Abantwana abafanelwe ukungxoliswa. Xa abazali besenza, kungenxa yokuba baphulukene nomonde nentlonipho kubantwana babo. Into ecace gca yeyokuba xa utata ekhala kwaye engabahloniphi abantwana bakhe, akanakulindela ukuba bamhlonele kwaye basoloko bethetha kakuhle naye. Ukuba uyangxolisa abantwana bakho, ungathemba ukuba kungekudala okanye kamva baya kukungxolisa nawe.
Kananjalo, xa umntwana efumana isikhalo kubazali bakhe, yingqondo yakhe kuphela eya kuthi ivaleke kwaye akazukufunda kwinto oyithetha kuye ngalo mzuzu. Ukukhwaza kubangela amanxeba ngokweemvakalelo ekunzima ukuphola. Kubuhlungu ukuba umntu ofanele ukukunika ukhuseleko nothando akukhwaze njani ukoyikeka koloyiko. Endaweni yokukhwaza abantwana bakho, gxila kwezinye izakhono ezingcono kunye nezenzo.
Endaweni yokuba ubangxolise ...
Imfundo kubantwana inokuba yinto entle ngakumbi ukuba uyayicebisa. Ukungxola abantwana akuvumelekanga. Ukuba ufuna ukukhwaza, unako, kodwa encotsheni yentaba kwaye hayi ekhaya phambi kwabantwana bakho! Endaweni yokukhwaza abantwana bakho unga:
- Sebenza ngemfundo yemvakalelo ekhaya. Funda ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba nabo benze njalo. Ukuba uyakwazi ukuyenza, abantwana bakho baya kuyifunda. Ukuba uthetha ngentlonelo nangokuthula, nabantwana bakho baya kwenza njalo.
- Zuza intlonipho yabantwana bakho. Intlonipho yabantwana ayifunyanwa ngokungxola, oko kukhokelela kuphela kuloyiko nomsindo. Ukuze abantwana bakho bakuhloniphe, ufuna kuphela uqeqesho kunye negunya kodwa ngaphandle kokungxola okanye ukusongela ... kuphela ngemfundo yeemvakalelo.
- Yiba nemfesane. Uvelwano sisixhobo esinamandla kwaye xa uzibeka ezicathulweni zabantwana bakho, baya kuziva bethandwa kwaye behlonitshwa. Oku kufezekiswa kuphela ngeemvakalelo.
- Ukuba imida ayilahlekanga. Ekhaya, imida kunye nemithetho ayinakubakho ukuze abantwana bazi ukuba kulindeleke ntoni kubo. Ngale ndlela bayakwazi okulindelekileyo kubo kunye noko kwamkelweyo kwaye kungamkelwa.