Bonke abantwana bafanelekile Nxibelelana nabanye, yabelana ngezimvo, yenza iingcinga, uqonde izinto… Kwaye ukwenza konke oku ulwimi olufunekayo. Abantwana abaziziThulu, kunye nabo bonke abantu abaneengxaki zokuva, banentetho yezandla ebenza bakwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye. Ulwimi lubalulekile kuphuhliso lwethu oluchanekileyo kwezentlalo, ngokwengqondo, ngokwasengqondweni nakwezemfundo. Makhe sibone ukuba unjani abantwana abazizithulu bafunda intetho yezandla.
Ngaba abantwana abazizithulu bafunda intetho yezandla ngendlela efanayo naleyo yokuva abantwana ukuba bathethe?
Impendulo nguewe. Abantwana abaziziThulu bafunde intetho yezandla ngokuzenzekelayo nangokuqhelekileyol. Umntwana ophulaphulayo uyabhibhidla aze aqalise ukuwathetha ngendlela engeyiyo amagama, ehamba ngamanqanaba aliqela ngaphambi kokufunda ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo, kuba abantwana abazizithulu bafunda intetho yezandla ngendlela efanayo. Kuqala ngeempazamo de babe bayazi kakuhle intetho yezandla. Ukuva abantwana kunye nabantwana abazizithulu bafuna ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngexesha elifanayo ukuqonda uhlobo lolwimi abalifunayo. Iimpawu zakhe zokuqala zihlala zijikeleze iinyanga ezili-12.
Umntwana osisithulu ulijonga njani ilizwe?
Kuba ngokuva bengeva, baliqonde ilizwe ngokubona. Ulwimi lwezandla lubonakala kakhulu kwaye zininzi iimpawu omele uzilumkele. Ayisiyiyo kuphela umqondiso uqobo, kodwa nakwimbonakalo yobuso, ukuma kwakho, iintshukumo ...
Abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukunxibelelana nabangaphandle ukuze bangakhathazeki. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka kubekho unxibelelwano oluhle nabazali, kuya kufuneka bafunde intetho yezandla ukuze bakwazi ukunxibelelana nomntwana wabo.
Iphuhliswa njani intetho yezandla?
Ewe, inamanqanaba afanayo nolwimi oluthethiweyo. Masibone ukuba ngawaphi amanqanaba entetho yezandla.
- Balcuceo ngezandla zakhe. Ukubhebhetha ngumanduleli wolwimi lwezandla, kanye njengoko lulwimi oluthethwayo. Kulula kakhulu kwiintsana ukuzibonakalisa ngeempawu kunokuba zithethe ngamagama. Baqala ukwenza ibhalisiwe phakathi kweenyanga ezili-9-12, ngokungathi ngumdlalo. Ekuqaleni baya kwenziwa kakubi kwaye baneempazamo, kodwa kancinci kancinci baya kuzilungisa bade baziveze ngokulula.
- Iimpawu zokuqala. Njengoko usiya kubazali bakho okanye kwabanye ukuyenza kwaye ngokuphindaphinda kunye nemidlalo, uya kuba ngcono kwaye ungcono. Thatha ithuba lokudlala ukuze wenze ukufunda kube mnandi, kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi ukunxibelelana. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba ufunde amagama owaziyo, amagama avela kwindawo okuyo.
- Izivakalisi zakhe zokuqala. Njengokuba abantwana bevayo bebeka amagama kunye ukwenza izivakalisi, ngokunjalo nabantwana abazizithulu banentetho yezandla. Xa bazi kakuhle imiqondiso baya kuqala ukudibanisa nabo ukwenza amabinzana amancinci. Phantse ihlala ibonakala phakathi Iinyanga ezili-17 kunye nama-22, nangona umntwana ngamnye ehlukile kwaye enesingqisho sakhe. Musa ukungxama.
Ungabanceda njani abantwana abazizithulu bafunde intetho yezandla?
Enkosi ngentetho yezandla, abantwana abazizithulu banokuthi bathethe izinto abazithandayo, baveze iimvakalelo zabo, baveze izimvo zabo, ... Ukuba abazali bamamele, kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ekufundeni komntwana nakwakho kwaye ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba ngcono. Unxibelelwano lwakho kunye nokunxibelelana kuya kudibana nempumelelo yomntwana wakho, kuba uyakuba ubanika izixhobo ukuba bakwazi ukunxibelelana. Kukho imibutho esixekweni ngasinye enokukunceda ufumane ulwazi ngakumbi kwaye ikucebise ukuba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo.
Onke amalungu osapho kufuneka afunde intetho yezandla ukuze ndikwazi ukunxibelelana naye / kuba elusana. Ekuqaleni kufanelekile ukubaxisa imbonakalo yobuso ukuze inxulunyaniswe nomqondiso.
Iyabanceda ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu abazizithulu ukufunda amagama amatsha kunye nokuntywila kwintetho yezandla.
Kuba khumbula ... ayinamsebenzi ukuba loluphi ulwimi oluthetha nathi, into ebalulekileyo kukuba siyenze.