Xa kufika ikhefu labantwana, ukuba abazali baneeholide inokuba sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokuchitha ixesha nosapho, kodwa xa kufuneka abazali basebenze, ukuba nabantwana ekhaya imini yonke kunokuba luxinzelelo. Abazali kufuneka bafumane indlela yokuhlangabezana noxanduva lwabo lomsebenzi kwaye, noxanduva losapho ngokunjalo.
Iiholide nabantwana lithuba lokunxibelelana nabo. Nangona kunzima ukwenza ixesha kunye noxanduva lomsebenzi, kufanelekile ukwenza umzamo wokunandipha abantwana. Abantwana kufuneka babe nabazali babo kwaye bachithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabo, kuphela kwendlela abanokonwabela ngayo iholide yosapho.
Ukuba abantwana baneeholide kodwa abazali bayasebenza
Ukuba abantwana bakho baneeholide kodwa uyasebenza, unokuba noxinzelelo lokucinga ngento onokuyenza ukulungiselela iintsuku. Phambi kokuba kufike iintsuku zeholide, kuya kufuneka uhlale phantsi ucinge ngendlela onokuzicwangcisa ngayo iintsuku zakho ngokuxhomekeke kumhla onawo ukuze abantwana bakho bakhathalelwe kakuhle okoko nje kufuneka ubenoxanduva lomsebenzi wakho.
Cinga ngamathuba onawo entlangano. Mhlawumbi unabazali bakho okanye abantu basebukhweni abanokukunceda ngeeyure osebenza ngazo, okanye mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uqeshe umntu oza kubagcina ngeyure okanye ubonise abantwana bakho kwithala leencwadi lezinto zokudlala elivulekileyo ngeholide. Kodwa ukuba abantwana bakho bafuna ukukhathalelwa ngabanye abantu xa usebenza, qiniseka ukuba wenza ukungabikho kwexesha kunye nawe ngexesha elisemgangathweni xa benokuba nawe.
Xa unexesha lokuchitha nabantwana bakho, musa ukuthandabuza ukulandela iingcebiso:
- Cwangcisa imisebenzi eniza kuyenza kunye xa nikhululekile
- Chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantwana bakho, nasekhaya
- Awudingi zicwangciso zinkulu, ukudlala ekhaya okanye ukubukela imuvi kunye kunokuba ngaphezulu kokonwaba kunye nosapho lwakho.
- Thatha uhambo lokuchitha ixesha ngaphandle, ipaki kunokuba yinto elungileyo
- Vumela abantwana bakho ukuba bakhethe imisebenzi abafuna ukuyenza nawe ngeeyure onazo simahla
Ukuba abantwana baneeholide nabazali ngokunjalo
Ukuba abantwana banamaholide kwaye nabazali bakwimeko efanelekileyo kwiintsapho kuba lonke ixesha linokusetyenziselwa ukonwabela kunye kunye nokomeleza iqhina losapho. Ukuba uneentsuku zeholide ezifanayo nezabantwana, kulungile kuba unako Yahlula iintsuku kuxhomekeke kwinto enokwenziwa. Ngokuyimfuneko kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babe neshedyuli ngeentsuku zabo zeholide ukuze nokuba baphume kwimikhwa yabo ube nobume obucacileyo, ngale ndlela akuyi kuba 'sisiphithiphithi' kakhulu. Amaxesha okutya kunye nokulala kufuneka ahlonitshwe kwiintsuku ezininzi.
Ukuba unayo iholide kwaye ufuna ukuyonwabela ngokupheleleyo, ungaphoswa ngala macebiso alandelayo okwenza iholide nabantwana babe yimpumelelo.
Ufuna ukuya phi okanye ufuna ukwenza ntoni?
Cinga ngohlahlo-lwabiwo mali kwaye emva koko kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo sisicwangciso esiza kwenziwa ngeeholide. Nokuba awuphumi yonke imihla, unokucwangcisa iintsuku zakho zeholide ukuze ucace malunga nento ofuna ukuyenza kunye nalapho ufuna ukuya khona. Mhlawumbi iintsuku zokuqala oza kuhlala ekhaya ukucoca kwaye uququzelele izinto ongenakukwazi ukuzenza ngeentsuku eziqhelekileyo kwaye abantwana basebenzisane nemisebenzi kwaye bagqibezele iintsuku zokutyelela izihlobo.
Mhlawumbi unokukhetha iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuya kwindawo othanda ukuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa kuyo. Cinga malunga nokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka okanye ukusondela, nokuba ufuna ihotele, indawo yokuhlala okanye inkampu ... Vumela abantwana bakho, ukuba badala ngokwaneleyo, banokuthatha isigqibo nawe. Ngale ndlela baya kuziva beyinxalenye yezigqibo kwaye baya kuba nexesha elimnandi kakhulu.
Injongo: ukonwaba nosapho
Abantwana kufuneka bacace gca ukuba injongo yokuchitha ixesha nosapho ayikokuya kwihotele ebiza kakhulu okanye ukwenza izinto ezingaqhelekanga ... kodwa kukuchitha ixesha nosapho kwaye wonwabele izinto ezenziwa kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha, ulwandle oluza kuchitha usuku alubalulekanga kangako, kodwa yinto oyenzayo ngelixa ikhona. Umzekelo, yiza neebhola zokudlala, iisandwich ozakuzitya ngaselwandle, imidlalo yamakhadi ukuxhoma kunye nokuhleka kunye namandla amnandi ... inqwelomoya ukuya elwandle lwasezulwini.
Ukutya, ukhuseleko, iindlela ...
Nokuba useholideyini, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nezinto ezithile ezicacileyo ezingafanelekanga ukutshintsha: ukhuseleko lwabantwana, ukugcina ezinye iindlela nokuba ziyaguquguquka kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, jonga ukondla kwabantwana ngeentsuku zeholide. Ukuba konke oku kuthathelwa ingqalelo, abazali nabantwana baya kuba nexesha elimnandi kwaye baya kukhuseleka kuba bayazi ukuba benza izinto kakuhle kwaye abantwana babo bakhathalelwe kakuhle.
Iinkqubo zibalulekile ukuba abantwana bazive bekhuselekile ngaphandle kwemisebenzi yesiqhelo abaziqhelileyo. Nangona ezi ndlela ziguquguqukayo, ukuba bayazi ukuba mabenze ntoni kwaye kulindeleke ntoni ngawo onke amaxesha, baya kuziva bekhuselekile kwaye beqinisekile.
Iiholide nabantwana zingalixesha elihle lokunxibelelana nabantwana, ke kufuneka kubonwe njengethuba lokuchitha ixesha elininzi nosapho. Ixesha lemihla ngemihla kunye noxinzelelo loxanduva kwezentlalo kubonakala ngathi kunqabile. Ixesha nabantwana libalulekile ekukhuleni kwabo okuhle ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo kwaye kuko konke oku, abazali kufuneka bazabalazele ukonwabela ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantwana babo yonke imihla kwaye hayi ngexesha lekhefu kuphela. Ngaba sele uyazi ukuba uza kwenza ntoni kwiintsuku ezizayo zeholide yabantwana bakho?