Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu ababaqeqeshi abazukulwana ngendlela efanayo nabazali abenza ngayo kubantwana babo. Ngapha koko, bona ngokwabo bayaqonda ukuba imfundo abayinike abantwana babo ayinanto yakwenza nendlela abaphatha ngayo abazukulwana babo ngoku. Kodwa enyanisweni, indima yabo yahlukile kwaye ayingabo abafanele ukuqeqesha abazukulwana babo, banokuba nendima ebhetyebhetye ngakumbi kwaye engaphantsi kwegunya.
Ukuba umzukulwana uqala ukungaziphathi kakuhle, kuya kufuneka babe neendlela ezithile zokufundisa baphakamise imikhono yabo ukuze baqondise imeko ngaphandle kwezifo ezinkulu. Nokuba ungakanani na umzukulwana wakho, ukuba ungumakhulu okanye utatomkhulu kubalulekile ukuba uyazi indlela yokwenza izinto kwizihlandlo ezahlukeneyo kwaye ngale ndlela, abantwana bakho baya kubona ukuba uyaqhubeka unezipho ezilungileyo zemfundo. Zeziphi izicwangciso ezilungileyo eziza kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi, kubandakanya ubudala bomzukulwana kunye nemeko yakho yomzimba.
Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana
Umntwana okhalayo unokubacaphukisa ootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Ukuba awukhathalelanga umntwana amashumi eminyaka, awunakuqiniseka ukuba wenzeni. Ukuba kufuneka unakekele usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa okanye usana lomzukulwana, licebo elihle ukugcina ezi ngcebiso engqondweni (Ukongeza ukulandela iingcebiso zabazali bomntwana).
Ukutya
Umntwana osandula kutyiswa otye kamnandi akunakulindeleka ukuba alambe. Usana olungqongqo lusenokubonakala lulambile kakhulu kuba uluma inqindi ulile ungathuthuzeleki. Kodwa ukutya akuyi kunceda ukunciphisa oku kungahambi kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukuzama ukumenzela ukuba atye kancinci, ngoba nokuba akalambanga angazola.
I-Movimiento
Ukuhamba ngokuthantamisayo kulungile ekuthomalaliseni iintsana. Ukuhamba nosana lwakho yeyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo yokuzola xa uhamba, kodwa le ndlela iyadinisa. Ukuba awuziva ukulungele ngokwasemzimbeni ukuhamba nosana lwakho ezingalweni zakho, ungazama isitulo esigungqisisayo okanye ubambe xa uhleli. Ukutshintshwa kwabantwana nako kuyasebenza, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukubeka umntwana wakho ngaphakathi nangaphandle kuba kuya kufuneka ugoqe kakhulu.
Hum
Ukumngcungcuthekisa okanye ukumculela kamnandi umntwana wakho nako kunokumzolisa. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uyenze gwenxa, into ebalulekileyo emntwaneni kukuba isandi selizwi lakho sinokumthomalalisa.
Iimpahla ezifanelekileyo
Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana ushushu kakhulu okanye ubanda kakhulu. Nangona ukusongela usana kunokuba yinto eqinisekisayo, xa abantwana baneenyanga ezimbalwa ubudala, kunokwenzeka ukuba bonwabele ukuba ze okanye ukunxiba ilweyile kuphela, ukuba nje umoya awubandi.
Yonwabela ngaphandle
Ukuba isimo sezulu silungile, ukuthatha umntwana wakho ngaphandle kunokuba sisiphazamiso ekuncedeni ukuzola. Uya kudinga ukukhusela umntwana wakho elangeni ukuba uhlala ngaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa. Uhambo olufutshane kwi-stroller nalo lunokuzolisa usana olunomdla.
Akukho nanye kwezi enokusebenza. Ngosana olungayeki ukulila, kuya kufuneka ubize abazali ubavumele bathathe isigqibo malunga nento amabayenze. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ngekhe wenze nto iphosakeleyo. Olunye usana lubuthathaka kakhulu kutshintsho lweeshedyuli kunye nemeko-bume. Yintoni egqithisile, Malunga neenyanga ezintandathu, ezinye iintsana ziqala ukubonisa uxinzelelo lokwahlulahlula.
Ukukhathalela umntwana omncinci onomsindo
Abantwana abancinci bahlala benamandla. Oku kuthetha ukuba ootatomkhulu banokuba nexesha elimnandi okanye badinwe kakhulu xa abazukulwana bekhona. Xa abantwana abancinci befumana i-cranky, kunokuba nzima ukuzola kwaye banokuwela kwi-meltdown epheleleyo. Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokuthintela oku ukuba kungenzeki.
Ukutya
Abantwana banokuba nomsindo kuba belambile kodwa abazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo. Ungamnika i-snack esempilweni phakathi kokutya. Kodwa Khumbula ukuba akufuneki ubanyoba ngee-trinket kuba zinokukufaka engxakini nabazali, kwaye ayiyilungelanga impilo yabo.
Descanso
Umntwana omncinci odiniweyo uya kuba nemoody. Kunokuba nzima ukulala umntwana odiniweyo, kodwa ubuncinci unokukhuthaza ukuphumla kancinci. Zama ukufunda incwadi oyithandayo okanye ukumamela umculo. Kwipinki, beka imuvi okanye umboniso weTV owuthandayo. Okukhona uyiqhelile, kokukhona iya kukhululeka ngakumbi. Uninzi lwabantwana luyakonwabela ukubukela izinto ezifanayo amaxesha ngamaxesha, kanye njengokuba unokufunda incwadi oyithandayo amaxesha amaninzi.
Imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo
Ngamanye amaxesha ingxaki ayiphumli ngokwaneleyo, yinto yesiqhelo kakhulu. Yenza into eyahlukileyo, ngakumbi ukuba ungaphandle. Thatha uhambo, uvuthele amaqamza, ubhaka amaqebengwana, njl
Soloko unokukhetha
Ukuba ubuza abantwana ababhabhayo ukuba bafuna ukwenza i-X, ngokuqinisekileyo impendulo nguhayi. Ukuba ucela abantwana abancinci ukuba bakhethe phakathi kwe-X kunye no-Y, umdla wabo wokufuna ukwazi kunye nomnqweno wokulawula bayalalanisa kwaye baya kukhetha enye yezi zinto zimbini ngokuqinisekileyo. Abazali abanakukwazi ukunika ukhetho ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu ngokubanzi banako, kwaye kufanele!
Ukunyamekela abantwana abadala
Xa abazukulwana bekwiminyaka yokuhamba isikolo, banokuba kwimeko embi ngakumbi, kunqabile ukuba benze, kwaye banamathuba okurhoxa. Oku kunokuba yinkxalabo kumakhulu notatomkhulu ofuna ukuchitha ixesha nabazukulwana bakhe. Njengabantwana abancinci, yazi ukuba umntwana ulambile okanye udiniwe. Nokuba awukuthandi ukohlwaya umzukulwana wakho, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba yimfuneko.
Lungisa
Yiba neminye imisebenzi engqondweni ngaphambi kokuba kufike umzukulwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyanceda ukuba nephazili, izixhobo zenzululwazi, okanye imizobo ebekwe nje etafileni. Ukuba ubuza umzukulwana wakho okhaliphileyo ukuba uyafuna na ukwenza into ethile, basenokuthi hayi, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi abanako ukumelana nesilingo sokuthatha into esele ilungisiwe. Ngesizathu esinye, Sukulungiselela umsetyenzana onobunkunkqele kakhulu ukuze ungaziva ungonwabanga ukuba umzukulwana wakho uyawala.
Yiba nolindelo olucacileyo
Abantwana abanakufane baziphathe kakubi xa besazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha elindeleke kubo. Ukubeka ulindelo kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba uthatha abazukulwana bakho kwenye indawo engaqhelekanga, okanye ukuba ulindelo lwabo lwahlukile kulindelo ekhaya. Ukuba ukutya endlwini yakho kwenziwa etafileni, umzekelo, kulungile ukuyenza icace loo nto.
Ziphephe iingxaki zotshintshiselwano
Abanye abantwana bayathanda ukwazi ukuba bazokwenza ntoni ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngale ndlela, kulungile ukucwangcisa okuza kwenziwa emini kunye neeyure ezibaluleke kakhulu eziza kwenzeka, ezinje ngexesha lokutya okanye ixesha lokulala.
Ukuqwalasela iingxaki
Abantwana abadala ngamanye amaxesha baneengxaki ezichaphazela imeko yabo. Oku kunokuba yingxaki kumalungu osapho, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ahambelana noontanga. Ootatomkhulu banokuzama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni le ikhathaza umzukulwana. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha nje ngako kunokunceda. Ewe, ukuba ufumanisa into ephazamisayo, kufuneka wazise abazali ngokukhawuleza.