Indlela yokubhiyozela uSuku kaTata ukuba utata akekho

Amawakawaka amakhwenkwe namantombazana ajonge phambili ku Usuku lukaTata ukumnika eso sipho abasilungiselele ngothando olukhulu. Iivenkile zizaliswe ziiposta kunye neemveliso zokumothusa utata kwaye, kwizikolo ezininzi, ubugcisa okanye eminye imisebenzi yenziwe ukunikezela ngalo mhla.

Kodwa, Kwenzeka ntoni xa utata engekho? Kubantwana abaninzi, Usuku lukaTata alungonobangela wovuyo. Utata usenokungabikho ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo: ukusebenza, ukwahlukana, ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga okanye ngenxa yokusweleka. Kufuneka kwakhona kukhunjulwe ukuba, ukongeza kusapho lwesiNtu, zininzi ezinye iimodeli: abazali abangabodwa, oomama ababini okanye ootata ababini, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu okanye oomalume abakhulisa abantwana…. . Kuzo zonke iimeko, ukubhiyozelwa koSuku lukaTata kunokuchaphazela abantwana abangenatata ebomini babo ukuya kwinqanaba elikhulu okanye elincinci.

Indlela yokubhiyozela uSuku kaTata ukuba utata akekho?

Iinketho ukubhiyozela (okanye hayi) Usuku kaTata zininzi njengoko iintlobo zeentsapho kunye neemeko ngamnye. Umntwana okhule engenamntu katata akaziva ngokufanayo nomntwana onyanzelweyo ukuba ahlukane, njengomntwana ohlala notatomkhulu wakhe okanye usapho lwamafanasini. Umntu ngamnye lihlabathi kwaye asinako ukwenza ngokubanzi. Nangona kunjalo, ndingathanda ukukunika iingcebiso zokuchitha olu suku ngeyona ndlela ibhetele.

Vumela umntwana wakho abuze kwaye achaze iimvakalelo zabo

Umntwana wakho uyazibuza ukuba kutheni utata wakhe engekho. Unokuziva ukhathazekile kancinci okanye ungalawuleki ngakumbi kunesiqhelo. Zama ukulungela ukuphendula kwaye uhambe naye ngothando.  Thetha naye malunga nemeko ngokunyaniseka kodwa uhlala uphepha ukungamfanisi utata wakhe.

Ukuba omncinci uziva eneentloni, zama ukubonelela ngendawo efanelekileyo kwaye umvumele ukuba athethe ngokukhululekileyo.

Ukuba wena notata nihlukene

Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana nguye ogqiba ukuba ufuna ukuchitha olu suku nabani kwaye nabani. Ungayichitha imini notata okanye, ukuba ubudlelwane buhle, nobathathu ninokwenza into kunye.

Ukuba utata akakho ngokuzithandela, umntwana wakho unokuziva enomsindo okanye enomsindo. Kuqhelekile kwaye kufuneka umvumele ukuba aveze iimvakalelo zakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho uziva ngathi, unokucwangcisa usuku olukhethekileyo nosapho okanye uze nezinto abazithandayo kwaye uzigcine ziphazamiseka. Ukuba uziva ungenzi nto, yehlisa umoya, into ebalulekileyo kukuba uziva ehlonitshwa kwaye ethandwa nokuba utata wakhe akekho.

Xa utata engekho

Utata uhlala engekho ngenxa yeemeko ezingaphaya kwamandla akhe. Isenokuba ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi okanye ngenxa yokuba uhlala kude kakhulu. Nangeyiphi ndlela, Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho azi ukuba, nokuba akakho, usenaye utata omthanda ephambene. Unokucwangcisa kwangaphambili kwaye umntwana alungiselele isipho okanye ileta ayithumele kuyise. Unokwenza ubuchwephesha obutsha kwaye ucwangcise umnxeba wevidiyo wosuku nexesha elibonisiweyo. Ngale ndlela, omncinci angathetha notata wakhe okwethutyana kwaye azive esondele kuye. Unokulungiselela isidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa, nokuba unescreen phakathi.

Ukuba utata uswelekile

Xa utata utata uye wasweleka, ukubhiyozela uSuku kaTata kunokuba umzuzwana wokukukhumbula ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Ungandwendwela ingcwaba lakhe umphathele iintyatyambo okanye ezinye iinkcukacha ezenziwe ngabantwana. Unokuchitha nasemva kwemini ujonga iifoto okanye wabelane ngeememori. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukupheka okona kutya kukaTata bakuthandayo okanye baye kwenye indawo ababeqhele ukuhamba nayo.

Nayiphi na indlela yokumkhumbula kunye nokuhlawula irhafu encinci kubomi bakhe yayisemthethweni. Ewe ngokunjalo, Ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo umnqweno womntwana kwaye umazise kwangaphambili ngezicwangciso esinazo. Ukuba awuziva ngathi okanye unqabile, kungcono ukutshintsha ezo zicwangciso zokuthintela usuku ekubeni lube sisiselo esibi emntwaneni wakho.

Bhiyozela usuku kunye nomnye utata obhekisa kuye

Amaxesha amaninzi akukho tata, kodwa ukhona abanye ootata babajonga abantwana bethu kwaye babathanda ngokungalawulekiyo. Ingangutatomkhulu, umalume, umhlobo wosapho, utitshala… Nabani na abantwana baziva besondele kuye kunye nabo bafuna ukuba neenkcukacha okanye ukubhiyozela olu suku.

Guqula uSuku lukaTata lube lusuku loSapho

Kwizikolo ezininzi nakwiintsapho, ukubhiyozelwa kweentsuku zikatata okanye ezomama akusabhiyozelwa, kushukumisela umbhiyozo kuSuku loSapho. Kukhetho olwahlukileyo olunokusetyenziselwa ukuphuma endleleni kwimeko apho utata engekhoyo. Unokuthatha nethuba lokucacisela umntwana wakho ukuba Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zosapho kwaye ngaphakathi koku kwahluka, okubalulekileyo luthando abalushoyo. 

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuchitha usuku lukaTata. Indlela oyichitha ngayo ixhomekeke kwiimvakalelo nakwiminqweno yakho. Ngayiphi na imeko, into ebalulekileyo kukuba abantwana baziva bethandwa kwaye bekhuselekile, nokuba utata akekho.