Abantwana bethu banjengeembiza zeentyatyambo. Amabinzana oxelela wona (nokuba kungokuqonda okanye ngokungazi) aya kuhluma kuwo kwaye aya kusekwa njengeenkolelo. Kuxhomekeke kumgangatho wala mabinzana, iinkolelo zabo malunga nabo kunye nehlabathi elibajikelezileyo, kuya kuba njalo nokuzithemba kwabo nokutolika kwehlabathi. Makhe sibone ukuba zintoni ezona binzana zibalaseleyo zabantwana.
Ngombulelo kula mabinzana sinokubakhuthaza abancinci, ukuba babone ubomi ngendlela ethe kratya, ukubenza baxabise izinto ezinje ngokunyamezela kunye nobubele, ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, Amagama anexabiso nobunzima ngakumbi kunokuba sicinga. Abahlali ezindlebeni ezingevayo, kodwa ibinzana linokwenza umonakalo omkhulu okanye likuncede. Sonke siyawakhumbula amabinzana athe athethwa kuthi ngamanye amaxesha asenzakalisa kakhulu. Amagama kufuneka anikwe ukubaluleka kwawo, kwaye zikhethe kakuhle ngokwesiphumo esifuna ukusiphumeza kubantwana bethu.
Nayi eminye imizekelo yamabinzana aqinisekileyo abantwana onokuwasebenzisa kwimini yakho yemihla ngemihla.
Amabinzana afanelekileyo kubantwana
- Ndiyakuthemba.
- Impumelelo enkulu ithatha ixesha kunye nomonde.
- Ukuba ufuna uncedo undazise.
- Ungazifanisi nomnye umntu kuba akekho onjengawe.
- Ukusilela okuphela kokunikezela.
- Shiya ngasemva okungakhokeleli phambili.
- Ixesha yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu onayo, musa ukuyichitha.
- Yonke imihla lithuba lokufezekisa into oyifunayo.
- Ufunda ngaphezulu kwewaka hits kwiimpazamo.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo phakathi kwaba bobabini kulula.
- Ndiyakuthandana.
- Yonwabela izinto ezincinci.
- Ukuba awuzami, ngekhe wazi.
- Ukuba inesisombululo, ayongxaki.
- Uyenze kakuhle kakhulu!
- Sukuzilungiselela into oyifunayo, ulwele oko ukufaneleyo.
- Yenza into elungileyo nokuba akukho mntu ukujongileyo.
- Into ebalulekileyo ayisiyiyo into ethenjisiweyo, kodwa izalisekisiwe.
- Ndiza kuhlala ndikunye nawe.
- Gxila kwinto oyifunayo, kwaye amathuba aya kuvela ukuyifumana.
- Le nto uyenzileyo ibaluleke kakhulu kum.
- Unoxanduva kakhulu.
- Ngaphandle koloyiko yinkululeko.
- Ubalulekile.
- Ulonwabo aluxhomekekanga kwinto onayo, kodwa ekusebenziseni kwakho konke onako.
- Ukuba isicwangciso asisebenzi, tshintsha isicwangciso, hayi injongo.
- Enkosi ngoncedo lwakho.
- Ndiza kuhlala ndibekhona ukukunceda, kunye sinako.
- Ubomi buza kubeka imiqobo kuwe kodwa imida ixhomekeke kuwe.
- Ukuba ithuba alinkqonkqozi, yakha umnyango.
- Ukusilela kukufundisa kuphela ukuba ungazenzi njani izinto.
- Alikaze lihambe ixesha.
- Ndinebhongo ngawe.
- Ingaba ucinga ntoni?
Amagama akho aya kuphawula ikamva lomntwana wakho
Njengoko sele sibonile, amagama anamandla amakhulu kuthi ngakumbi nangakumbi kwabancinci. Abazali ngabona bantu babalulekileyo kubomi bomntwana. Kithi bafuna intuthuzelo, inkxaso, uthando olungenamiqathango, inkuthazo, uncedo kunye nothando. Ngamazwi akho nakwizenzo zakho, kufuneka afumane yonke into ayifunayo kuphuhliso lweemvakalelo. Ukusilela kwezi mvakalelo kuya kusikhokelela kukungazithembi, ubunzima ekusombululeni iingxaki nasekujonganeni nazo, ukusilela okukhulu kweemvakalelo kunye neengxaki kubomi babo bothando kwixa elizayo.
Amanye amabinzana onawo apha ngasentla zizinto ezithandwayo kwaye ezinye zivela kubabhali abakhulu. Kulula ukuzikhumbula kwaye kungabizi mali kwaphela. Kwaye kuthathelwa ingqalelo zonke izibonelelo ezinokuthi zitsho kubantwana bethu namhlanje nangomso. Isenzo esincinci esinokutshintsha ubomi bomntwana wakho kakhulu. Impumelelo yakho ebomini ayizukuxhomekeka kuphela kumagama ethu kodwa yinto ephantsi kolawulo lwethu. Eminye asikwazi ukuyilawula.
Kuba khumbula ... umntwana wakho uyayifuna inkxaso yakho nothando olungenamiqathango, ukuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba ungamnika njani ngamazwi akho kunye nothando lwakho.