Ukuba ngumama nomfazi namhlanje ngumsebenzi ongenasiphelo, ongapheliyo. Kuyangqinwa ukuba abasetyhini abasebenza ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya bahlupheka ngamanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kunye nokuziva benetyala. Njengokuba wonke umthwalo kubo awonelanga, bayazibeka ityala ngokungakwazi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yabo ngokugqibeleleyo. Masibone ukuba yintoni i- Uxinzelelo lokuba ngumama nomfazi.
Umfazi ogqibeleleyo
Umbutho woluntu ulindele ukuba sikhathalele abantwana bethu ngokungathi asinamsebenzi, kwaye sisebenze ngokungathi asingoomama. Kwaye oko akunakwenzeka kwaphela. Asinakusebenza iiyure ezingama-36 ngosuku. Asizizo iirobhothi okanye asizenzi. Singabantu abanamandla amancinci ekufuneka behlule ukuze bakwazi ukufikelela kuyo yonke into. Kwaye le bango langaphandle, kunye nemfuno yangaphakathi, ibangela uxinzelelo olukhulu.
Xa ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, umsebenzi uyaqhubeka ungapheli. Oomatshini bokuhlamba iimpahla, izidlo sangokuhlwa, iibhafu, ukubetha ... ezinye izinto ezijingayo ezithatha amandla okugqibela oshiyekileyo. Akukho xesha lishiyekileyo kuwe, sizibeka ngasemva kwaye sibeka i-othomathikhi. Ukudinwa okungagungqiyo kushiya iimvakalelo zokudinwa kwengqondo okuthatha umzimba emzimbeni.
Uxolelwaniso phakathi kobomi bomsebenzi kunye nokuba ngumama namhlanje iseyi-utopia ngelishwa. Kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini kufuneka luthathe isigqibo phakathi kwetyala lokushiya abantwana babo besebancinci kakhulu, okanye ukungabinakho ukukhulisa ikhondo labo lobungcali.
Ukuba ngumama kunzima
Ukuba sele sele sikulo ihlabathi, kunzima ukuba ngumfazi (iisilingi, ucalucalulo ngokwesondo, imivuzo ephantsi), kunjalo ngakumbi ukuba sikwangomama. Basithumela imiqondiso yayo yonke into ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze ube ngumama olungileyo, imbewu kwingqondo yakho ukuba awuyenzi loo nto, awuyenzi kakuhle. Uxinzelelo luhlala luhleli.
Sele siyazi ukuba uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo luchaphazela umzimba nengqondo yethu ngendlela ekhohlakeleyo. Ukwengeza kwi ichaphazela ukulala kwethu, ukusebenza, uxinzelelo kunye namandla, iyasichaphazela ukwetyisa kwethu ukutya, sandise intloko ebuhlungu kunye neentlungu zemisipha, kwaye kudala izifo okanye ukuwohloka izifo ebezisele zikhona.
Asifezekanga
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba masizivume iintsilelo zethu. Oko kuyaqonda ukuba sinamandla amancinci ekufuneka siwalawule. Kwaye kuzo zonke izibophelelo zethu asinakho ukuzilibala. Abo kuthi batsala inqwelwana, abo basezantsi komwonyo nabo bafuna ixesha lethu. Ibhafu yokuhlambela, incwadi elungileyo, iglasi yewayini, ukungqungqa, ukudlala imidlalo. Zinike ixesha lokuzikhethela, ukunqamla izinto ozithandayo. Ukunxibelelana nawe kwakhona. Ukuyeka ukuba ngumama wabuyela kuwe.
Asingabo bonke abantu abavakalisa uxinzelelo ngendlela efanayo. Kukho abantu ebanika ukutya, abanye ngokuchaseneyo, abanye ithatha ubuthongo kwaye inike abanye. Kuya kufuneka sifunde ukumamela imizimba yethu ukuze sibone ukukhanya kwetrafiki. Yazi ukuba umzimba wethu uphendula njani xa sixinezelekile kwaye ngawaphi amanqanaba. Ke singayeka ngaphambi kokuba sitshiswe kwaye iya ngaphezulu. Ukuba awunakuba wedwa, musa ukuthandabuza ukucela uncedo kwiingcali. Isazi ngengqondo sinokukunceda ngcono ukumelana noxinzelelo kunye neempawu zalo.
Simele yeka ukuzinyanzela nathi. Yeka ukuzama ukuba ngumama ogqibeleleyo, umfazi ogqibeleleyo kunye nomsebenzi ogqibeleleyo. Imfezeko ayikho. Kuya kufuneka sifumane uzinzo apho siziva sikhululekile, sihambisa uxanduva ekhaya, simisela izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, sahlula phakathi kwezinto ezingxamisekileyo nezingxamisekileyo, sizicwangcise kakuhle. Yiba nengqondo ngakumbi kulindelo lwethu.
Zivuyise ngayo yonke into oyenzileyo, musa ukuzibetha kwaye uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphumelele Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu.
Kuba khumbula ... ukwenza izinto zitshintshe ngaphandle, kufuneka siqale ngokuzitshintsha.