Ukonwabela ubuntwana nosapho kunye nabahlobo kunxulumene ngqo nokonwaba ngakumbi ebomini bomntu omdala. Abantu abadala abaye banobuntwana obonwabisayo abasemngciphekweni omkhulu woxinzelelo kunye nokugula ngengqondo, kwaye ukuba oko akwanelanga, baya kuba nolwalamano olusempilweni phakathi kwabantu. Isitshixo sokuba ngumntu omdala owonwabileyo kukuqokelela amava amaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Amava amnandi ngakumbi, umngcipheko wokuhlaselwa zizigulo zengqondo ezinje ngoxinzelelo. Oku kubalulekile ukuba Yazisa bonke abazali ukuze bakwazi ukuphucula la mava amnandi ebantwaneni babo.
Kwelinye icala, amava amabi ebuntwaneni anyusa iingxaki zempilo ebantwaneni nakubantu abadala, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokunqongophala kwamava aqinisekileyo. Ngale ndlela, amava amnandi ebuntwaneni ngoyena ndoqo wokuchaphazela impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni komntu omdala. Kwakhona, xa abantwana bonwabile, Kulula kubo ukuba bachache kwiimeko ezimbi xa bebadala okanye kubudlelwane obunzima phakathi kwabantu.
Ukuba awufuni ukuba abantwana bakho babe neengxaki zempilo yexesha elizayo, ezinje ngoxinzelelo okanye unxunguphalo, jonga ixesha langoku kubantwana bakho ukuze ikamva labo liqaqambe kangangoko. Ngamanye amaxesha iimeko ezigwenxa zinokwenza ukuba abantwana bazive bomelele ngakumbi kwaye baqonde ukubaluleka kwenkxaso yoluntu. Kodwa njengayo yonke into, Ezi meko zintle zokuba zilungile kufuneka zilungelelaniswe neemeko ezilungileyo.
Ngale ndlela, ukuba neemeko eziqinisekileyo zokuphila akuthethi ukuba uhlala usempilweni engqondweni, kwaye kwenzeka into efanayo nakwiimeko ezimbi ... Ibhalansi phakathi kwamava obomi ahlukileyo yinto eya kwenza ukuba abantu baphile ubomi obonwabisayo babantu abadala. Anjani amava akho ebuntwaneni?