Bavakalelwa njani abantwana abanabazali abaqhawula umtshato okanye bohlukene nabo?

Ukwahlukana kwabazali

Idatha evela kwiZiko lezeNkcukacha-manani leSizwe isixelela ukuba ngo-2014 (ngowama-2015 ayikapapashwa malunga noku) inqanaba lezigwebo zokurhoxiswa, ukwahlulwa kunye noqhawulo mtshato zazingama-2,3 kubemi abali-1000, elingana netotali eyi-105.893 amatyala. Uqhawulo mtshato lumele iipesenti ezingama-95,1 zizonke; kwaye ukuba sibajonga ngokudibeneyo nokwahlulahlula, i-76,5% ibisisivumelwano. Xa kuthelekiswa nonyaka ophelileyo (2013) sifumana umahluko wepesenti yeepesenti ezi-5,4, ezinokuqinisekisa ukuba unyaka nonyaka ukwahlukana okanye uqhawulo-mtshato luyanda, uninzi lwale mitshato inabantwana.

Imithombo eyahlukeneyo ekuboniswene nayo iyangqina ukuba i-30% yemitshato iphela ngokwahlukana okanye ngoqhawulo-mtshato, elona nani liphezulu kakhulu, nangona lingaphantsi kunama-40 epesenti eMelika Ngayiphi na imeko, la ngamanani abalulekileyo, akhokelela ekubeni sibonise ukuba ezi nkqubo zibachaphazela njani abantwana, xa usapho luzele abantwana; Kungenxa yokuba-nangona-yamkelwe into yokuba amalungu esi sibini angabona ukuphucuka kobuqu ngotshintsho lobomi, kubantwana babo iya kuba imeko enzima kakhulu ukuba iimvakalelo zabo azikhathalelwa kwaye abafakwanga beziswa.

Sidibene neposi (ndiyikhankanye emazantsi ephepha) apho kuye kwadityanwa nemithombo eyahlukeneyo, kwaye ibonisa imizobo eyahlukeneyo eyenziwe ngabantwana, abazali babo abahlulayo, okanye esele bekwenzile oko. Njengoko ubona kwigalari yemifanekiso, ngokubanzi baziva bengenakunceda kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke kunika imvakalelo yokuba babubona ubomi babo 'njengokwahlukana' kubini. Kodwa ndizikhathaze ngokujonga kwakhona amaxwebhu amaninzi kuwo, kwaye kubonakala ngathi kumava abantwana, imeko kunye nezinto ezihamba nayo kubalulekile.

Imiba eyenzakalisayo.

Ukwahlukaniswa kwabazali, iimfazwe ezingapheliyo, ukuphulukana namandla okuthenga, utshintsho lokuhlala kunye nokwahlulwa kubume bezentlalo, ukunyanzelana ukuhlala nomnye wabazali, ukungabikho konxibelelwano nomnye umzali, amaqabane amatsha abazali.

Konke oku kubandakanya ngokuthe ngqo into yokuba abantwana bafumana iingxaki zobudlelwane noontanga babo, iziphumo zengqondo okanye ezomphefumlo njengoloyiko okanye uxinzelelo, iingxaki zokuziphatha, kwaye bade bayeke ukusebenza kwizifundo. Nangona kunjalo, ukwahlukana okanye uqhawulo-mtshato ayingonobangela weengxaki zengqondo ebantwaneni, kodwa ibenza babe sesichengeni, ubuncinci yindlela ebonakala ngayo kolu phando lupapashwe ngu IVangyseghem kunye neAppelboom, ngo-2004.

Ukuphendula ngokweemvakalelo ngokobudala.

Abasaqala isikolo.

Ukubonakala kokuziphatha okuguqukayo, okufunyanwa ngabantwana abaninzi njengoko bekhula, akufuneki kumangalise, nokuba abafumani mahluko: phakathi kwabo singabalula i-enuresis yasebusuku, isidingo sokuncediswa ekutyeni ngokungathi bancinci; Kusenokwenzeka ukuba babonakalisa iintlungu zomzimba. Ezinye iziphumo kukungeniswa okanye ukuphazamiseka kokulala.

Abancinci banokuziva benetyala, kwaye oko kuyingozi kakhulu, uloyiko lokulahlwa lubonakala

Phakathi kweminyaka emi-6/7 kunye nokuphela kweMfundo ePrayimari: iminyaka eli-12.

Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba linqanaba lobungozi obukhulu

Kukho abantwana abazamayo bakhohlise kwaye bazame ukungcungcuthekisa iimvakalelo ukuze babuyise abazali babo; Ukongeza, ukuzithemba kwabo kusokola kakhulu kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba babonakalise isimilo esigwenxa. Ukuqhuba kakubi kwizifundo kubonisa ukuba umntwana uneengxaki ezivela kwimeko leyo, kwaye kufuneka banikwe ingqwalaselo.

Abakwishumi elivisayo.

Kwinguqu yehomoni, yemithambo-luvo, yentlalo ... (yazo zonke iintlobo) amantombazana namakhwenkwe ahamba kuwo ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-10, imeko eyongezekileyo iyongezwa, ikwangqinelana nenkqubo yokuba ngumntu omdala, Yonke into iya isiba nzima.

Banengxaki yokoyika isizungu kunye nokushiywa, kwaye kubonakala ngathi iingcinga ezibenza bakuthandabuze ukubanakho ukuzibophelela ebomini nabanye abantu.

Emva koko, ndibonisa itafile eyenziwe yiBelén Foundation apho banconywa ngokucacileyo Umahluko phakathi koqhawulo-mtshato ngentsebenziswano kunye nolonakalisayo, nangona (zibalulekile) ii-nuances esiza kuzandisa kamva.

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