Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantwana baye bathwalwa ezingalweni zoomama de bakwazi ukuzimela. Okwangoku, kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, iintsana zisathathwa zisondele emzimbeni kanina, nokuba ziye emsebenzini. Yinto yendalo kwaye iyimfuneko leyo, ngethamsanqa, iya isiba yinto eqhelekileyo nakwindawo zangoku ezifana nezethu. Oku kwaziwa njenge Ukuthwala kwaye kubandakanya ukuphatha usana ecaleni komzimba, nokuba kusezandleni okanye usebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwesikhafu, ilaphu okanye ubhaka.
Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, ukubekwa kuyimfuneko. Kuya kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba sivela kwindawo efudumeleyo, apho sasingasweleki kutya, apho sasihlala siva ukubethwa kwentliziyo kanina kwaye sasonganyelwa ziintshukumo zakhe. Kwelinye icala, ngenxa yokuma, isinqe sinciphile ngelixa ubuchopho buqhubeka nokukhula kunye nobukhulu, ke ixesha lokukhulelwa lancitshiswa ukulungiselela ukuhamba komntwana kumjelo wokuzalwa.
Ngenxa yoku, bantu, sizalwa singakakhuli kakhulu ngokubhekisele kwezinye iintlobo zezilwanyana. Nasiphi na isilwanyana esanyisayo siyakwazi ukuhambisa okanye ukukhangela ukutya kwakamsinya emva kokuzalwa, nangona kunjalo, inzala yabantu izalwa ingakwazi ukondla, ukunxibelelana (ngaphandle kokukhala) okanye ukuhamba ngokuzimela, ke kufuneka uqhubeke uzive ukhuselekile kwaye kwiimeko ezifanayo nezo zesibeleko sikanina ngelixa uziqhelanisa nobomi bangaphandle. Oku kwaziwa njenge Ukuxhamla kwaye igubungela malunga neenyanga ezilithoba zokuqala zobomi obungaphandle.
Isifuba sikanina yindawo yokuhlala yendalo yosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Ukuthwala kunezibonelelo ezininzi zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zomntwana kunye nomntu omthweleyo. Inokuphathwa ngeengalo okanye ukusebenzisa i-ergonomic baby carrier esinceda ukuba sisasaze ubunzima kwaye sinezandla zethu simahla.
Izibonelelo zokuPhathwa kwabasanda kuzalwa
Ukuququzelela ukuziqhelanisa nobomi obungaphandle.
Ukudlula kwisibeleko ukuya ngaphandle lutshintsho olukhulu kusana. Ukudibana nomzimba kamama, ubushushu bayo, ukubetha kwentliziyo kunye nevumba layo, kwenza le mpembelelo inciphe.
Kumama, olu tshintsho alukho lula. Kwiiyure ezimbalwa usiya ekubeni nesisu esikhulu apho uqhubeka uziva usana lwakho, ukuba nesisu esingenanto. Ukuhambisa umntwana kufutshane nomzimba kunceda ukunciphisa imvakalelo yokuziva ulilize esele ihleli emva kokubeleka.
Isingqisho esibalulekileyo sikamama kunye nesana ziyahambelana.
Ukudibana nomzimba kamama kunceda umntwana ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba wakhe. Ukongeza, ukuphefumla kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo kuzo zombini ziyahambelana kwaye i-apneas iyathintelwa.
Ukukhuthaza ukusekwa kokuncancisa
Xa umntwana ephethwe, isifuba sihlala sisondele, nto leyo ithanda ukuncancisa kwimfuno kwaye ke imveliso yobisi. Ukongeza, ukunxibelelana kolusu nolusu kukhuthaza ukugcinwa kwehomoni yokuncancisa.
Ubophelelo lomama nosana kunye nokuncamathiselwa okukhuselekileyo kuyaqiniswa.
Emva kokubeleka, umntwana uyawuqonda umzimba kamama njengendawo ahlala kuyo. Ukuqhagamshelana nolusu nolusu kubangela secrete endorphins evelisa imvakalelo yokuzola kunye nokhuseleko kubo bobabini umama nosana. Ukongeza, umphathi ophetheyo ufunda ukukhawulezisa imiqondiso yosana, ukuthanda ukuhoywa kwangoko, okuchaphazela ukukhula kwabo kunye nokwenza abantu abadala abazimeleyo nabakhuselekileyo.
Ukulila kuncitshisiwe.
Umntwana, eziva ezolile kwaye ekhuselekile, ukhala kancinci kuba esazi ukuba ukusinda kwakhe kuqinisekisiwe Kwaye awudingi ukwenza ukuba ii-alamu zakho zisebenze.
Iphucula umgangatho wokulala.
Ukunxibelelana nomzimba kamama, ukunyikimisa xa ushukuma kunye noxolo lokuziva ukhuselekile, yenza ukuba usana longezwe iiyure ezininzi zokulala ngosuku kunye nomgangatho ongcono. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kuba kwezinye izigaba zokulala ukufundwa kosuku kudityanisiwe.
Intlalontle enkulu yomzimba.
Ukuma nkqo kunye nokuthanjiswa okubangelwa ziintshukumo zikanina, kunceda ukukhupha igesi, ukuphucula ukushukuma kwamathumbu kunye ukuthintela i-colic yentsana, kunye nokuphinda ubuye kwakhona kunye ne-reflux.
Uphuhliso lwee-psychomotor ezichanekileyo luyathandwa.
Kwi-ergonomic baby carrier, umntwana ugcina imeko yendalo (froggy) yomzimba. Esi sikhundla sithanda ukukhula okuchanekileyo kwezihlunu zomqolo wakho, umqolo, isinqe kunye nemilenze. Iipathologies ezinje nge-hip dysplasia okanye i-postural pioiocephaly zithintelwe.
Ukudityaniswa okungcono kwezentlalo.
Umntwana uhlala ekuphakameni okufanayo nakubantu abadala, yiyo loo nto ebhaptizwa kwincoko, efumana inkuthazo kunye nokugcina ukudibana kwamehlo bobabini nomphathi wakhe kunye nommandla wonke. Oku uthanda ukudityaniswa kwabo kunye noluntu.
Inkululeko yokuhamba.
Kulaa nyanga zokuqala xa umntwana efuna ukunxibelelana okungaka, ophethe umntwana usishiya sikhululekile izandla ukubanakho ukwenza eminye imisebenzi, ukukhathalela abantwana bakowenu abadala okanye ukufikelela kwiindawo ekunzima ukufikelela kuzo ngenqwelo.
Izibonelelo zokuthwala kwiintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha
Ukuba ukunxibelelana nolusu nolusu kubalulekile kumntwana osisigxina, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana azalwe ngaphambi kwexesha. Ukukhutshwa emzimbeni kwezi meko kubalulekile kuba bazelwe bengakhange bagqibe ukukhula kwabo ngaphakathi badinga ukunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni nabazali babo amaxesha amaninzi.
Ukhathalelo lweKangaroo lunceda umntwana ukuba anciphise uxinzelelo kwaye azive ekhuselekile, ukuthanda ubudlelwane bemvakalelo nabazali babo.
Ukuqhagamshelana nolusu nolusu kuyanceda ukunciphisa iintlungu zongenelelo ngoncedo lonyango, ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba, ukungqamanisa ukuphefumla kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo kukamama nosana kunye nokulungelelanisa ngcono ukuginya-ukuginya, okulungele ukutyeba ngokukhawuleza.
Kwezi meko abathwali babantwana baluncedo kakhulu kuba bevumela ukuthwala umntwana kufutshane nomzimba ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye kwangaxeshanye ukuze bakwazi ukwenza eminye imisebenzi.
Njengoko ubona, zininzi izibonelelo zokuthwala. Kodwa kubo bonke, ndishiyeke nemvakalelo emnandi yokubava abantwana bam esifubeni, ukubabona belele ngoxolo kwaye bephefumla ngesingqisho kunye nam, ngoncumo lwabo xa bevuka, ukuba nako ukubanga nokuphulula. ngaphandle kwemida, ukubona ii-cuddles zabo kunye nokuhleka kufutshane. Ngamafutshane, ye Yonwabela ixesha elininzi elikhethekileyo nelingalibalekiyo lothando.