Andikhathali nokuba unyana wam uyagqwesa, ugqibelele okanye uvunyiwe… inani alisoze lichaze ukuba ngubani unyana wam. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwimfundo yabantwana yimizamo abayisebenzisayo ukufunda, Inzondelelo kunye nenkuthazo yokufunda okutsha kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, umnqweno abawenzayo ekwenzeni izinto ezintsha.
Mhlawumbi kuvavanyo bebengagxili ngokwaneleyo, okanye bebelele okanye begula ... Kodwa ukusilela akuthethi ukuba awufundanga ngokwaneleyo okanye awuzange uzame nzima. Ukungaphumeleli sisalathiso nje sokuba kuya kufuneka uphucule kwizicwangciso ezithile kwixesha elizayo.
Musa ukuvumela abantwana bakho ukuba bakubhale njengabazizidenge okanye "abakrelekrele." Umntwana wakho kufuneka azive ukuba wamkelwe kwaye uyathandwa kwaye uyaxhaswa kuba engubani. Ungamvumeli ukuba azive ngathi amabakala akhe yingxaki emntwini wakhe. Ukuba ufumana amanqaku amabi, kuya kufuneka umkhuthaze ukuba enze umzamo kwixesha elizayo, uzive ukuba unakho kwaye akukho sizathu sokuziva engakwazi okanye engaphantsi kwabanye abantwana kwiklasi yakhe.
Uxinzelelo kumabakala aphezulu kunokujongela phantsi ukuzithemba komntwana kwaye kunokubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kubo. Uxinzelelo olungayi kubavumela ukuba bonwabele inkqubo yokufunda kunye nomnqweno wabo wokuzalwa wokuba ngabantwana. KUNYEKuyimfuneko ukuyigxininisa le nto ukuze kungabikho ilebheli ebantwaneni, ukuze bazi kwaye baqonde ukuba ngamanani kuphela kwaye loo manani awabachazi kwaphela ...
Wonke umntu unesantya sakhe sokufunda kwaye kuyafuneka ukuba uyihlonele le nto, kokubini isiqu sakho nakwabanye. Amanqaku kufuneka abe kukuqhelaniswa nokwazi ukuba baqhuba njani na abantwana esikolweni kwaye yazi ukuba wenze ntoni, kodwa akukho meko akufuneki ibe sisizathu sokubhala okanye ukuchitha ukuzithemba komntwana.