U-Japanese Marie Kondo uye waduma xa kusenziwa iodolo yeekhabhathi kunye neeshelfu. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba, nokuba yingcali, enye yemiceli mngeni yakhe mikhulu ibiyiyo ukuhlela iimpahla zomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa.
Ayisiyonto incinci, ubungakanani yingxaki yokwenyani: kunzima ukusonga iimpahla, iikawusi zibe zizinto ezincinci, kukho izinto ezingaphezulu kweshumi elinambini kunye nezixhobo kubandakanya iminqwazi, iiglavu, iibhibhi kunye nabanye. Ngokuhamba kwexesha oomama baba ziingcali kwezi de lungisa iimpahla ezisandula ukuzalwa. Kodwa ekuqaleni, ukungabi namava kusebenza ngokuchasene nayo kwaye yiyo loo nto kufuneka ukuba uququzelele.
Impahla encinci yosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa
Indlela yeKonMary -okanye indlela uKondo achaza ngayo usonge njani iimpahla zomntwana- kubonakala ngathi isebenza njengekhubalo. Ngendlela, ekuqaleni kuya kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokwenza i-origami kunye neempahla ezincinci. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, iziphumo ezintle zinokufikelelwa.
UKondo uqinisekisa ukuba ayisiyokufunda ukusonga ngokuchanekileyo kuphela kodwa nokuba nengqondo elungelelanisiweyo ukuze wazi ukuba yeyiphi impahla oza kuyithenga kunye nokuyisebenzisa, oza kuyitshintsha okanye uyinike abanye. Ngaba leyo yimfihlo hlela iimpahla ezisanda kuzalwa Akubonakali nje kuphela ekucwangciseni yonke into kakuhle kwiishelufa kodwa ekuphepheni ukuqokelela kweengubo ezingadingekile. Ngokwendlela yeKonMary, eyona ithemometha efanelekileyo yokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uyigcine nini okanye uyinike nini ingubo ukuyibamba ezandleni zakho kwaye uyive. Emva koko, imvakalelo eyivelisayo iya kufumaniswa: ukuba ilungile, kuya kufuneka igcinwe, kungenjalo, kungcono ukuyigcina kwingxowa yesipho.
Kwimeko yesinxibo esisandul 'ukuzalwa, indlela inokufumana umohluko njengoko ezi zizipho eziye zifumaneke ngamanye amaxesha. Kungenzeka kwakhona ukuba sithenge iimpahla ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba ubungakanani bomntwana buya kuba yintoni, ke kufana nokuthenga okungaboniyo khetha ibhulukhwe yomntwana.
Ukuthintela ukugqithisa, uKondo uphakamisa ithiyori yento encinci, oko kukuthi, kuthintele ukugqitha. Umntu uhlala ethenga ngakumbi xa enomntwana. Unokuzilinga ngezihlangu ezintle okanye ilokhwe ephuphayo kodwa ukuphephe ukuthenga kakhulu. Zama ukuba nezinto eziyimfuneko kuphela kwaye yakuba yonke i-trousseau ikhethiwe ewe ewe lixesha lokuba Hlela iimpahla ezisandul 'ukuzalwa ekhabethe.
Usana olutsha, iodolo entsha
Sele ndikuxelele eyona nto inzima malunga nayo odola iimpahla ezisandul 'ukuzalwa Ukuzalwa kukhulu. Kunzima ukufumba iimpahla kuba ziyawa kuba zincinci. Ngesi sizathu, ukusonga nkqo okwenziwa nguMarie Kondo kubonakala kufanelekile xa kuziwa ekugcineni iimpahla zomntwana zilungile.
Ukugoba nkqo okushunyayelwa nguMarie Kondo kufanelekile iimpahla zomntwana. Ndiyabulela kule ndlela, iimpahla zomntwana zihlala zibonakala, zilungelelene kwaye zilungele ukunxitywa. Yindlela ekuvumela ukuba ube nombono wemibala kunye nezo zambatho ungekazifaki kodwa oza kuzisebenzisa kungekudala. Ukuba nayo yonke into ebonakalayo yindlela entle ongakulibali
Hlela iimpahla zomzimba, iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane, izikipa, kunye nezinye izinto ngononophelo. Ungazisonga iipijjamas okanye usete iziqwenga ezibini ngokubeka iblukhwe ngaphakathi kwehempe ukwenza iphakheji encinci kwaye ugcine i-rUcoceko olusandul 'ukuzalwa olusandul' ukuzalwa.
Ezinye iingcebiso ngeempahla zomntwana
Ukugcinwa okufihliweyo kuluncedo kakhulu nako. Unoku-odola iikawusi zosana ngokubeka enye phezu kwenye kwaye wenze umqulu. Okokugqibela, ngencam yenye ugoba enye kwaye uyakuba nebhola encinci onokuyibeka kuyo nayiphi na idrowa. Unokwenza oku nangama-sweatshirts, uwagcine ngaphakathi kwe-hood.
Ukugoba nkqo kufanelekile kwiidrowa njengoko kuya kukuvumela ukuba ugcine indawo eninzi ngelixa unento yonke eboniswe ngokugqibeleleyo ukuze uyisebenzise kwaye ungalibali ukunxiba nasiphi na isambatho ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Khumbula ukuba iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zikhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukulibala kukunyanzela ukuba ungasebenzisi loo ngubo uyithandayo.
Ubuncinci ngumqolo woku-odola a la Marie Kondo. Ukuba ne iimpahla ezicocekileyo ezisanda kuzalwa ungasebenzisa iidrowa okanye usebenzise abaququzeleli belaphu. Emva koko unokwahlula iimpahla ngesitayile.