokufikelela kuyo naphi na Okomzuzwana.
Kwaye kuthekani ngomonakalo weemvakalelo ...?
Njengoko kwenzekile kwintombazana yase-Austrian, mhlawumbi abazali bakhe khange bacinge nangaliphi na ixesha ngomonakalo abawubangela intombi yabo, mhlawumbi hayi ngalo mzuzu, kodwa kuye ngekamva alikho kude kakhulu, njengangoku ngoku xa intombazana encinci ufuna ukususa yonke loo mifanekiso imbangela ukuba abe nengxaki yeemvakalelo.
Lixesha lokuba ulibale umnqweno wokutsala umdla wabanye abantu, ulubeke ecaleni ulwaneliseko oluveliswe ngu'Favorite 'kaFacebook kwaye uqalise ukucinga ngolwaneliseko lokwenene oluza kukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nabantwana bakho, thatha yonke imifanekiso oyifunayo, kodwa ukuze ihlale kubucala endlwini yakho. Awudingi ukuthumela nantoni na eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho omncinci kunxibelelwano ukuze wabelane nabantu abangamakhulu, ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sabo bajonge kuFacebook wakho ngenxa yokukruquka hayi kuba bekhathalele into oyenzayo ... kwaye ngoba uya kuphepha ukubeka lonke ukhuseleko lwabantwana bakho emngciphekweni.
Imfihlo kuqala
Kodwa ukuba ngaphandle kwayo yonke le nto ufuna ukubeka imifanekiso yabantwana bakho kwi-Intanethi kuba uyithatha njengeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwabelana nabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo nosapho, qiniseka ukuba ngenene ngabo bantu kwaye hayi amakhulu abanye ongabaziyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba xa wabelana ngefoto yabantwana bakho kwiinethiwekhi zonxibelelwano, unemfihlo enkulu ukuze ingabi yifoto kawonke-wonke kwaye kungabikho nokuba 'abahlobo bakho' bayibone, kuba uya kuba usandisa isangqa kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuba unabahlobo abalungileyo kubahlobo bakho kwimidiya yoluntu kwaye kuphela kwabo banokubona imifanekiso. Ukongeza, kufuneka babe ngabantu abathembekileyo ngokupheleleyo abaziyo ukuba abayi kwenza nto ngezo mifanekiso zabantwana bakho ... kwaye ukuba uyathandabuza okanye unabahlobo abaninzi kakhulu ngaso nasiphi na isizathu, vele uphephe umngcipheko kwaye ungabelani nabantwana bakho iifoto kuthungelwano lwentlalo. Banelungelo lokuba bangavezwa kwabanye kuba ukuba ikhona imifanekiso, ngabo abagqiba ukuba benze ntoni ngezo foto xa banokuzivavanya ngokuzimeleyo.
Inomdla. Ndiyikhusela ngokupheleleyo intombazana kwaye ndivumelana ngokupheleleyo nomyalezo ofuna ukushiya eli nqaku. Ngoku, ndicinga ukuba kule mihla akunakwenzeka ukuba iifoto zihlale ekhaya. AndinaFacebook kwaye ndiyazi ukuba usapho kunye nabahlobo bafaka iifoto apho ndavela khona, andizange ndiyithande kodwa ndanyamezela. Ngoku ndinomfana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ndiyathanda ukumfota kwaye ndibaxelela kuphela ngeposi ukuqondisa izihlobo kunye nomhlobo ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa ndiye ndaqala ukuba nengxaki yokuba umamazala kunye nabazala, iifoto endibathumele zona, zafakwa kwi-Facebook nganye. Nangona ndibacelile ukuba bangakwenzi, nabo benze njalo. Yeka ukuthumela iifoto kubo, kodwa basafaka iifoto zonyana wam xa bemthatha ngeekhamera zabo. Kufuneka kwenziwe ntoni kwezi meko? Kungenxa yoko le nto ndisithi kule mihla akunakwenzeka ukuba iifoto zihlale ekhaya. Ndiyayicaphukela into yokuba unyana wam ekwiintanethi zonxibelelwano lwabanye kwaye abantu bayambona ukuba mna nonyana wam akayazi. Eyoyikisayo kwaye ngelishwa ayikwazi ukuyeka.
Molo Débora, kukho into ebizwa ngokuba 'ilungile kumfanekiso' kwaye ayinakuhlaselwa; Nokuba bangamalungu osapho, unelungelo lokubamela ukuba bangathathi foto, okanye loo nto, okanye bafunde ukungabelani ngayo nge-RS.
Iimbambano kufuneka zisoloko zizama ukusonjululwa ngencoko, kodwa ukuba loo ntombazana ibalahlile abazali bayo ngokungafuni ukususa iifoto, andisiboni isizathu sokuba ungabinakho ukwenza okufanayo nabanye abantu.
A ubingelele.