Uthando luvakalelo oluthathwa ngokungakhathali ukuba uziva kwaye abanye baziva ngathi. Ngokwenyani, uthando luziva lunzuluInokuba yimvakalelo ephikisanayo kuba kanye njengoko ikwenza uzive wonwabe kakhulu, ikwanakho nokukwenza ukhale okanye uve olona lusizi.
Khawufane ucinge xa ungena egumbini lomntwana wakho kwaye ufumanise ukuba sele epeyinte lonke udonga ngepeyinti, amakishayo ... wenze into entle yobugcisa, kodwa uyenzile eludongeni ... Wenza ntoni? Abazali abaninzi banokuba nomsindo kwaye babe nomsindo, banokuphela bengxola okanye bangcangcazelisa abantwana babo. KUNYELe mpazamo enkulu kuba inochuku. Ukuba ndlongondlongo nabantwana kunye nokuba ndlongondlongo, kufundisa oku kuphela.
Abazali kufuneka baqonde ukuba ukudlala nokuvavanya amandla abo yinxalenye yokukhula kwabantwana. Awudingi ukufihla ukuphoxeka kwakho, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uxelele umntwana wakho ukuba akukho nto imnqanda ukuba angamthandi, nokuba ingayiyo. Kodwa loo ndlela yokuziphatha ayichanekanga kwaye kuya kufuneka uhlambulule konke oko kungcola ukuze yonke into ibe njengoko kufanelekile.
Abazali abangxolisa abantwana babo ngokwenza intlekele abayi kumthintela umntwana wabo ekubeni ayenze kwakhona. Ukuba ubacaphukisa ngokwaneleyo, baya kuyenza kwakhona kwaye mhlawumbi babi nangakumbi. Abanye abantwana baya kuphendula kuhlaselo lwabo ngoxinzelelo, ukuzenzakalisa, ukuba likhoboka labo kunye nokuzithemba okuphantsi okanye kwixesha elide.
Kubalulekile ukuba nokuba uyacaphuka, usebenzise iimvakalelo ezakhayo ukujongana neengxaki okanye iimpikiswano ezinokuvela. Thathela ingqalelo ingqeqesho eyakhayo kunye nendlela uthando oluyimfuneko ngayo ukuze abantwana bakho bakhule beziva bethandwa kwaye bethandwa ngamaxesha onke. Uthando sesona sixhobo sokufundisa sabantwana!