Akukho mntu wathi ubudlelwane kunye noomazala babulula, nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunjalo. Xa usapho lukhula kwaye uba ngumama kunye nomamazala wakho umakhulu, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha kubakho ukungavisisani okubangelwa zizimvo ezahlukileyo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba kube yingxaki konke konke ukuba ukungafani kuyasondela kunxibelelwano nakwintlonipho, nangona akusoloko kulula ukwenza njalo.
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuhlala ekhaya ngokusisigxina ukhathalela abantwana bakho okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uthathe isigqibo sokubuyela emsebenzini endaweni yokuhlala ekhaya ... Sisigqibo sakho ekufuneka sihlonitshwe ngumntu wonke, nangona mhlawumbi ingunyoko -umazala ufuna ukuthetha into ngayo. Nokuba ungaluthini uluvo lwakho, sikunika iingcebiso zokujongana ngcono nale meko kwaye uqhubeke nemvisiswano yosapho.
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ungumama osebenzayo okanye umama ohlala ekhaya, umkhwekazi wakho unokufuna ukuthetha into malunga nesigqibo sakho malunga nokuba ungasebenzi okanye ungasebenzi. Usenokukugxeka, nokuba ebekhe wakwenza oko ngexesha elidlulileyo.
Kodwa unokwenza ntoni ngayo? Amagqabantshintshi anokuba yingozi, ngokungathi uhlala ekhaya okanye usebenza wenzakalisa usapho lwakho. Ukuqala kwakho ukuva izimvo ezinje, xelela umazala wakho ukuba isigqibo sakho sokuhlala ekhaya okanye sisebenze ngaphandle kwekhaya sinomdla wentsapho yakho. Ukuba uyaqhubeka nokukwenza uzive ungalunganga ngesigqibo sakho, lixesha lokuba iqabane lakho lize ngaphambili limxelele ukuba nobabini nenze isigqibo kunye kuba yeyona nto ilungele usapho lwakho. Ungamxelela ukuba uyaluhlonipha uluvo lwakhe kodwa ayisiyiyo into anokugqiba ngayo. Ukuba uthetha izinto ngentlonipho, yonke into izakulunga!