Ukuba ngabazali kuyadinisa. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ngumntwana wakho wokuqala okanye owesibini, kodwa inyani kukuba ukukhulisa nokunyamekela umntwana kunokuba nzima. Ukudinwa kuninzi kangangokuba umsebenzi wasekhaya unokubonakala uyindinisa, kangangokuba unokuhendeka ukuba 'udlulise iitapile ezishushu zomsebenzi wasekhaya' kwiqabane lakho ukuze uphumle.
Kodwa inyani, kukuba nokuba udiniwe ngokwenene kukukhathalela usana lwakho kunye nokusebenza ... Izitya azihlambi, kwaye azizithuli, iibhedi azinakwenziwa zodwa ... Ngapha koko, kukho uthotho lwemisebenzi ekhaya ethi ukuba awunaye umntu oza kukwenzela yona okanye ococa abasebenzi ekhayeni lakho, into eqhelekileyo kukuba wena neqabane lakho zibanyamekele, ngokulinganayo.
Ukuba ngelixa usenza yonke into, iqabane lakho lilele esofeni okanye lenza 'into yalo', unokugcwala ngenxa yokuba nawe ungathanda ukuvala amehlo okanye uphumle umzuzwana, akunjalo? Kuya kufuneka ufumane isisombululo koku ngokukhawuleza ukwenzela ukuba imeko ingabi yingxaki enkulu.
Unxibelelwano kwezi meko lubalulekile ukufezekisa ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nesibini kunye nokuba imisebenzi yabiwa ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba iqabane lakho alisebenzisani ngendlela obungathanda ngayo ekhaya, sukuyivala okanye uya kugcwala ngumsindo. Mxelele kakuhle ngesimilo into ongathanda ukuba ayenze ngomsebenzi wasekhaya.
Nobabini nibazali kwaye nifuna inkxaso ngoku kunakuqala. Ukupheka, ukuhlamba, ukuhlamba izitya, ukuhlamba usana nasemva kosuku olunzima emsebenzini zizinto ekufuneka zenziwe nokuba zithini. Nidiniwe nobabini ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye kwaye nobabini kufuneka niyame ngengqiniba ekhaya. Nobabini kufuneka niphumle ngokwaneleyo, ninokude nitshintshane ngokutyisa umntwana ebusuku.