Kubazali, impilo yabantwana babo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokuyijonga into ebulala abantu abangama-50.000 XNUMX ngonyaka eSpain: ukutshaya. Ukutshaya kuyabulala kwaye oku kuyinyani. Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyikhumbule ukuba awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho afikise ukutshaya kukuba kufuneka ubeke umzekelo kwaye ungatshayi. Ukongeza ekunyamekeleni impilo yakho kunye nokuphepha izifo ezingeyomfuneko okanye ukusweleka phambi kwexesha lakho, uya kuthintela nabantwana bakho ukuba bangaweli kulo mkhwa uyingozi.
Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyatshaya okanye akatshayi, kuya kufuneka ujonge imiqondiso yokwazi ukuba uyayenza okanye akwenzi njalo. Ukuba umntwana wakho mdala noko, unokuba nexhala lokuba sele eqale ukutshaya. Iimpawu zokubukela zibandakanya ukuphefumla kakubi, ukuphefumla kancinci, iimpahla ezinamabala okanye ezinukayo, ukukhohlela kunye nokudakumba.
Ukuba kubonakala ngathi uqalile ukutshaya, kuya kufuneka uthethe nomntwana wakho umxelele ukuba ucinga ukuba uyatshaya. kodwa zama ukugcina isimo sokunxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo nangokunyaniseka. Sukuzikhusela, okanye umgwebe okanye umhlasele, kuba emva koko unyana wakho uza kuvalela kwiqela lakhe kwaye angafuni ukuxelela nantoni na kwaye angaziva engakuthembi. Buza umntwana wakho ngqo ukuba uyatshaya, kwaye ukuba impendulo ngu-ewe, melana nomnqweno wokumngxolisa okanye uthethe kakubi ngaye.
Mxelele uzolile ukuba le nto iyakuphoxa kodwa ayikashiywa lixesha lokuba ayeke ukutshaya. Bazise ngazo zonke iziphumo ezibi zokutshaya kunye nokubaluleka kwexesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide lokuyeka lo mkhwa ubulalayo. Ukufa kwangaphambi kwexesha kunokuthintelwa ngokungakhanyisi icuba. Qala isicwangciso esidibeneyo sendlela yokuphepha ukutshaya. Mxelele ukuba xa umbamba etshaya kuya kuba neziphumo kwaye niyavumelana ngazo kunye.
Ukuba umntwana wakho utshaya kakhulu, unokufuna uncedo lokuyeka kwaye afune ezinye izixhobo, thetha nogqirha wakho ukuze ufumane ezona zisombululo zilungileyo kwimeko yakho.