Ukuba ngumama ngamaxesha anzima: oomama abanesibindi

Sonke singomama abanesibindi. Ngandlel 'ithile, usapho ngalunye kuye kwafuneka kwaye lisajongana nobunzima obahlukeneyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bethu bazalwa benabanye ukunqongophala, okanye kamva kusenokufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ethu ukuze siphendule kwiimfuno ezininzi mzuzu ongalindelekanga, abantwana bethu banokufuna. Kwaye ungathini ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo malunga nemeko entsonkothileyo yezentlalo nezoqoqosho apho kungenzima kangako ngamanye amaxesha ukuqhubela phambili kwaye sikwenze ukuphela kwenyanga sinike konke okusemandleni kwiintsapho zethu ezincinci okanye ezinkulu.

Kuncinci kakhulu okuseleyo ngaphambi kokuba sibhiyozele uSuku loMama. Uninzi lwethu luya kuyenza inzolo emakhayeni ethu, sifumane ezo zipho zingummangaliso abantwana basinika zona ngazo zonke izinto abanomdla kuzo. Yinto eyoyikekayo, akukho mathandabuzo, kodwa namhlanje kwindawo yethu Sifuna ukuqhubela phambili kwaye sihlonipha bonke abo mama abakhaliphileyo abashiya amakhaya abo, amazwe abo nayo yonke into eyaziwayo kubo. ngokunika abantwana babo ithuba elitsha. Imfazwe eSyria okanye imeko enzima kumazwe amaninzi eMbindi Mpuma zibeke amawaka oomama kwimeko enzima kakhulu esinqwenela ukuthetha ngayo namhlanje kwindawo yethu.

Oomama abanesibindi abaye bawela iikhilomitha zomhlaba kunye neelwandle kubantwana babo

Abantu abaninzi baqhele ukujika umabonwakude ukuze babe ngamangqina okomzuzwana ngemeko yeembacu kwimida yethu yaseYurophu. Iintlungu ziyasicaphukisa kwaye zisizalise ngokoyikeka kunye nosizi okwemizuzu embalwa. Kude kufike izibhengezo okanye sixelelwe ngomzuzu wokugqibela omtsha kwezopolitiko. Ukuqonda kwethu ngamanye amaxesha kukhawuleza, okomzuzwana, kodwa ubomi baba bantu abuhlali "kusasazo lweendaba." Umsebenzi wakhe, uhambo lwakhe luthatha iinyanga zokubandezeleka, iinyembezi kunye nokuphelelwa lithemba.

Izinto ezinjenge «Unyango lwaMazwe ngaMazwe»Benza uthotho lweemvavanyo zengqondo ngaphezulu kwe-8.000 yeembacu kwimida yaseGrisi, befumana ezi datha zilandelayo zisimemela kwisibonakaliso esinzulu.

• Ngaphezulu kwama-30% abantu abadala "babekhubazekile", bengakwazi ukuba mabasabele njani okanye benze ntoni.  Yonke into ebonwayo, yonke into ibiphila kwaye ukuzichaza kwangaphambili ngekamva elingenasisombululo okanye ngaphandle kokulindelweyo kubenze bakhubazeka ngokweemvakalelo ababengayazi ukuba baphume njani.
• I-25% yabantu abadala ibhengeze ukuba "abafuni kuqhubeka nokuphila."
• Abanye bathi onke amandla ababewashiye bawafumana kubantwana babo. Ukuba babeshiye ngasemva imeko yemfazwe, yayikukusindisa abantwana babo kuloyiko kunye nokulwa, bafuna ukubanika ikamva elingcono.

Ngoku, inyani eyenza i-International Medical Corps ibonakale ngendlela yesikhalazo kukuba cyiyo loo nto ama-80% abo bantwana benzakeleyo. Oomama babo, kwelabo icala, abazi ukuba bajongane njani nale meko. Umntu angabondla, anciphise ukubanda kwabo, abaxelele ukuba yonke into izakulunga, kodwa ingqondo yomntwana ebubonileyo bonke ubumnyama obunakho ukubakho ebantwini, akubuyanga iphinde ibuye kwakhona kule drama.

Ukuba ngumama ngamaxesha anzima

Awusoze wazi ukuba unokwazi ukwenza ntoni de kufike ixesha. Inxalenye enkulu yeentsapho ezishiye amakhaya abo okuzalwa ngenxa yohlaselo kunye nesithunzi se-DAESH ngabafazi. Uninzi lwabo luphulukene nabayeni babo kunye nosapho emfazweni, kwaye abathandabuzi ukuthatha bonke abantwana babo bahambe nabo, bawele ulwandle ngeevesti ezikumgangatho ophantsi kwaye baxhomekeke kwimafiya eququzelela ezi hambo, ukudibana ngamanye amaxesha, ngokufanayo "ukusitheka" njengakumazwe abo okuvela.

• Ngokwengxelo ka «Uxolelo kwiLizwe jikelelel Inxalenye enkulu yabasetyhini abaziimbacu ngamaxhoba okuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunye nokuhlaselwa kumhlaba waseYurophu. 
• Iintsapho ezinomzali omnye (umama nabantwana bakhe) zezona zisemngciphekweni omkhulu xa kufikwa kucalucalulo, uhlaselo kunye negama elibi. Nditsho nemibutho yabasebenzi ikhalimele indlela amapolisa noonogada basemdeni ababaphatha kakubi ngayo abantu ababhinqileyo ngokubanika imali neempahla ngenjongo yokufumana ezinye izinto ezintle.
• Izixhobo zeembacu ezifana nezo zise-Aleppo zizicwangciso apho kungekho bucala nalapho abafazi baziva bengqingiwe, bejongwa kwaye bephathwa kakubi ...

Imbeko yethu koomama abanesibindi abafuna ithuba elitsha

Isinika sonke ukubandayo ukucinga ngendlela kwi-Europe ebonakala ngathi ihambile, sivumela iimeko ukuba Ngokwemibutho yokunceda, ayibonwanga nakwiMfazwe yesibini yeHlabathi. Inani leembacu ngaphambili belisoloko lisamkelwa kakuhle. Amazwe amaninzi ayekhathalele iimfuno zexesha elidlulileyo ukunika amathuba amatsha kubo bonke abawadingayo.

Namhlanje, amabakala ezopolitiko asabela ngendlela eyahlukileyo: ukuvala imida kunye nokubekwa amabala kwabantu abathi, emva kokubaleka emfazweni, bafumana okubi kakhulu. Ukwala, ukuthotywa, nokulibala.

Siyathemba kuphela ukuba kwiinyanga ezizayo le meko iyonke iyatshintsha kwaye sinokunika impendulo engcono kwaba bantu baneengxaki abanokuthi baphile kuzo.

• Kuyimfuneko ukuba aba mama kunye nabantwana babo bakwazi ukuhlala kwindawo ezinzileyo nekhuselekileyo yezentlalo. Kuphela kuxa unoxolo lwengqondo, ukhuseleko nenkxaso, apho unokuthi uqale unike lonke ukhathalelo olufunwa ngabantwana bakho.
• Sikwacacile ukuba ukwenzakala aba bantwana bakwenzileyo ngekhe kuphele. Konke oku kushiya uphawu, nangona kunjalo, Isenzo esilula "sokuziva ukhuselekile kwakhona" sinokukuvumela ukuba wakhe ukuzithemba ukuze la maphupha mabi ayeke, avuse umhlaba kwakhona kwaye athembele.
• Ukubanakho ukuya esikolweni kwakhona kwaye baqhele ubomi babo ngeendlela kunye nemikhwa phakathi koomama neentsapho zabo kuya kubenza bancume kwakhona kungekudala okanye kamva.

Ukuququmbela. Kuncinci kakhulu okuseleyo kuthi ukuba sibhiyozele u usuku lomama, umzuzu okhethekileyo wokucingisisa ngala mandla asinika wona ukuba ngumama, esibonisa konke esinako ukukwenza. Ukuba ngumama akuziqondi iintlanga, iinkcubeko okanye amaxesha ezembali, ngumzabalazo oqhubekayo ekufuneka siwuxhasile.

Umbulelo wethu namhlanje uya kubo bonke abo bafazi bathwala abantwana babo ezingalweni zabo imini nobusuku, abathi banyamezele iinyembezi, ukuthotywa kunye nokuhlaselwa, kwaye ngubani  Okwangoku, bazama ukuncuma abantwana babo ngokubaxelela ngehlabathi elingcono, ngelixa ilizwe-ubuncinci behlabathi-libonakala ngathi lilibele ngabo. Masithembe ukuba kungekudala yonke le meko iya kusonjululwa ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo, kuba sonke kufanelekile, sonke kufanelekile ukulwela ikamva labanye abantwana abangenzanga nto ukuba babandezeleke ngolu hlobo.