Fundisa abantwana ukubaluleka kosapho

Ngomso ngoMeyi 15, kwaye ukuba ubungazi ndiyavuya ukukuxelela ukuba uSuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe loSapho lubhiyozelwa. Usapho lusisiseko sabo bonke abantu Kwaye abantwana banesiseko esihle sosapho apho uthando, uthando kunye nothando zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ziya kuba zezona zinokubanceda babe ngabantu abanovelwano nabaphumeleleyo. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ubethelele ebantwaneni ukubaluleka kosapho besebancinci kakhulu.

Usapho

Intsapho ibonelela ngeemfuno ezisisiseko zabantwana xa bezalwa kwaye ibanceda baphile kweli hlabathi. Yindawo apho abantwana bafunda malunga neli hlabathi kwaye bafumane izakhono zokusebenzisa izivamvo zabo, bafunde amagama okuqala kwaye bathathe inyathelo lokuqala kuyo nantoni na. Ukongeza, kusapho, abantwana bafunda amandla abo kwaye bafunda amaxabiso abazali babo. Baza kuba nakho ukuliqonda ilizwe ngenxa yombono wokuba abazali banemo yendalo esingqongileyo.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Kutheni uncumo lubaluleke kangaka kusapho?

Abantwana kufuneka bayazi indlela olubaluleke ngayo usapho kubomi babo, ayisiyonto ethathwa ngokungakhathali, kufuneka yaziwe kwaye iqondwe. Abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba banosapho lwabo nanini na xa belufuna, Oku kuyonyusa ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye uya kuziva ukhululeke ngakumbi xa ujongene neemeko zoxinzelelo, zikwenza ukwazi ukuzoyisa. Ukuzithemba kunye nokuziva unqabisekile kuya kwenza ukuba kube lula kubo ukujongana nehlabathi.

Kodwa ukuze abantwana bayazi yonke le nto, kubalulekile ukuba ukongeza kubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nokunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo, Thetha nabo malunga nendima yosapho kunye nendima yabazali ebomini babo. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba baqonde ngcono ukubaluleka kosapho kunye neenqobo abanazo. Ngale ndlela baya kuziva bemanyene ngakumbi.

Thetha ngokubaluleka kosapho nabantwana

Thetha ngembali yosapho

Xa abantwana benesakhono esaneleyo sokufunda, ungathetha ngembali yosapho, kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale phantsi uthethe ngako oko njengoko kunyanzelekile kuba baya kudikwa. Eyona ndlela yokwenza oku kukudibanisa amabali osapho phakathi kwincoko eqhelekileyo. Ngale ndlela, abantwana baya kuba nakho ukuwakhumbula amabali ngovuyo ngakumbi nangokucacileyo.

Uthando losapho kunye nenkathalo

Uthando nenkathalo zibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni abantwana. Zombini ezi zinto zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka abazali baqinisekise abantwana babo ukuze bazive bethandwa, bekhuselekile kwaye bethandwa ngalo lonke ixesha. Abantwana abakhuselweyo nabathandwayo ngabazali babo abayi kuba nengxaki yokuziphatha kwaye banokukhula babe ngabantu abadala abaqolileyo nabanoxanduva Kuyimfuneko ukuba uthethe nabantwana bakho yonke imihla malunga nokuba ubathanda kangakanani kwaye ubabonise uthando lwakho. Kuya kufuneka bazi ukuba izalamane zabo zibathanda njani ngenxa yokuba bengabo.

Ukunyaniseka kosapho

Ukunyaniseka kosapho kubaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka kufundiswe kwaye kuboniswe yonke imihla. Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe besazi ukuba ngobudlelwane obusempilweni nothando phakathi kosapho, abazali kunye nabantakwabo kufuneka bahlale beza kuqala kusapho. Ukunyaniseka kosapho kufuneka kufundiswe ngendlela emnandi embindini weencoko okanye kunxibelelwano losapho. Umzekelo wakho ubaluleke kakhulu. Umzekelo, kuxhomekeke kwindlela obaphatha ngayo abazali bakho (ootatomkhulu babantwana bakho), kwikamva baya kukuphatha. Kodwa kufuneka usoloko ukhuthaza umanyano losapho, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni.

Uxanduva kusapho

Abantwana kufuneka bafunde uxanduva njengenxalenye yexabiso losapho. Kuya kufuneka bazi ukuba banendima enkulu kwimicimbi yosapho kwaye ukongeza ekubeni noxanduva kwimisebenzi yosapho, izimvo zabo zibaluleke kakhulu kuwo onke amalungu osapho. Kuba ukuze usapho lumanyane kufuneka luzive lumanyene ngokwasemoyeni. 

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Usapho aluzalwanga, luyenziwa

Bonisa ukubaluleka kosapho ngezenzo

Abantwana banokuqonda yonke into ebaxelela xa benokuqonda kunye namandla okwenza oko, kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo (kubo bonke ubudala) kukuba banokubona ngezenzo zakho njengabazali ukuba usapho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo njalo njalo. yibonise ubunyani. Abanakho ukuqonda koluntu kwaye ke baya kulingisa amanyathelo abawabona kuwe.

Uya kuba ngumzekelo wabo omkhulu kwaye baya kwenza le uyenzayo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali babe yimizekelo yokwenyani yokuqhubeka nokubonisa amaxabiso ngezenzo. Ezinye zeendlela zokufezekisa oku kungathathela ingqalelo la manqaku alandelayo:

• Dibana nosapho. Ukudibana nosapho kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni kwaye kuyakubonisa ukubaluleka komanyano phakathi kwamalungu alo. Ukongeza, kwiindibano zosapho, abantwana baya kufunda amaxabiso amahle ngothando nokukhathalela amalungu osapho.

• Hlonipha abanye. Ukuze babethelele imbeko kwabanye, abazali kufuneka bahloniphe abanye ngokunjalo nabantwana babo. Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba abantwana bafunde ukuhlonipha nokuxabisa abanye. Abantwana bafunda ukuba namanye amalungu osapho abalulekile kwaye kufuneka babonise intlonelo kwaye babakhathalele.
• Yenza izithethe zosapho. Amasiko ikwayindlela elungileyo yokufundisa amaxabiso abalulekileyo ebantwaneni kunye nokwenza ubudlelwane obomeleleyo beemvakalelo.
• Ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincinci. Izinto ezincinci ebomini zinentsingiselo yokwenene. Esi sizathu sokuba kuya kufuneka ufake yonke imikhwa encinci kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Umzekelo omncinci kukuvuyisana nomhla wokuzalwa kuwo onke amalungu osapho.

Into esingenakuyilibala kukuba abantwana baziva uthando olungenamiqathango kwaye banakho ukulubonisa ngokunjalo, kufuneka baqonde ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukumanyana kosapho kubulelwa imihla ngemihla, ukuba nothando njengesiseko nothando njengomfundisi-ntsapho.