Ukuqubha iintsana kuchazwa njengomsebenzi wokudlala, ulonwabo, ukuvuselela kunye namava angokweemvakalelo.
Oko sikubiza ngokuba ukubhukuda kosana (okanye i-matronation) ayinanto encinci yokuqubha, ubuncinci kunye noko abantu abaninzi bakuqondayo ngokufunda ukuqubha, ekubeni le ndlela ayinakufezekiswa kude kube yiminyaka emi-4 okanye emi-5 ubudala. Ngaphambi kwale minyaka, abantwana bancinci kakhulu ukuba baphuhlise ukuzimela emanzini kwaye bafumane iintshukumo zokuqubha. Ngoko ke, kufuneka kucaciswe ukuba ukonwaba nokuba nobuchule kuyenye into kwaye ukufunda ukuqubha kuyenye into. Le yinto ekufuneka abazali bacace gca ngayo.
Iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zixhotyiswe ngokugqibeleleyo ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo ze-reflexes ezenza kube lula uphuhliso oluqhubekayo lokuziphatha olulungelelaniswe kwindawo abaphuhla kuyo, kule meko amanzi. Ukunciphisa amava onyaka wokuqala ukuhlala kwi-crib okanye kwi-stroller kuthetha ukunciphisa kokubili ukukhula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo komntwana wethu, kwixesha elibalulekileyo lobomi babo. Zonke iingcali zengqondo kunye nootitshala bayakuqonda ukubaluleka kweminyaka yokuqala kubomi bomntu kwaye, nangona kunjalo, siyaqhubeka singanikeli ngqalelo eyimfuneko de singene esikolweni. Eyona njongo ibalulekileyo yokuqubha kubantwana igxile ekomelezeni iqhina lothando kunye nokuthembana phakathi kukamama nosana, ukwenza bobabini babelane ngamava asekuqaleni, awodwa nangenakuphindwa, ukomeleza ubudlelwane beemvakalelo kunye nokuqonda phakathi komntwana-umama-utata. Ngaphaya koko, ngokungathi oku akwanelanga, iimeko zomdlalo ziya kwenziwa, ngaphakathi kwendawo yolonwabo neyolonwabo.
Kodwa kukho ezinye izibonelelo ezininzi eziza kubonelela iintsana, ezinye zibaluleke kakhulu njengoko sele zikhankanyiwe:
- Uphuhliso lwe-Psychomotor.
- Ukomeleza inkqubo ye-cardiorespiratory.
- Inceda amajoni omzimba.
- Yandisa i-IQ.
- Iphucula kwaye iqinise ubudlelwane beemvakalelo kunye nokuqonda phakathi komntwana-umama-utata.
- I-socialization iqala ngaphandle kokwenzakala kwindawo yokudlala kunye nokuzonwabisa.
- Phuhlisa izakhono ezibalulekileyo zokuphila.
- Nceda umntwana akhululeke.
- Inceda umntwana azive ekhuselekile.
Ukuba unendlu enegadi eyaneleyo yokufaka i-swimming pool, unganqikazi, ukuzonwabisa kunye nenzuzo ayiyi kuba kuphela xa umntwana wakho eselusana kodwa uya kuhamba naye ekuphuhliseni nasekukhuleni kwakhe.
Zama kwaye usixelele amava akho!