Ukuba umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba kubalulekile ukuba afumane amanqaku aphezulu okanye abazali bakhe bamncome kuphela xa esenza izinto kakuhle kwaye ukuba wenza izinto ezingalunganga bayamthethisa kuphela, ke kunzima kakhulu kuwe ukuba uzithembe kubuchule bakho.
Abantwana bakrelekrele kwaye bayazi xa bezenza kakuhle izinto okanye bengazenzi, kodwa abazali babo kunye nabo basondeleyo kubo kufuneka bathathele ingqalelo amandla abo ukuze bangafuni okungaphezulu kunoko banako ukukwenza.
Abantwana bafuna uncedo lwabazali babo lokufumana indlela kwaye benze izinto kakuhle, kodwa ngaphandle kokubenzela yonke into. Ukuba ubanceda kakhulu ngaphandle kokubanika ukuzimela bafuna ukuzenzela izinto, abantwana banokuziva bengenakukwazi ukuzenzela izinto. Ukuzithemba kwabo kunokubonwa kusokola.
Ukuba uqhubeka unceda abantwana bakho kwaye ungabaniki ithuba lokwenza iimpazamo kwaye bafunde kwiimpazamo, iya kuba xa ngokungazi ujongela phantsi izakhono zabo. Ukuba umzali uqhubeka ngokugqitha kwimibono yomntwana kwaye esebenzela iprojekthi, umntwana lowo uya kufunda ukuba umsebenzi wabo awonelisi kwaye Ngenxa yoko ukuzithemba kwakho kuyaphuma entliziyweni yakho.
Kufuneka ubakhuthaze abantwana bakho kwizakhono nobuchule babo
Oku kuthetha ukuba abazali kufuneka bavumele umntwana wabo ukuba enze iiprojekthi ngokwakhe ukuze umntwana azenzele ibakala, ukuze azithembe kwizakhono zakhe. Nokuba emva kwesiqinisekiso asiyo nto ibilindelwe. Kodwa xa besenza izinto ngokwabo, kuyaxhobisa. Nokuba inqanaba lelo ayililo elifunwa ngumzali, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba abantwana bazithembe kwaye bakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo bebodwa.
Abazali abanakubamba isandla somntwana wabo ebudaleni kwaye bancede ngeeprojekthi abazakuzenza emsebenzini, ke abazali kufuneka babavumele ukuba bafumane amava ngaphandle koncedo kwaye bavumele ukuzimela ekugqibezeleni umsebenzi kuya kubanceda ukuba bakhuseleke kwaye banqabiseke ngokufanelekileyo ngaxeshanye.