Uphononongo luveza iziphumo kubantwana bokuthengwa kwezinto ezinokubangela ukuphazamiseka okubalulekileyo ngokwasengqondweni. Ngethamsanqa, sinokuwutshintsha lo mkhwa.
Ngaba umntwana wakho usanda kubhala ileta emnandi eya kuSanta ngeeodolo ezininzi ezibiza kakhulu, iithoyi zeplastiki zexesha elifutshane? Ngunyana okanye intombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo rhoqo ecela imali ukuthenga iimpahla, izihlangu, iifowuni kunye nezixhobo zexabiso?
Ayilolize, kuba, bahlaselwe luluntu kunye nangumzekelo wabantu abadala, abantwana lixhoba elilula kubathengi. Noko ke, umnqweno nokufumana zonke ezi zinto kunokuyonakalisa ngokunzulu impilo-ntle yabantwana. Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba sisenako ukuyitshintsha le nkcubeko kusapho lwethu.
Iimpawu zokusebenzisa abathengi
Iibhokisi ezigcweleyo iithoyi ezingasetyenziswanga, izikhenkcezisi ezizele kukutya esingenakukwazi ukukutya, amagunjana azele ziimpahla esingazisebenzisiyo; amagumbi angaphantsi kunye neegaraji ezigcwele izinto ezishiyiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, sihlala sithenga kwaye sithenga kwaye asoneliseki.
Izicelo ezingayekiyo zabantwana ziyasibhida kwaye ekugqibeleni sigqibele ngokuba “sibathomalalisa”, sikholelwa ukuba ziyabavuyisa. Nangona kunjalo, lo mjikelo ukhohlakeleyo, endaweni yokudala ulonwabo lokwenene kunye nokuphila kakuhle, luphawu lokungoneliseki kwixesha elifutshane nelide. Kwakhona, izindlu zethu zizele zizinto ezingenamsebenzi kwaye izipaji zethu ziphantse ukuba zingenanto!
Phanda
Uhlolisiso luye lwabonisa ukuba ukungazikhathaleli izinto eziphathekayo kuyonakalisa impilo-ntle yethu neyabantwana bethu. Ngokutsho kolu phando, ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kuthetha ukunganeliseki, ukungonwabi, ukunciphisa amandla kunye nentsebenziswano yentlalontle, kunye ne-pathologies yengqondo, njenge uxinzelelo kunye nexhala, kunye novelwano oluncinci kwabanye. Abo babambelele kakhulu kwizinto eziphathekayo kwaye bavelisa ukubaluleka okukhulu kwizinto eziphathekayo kunokwenzeka ukuba babe nokuziphatha okuchasayo kunye nobuhlanga.
abanye iiklasi bonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwabathengi kusenokuba ngunobangela ukwanda kwe-narcisism phakathi kwabantu abatsha novelwano lwehla.
Ukukhulisa Abantwana abangabathengi
Ngethamsanqa, izinto zitshintsha kancinci kwaye ubuntununtunu obutsha ngokusingqongileyo inokuba yinto ebalulekileyo kumntu wonke. Uphando olufanayo lubonisa ukuba lo mkhwa unokuqwalaselwa kwaye thina bazali sinamandla!
Okokuqala kufuneka nikela ingqalelo kwindlela esiziphatha ngayo. Ngaba singomnye wabo bathenga kakhulu okanye singamaxhoba efashoni? Sithetha njani ngemali nezinto eziphathekayo phambi kwabantwana bethu? Enyanisweni, umzekelo sisixhobo sokuqala esichaphazela ukuziphatha kwabo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhwaza ngokungathi uyaphambana phambi kwakhe wonk’ ubani okwivenkile yezinto zokudlala, kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya, okanye efrijini, khumbula ukuba abamenzeli lubabalo olukhulu ngokumkholisa. Inyaniso, ukuyekelela kakhulu kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki zobomi bonkenjengokutya okungalungelelananga okanye ukungakwazi ukulawula imali.
Ulonwabo lokwenza izinto kunye
Ingcamango yolonwabo kufuneka qhawula kubunikazi kunye nokutya. Kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kwizinto ezizisa uvuyo lokwenene noluhlala luhleli.
Kungcono ukuchitha ixesha kwimisebenzi enokuyenza njengosapho: ukuba kunye ngaphandle, yenza imisebenzi yoyilo, ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela kunye, ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo, okanye ukufunda. Kubantwana abaninzi, ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nabazali babo kumnandi ngokwenene! Ukuba bayayenza besebancinci, bayayiqonda kwaye baphile ixesha njengento entle ukuyenza.
Ukumodareyitha
Naka u indlela othetha ngayo naye ngemali kunye nezinto esizifunayo. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba izinto zifuna umgudu, kwaye zininzi izinto ebomini ezingabizi mali ezizisa ulonwabo nolonwabo.
Nciphisa ukubonakala kwiintengiso
Intengiso kamabonakude yabantwana yi eqhubekayo kunye ndlongo. Ke zama ukuyinciphisa kangangoko, usebenzisa ukusasaza usetyenziso okanye iinkqubo. Kwakhona kuhle ukucacisa ukuba yintoni injongo yentengiso kunye namandla amakhulu ezinawo, nto leyo esingafanele sizithobe kuyo.
Ukufundisa isipho
Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukupha kunika ulonwabo olungaphezu kokwamkela. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukunikela ngezinto zokudlala abangasazisebenzisiyo okanye iimpahla ezincinci kakhulu kubo.
Recycle and buy second hand
Lungiselela iimarike zokudlala kunye nempahla esetyenzisiweyo yokutshintsha kunye nabahlobo bakho. Okanye uqale thenga izinto ezisetyenzisiweyo.
Fundisa ngombulelo
Bafundise ukuxabisa oko banako kunye noko bakufumanayo kwabanye. Ayiphelelanga kwizinto eziphathekayo, kodwa kunye nempilo, intsapho, abahlobo, indalo kunye nethamsanqa lokuhlala kwilizwe elingenamfazwe kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana.
Thetha, funda kwaye unike ingqalelo
Kufuneka sithethe ngayo indlela efunyanwa ngayo imali kunye nendlela esetyenziswa ngayo. Ukusuka kwinto yokuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sincame into ethile kuba ingekho ngaphakathi kuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwethu. Kwakhona kuhle ukuba bafunde ukwahlula phakathi kwentswelo nentswelo.
Thetha nge ifuthe kwindalo esingqongileyo kwizinto esizithengayo, iithoyi zeplastiki okanye ukutya esikumoshayo. Abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwezi nkalo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuziqonda!