UDanilo A. Kanales, ngutata waseChile ovela kwiprofayile yakhe kaFacebook uyacacisa: "Ukuba nguyise wentombazana kundenze ndalwela amalungelo oluntu"... "Apho ndaqonda ukuba abantu basetyhini basengxakini, bahlala betyhwatyhwa kukoyika" ... Ukuziphatha kokuncoma- Ukuhlukunyezwa kubangela uloyiko kwakhona kumantombazana amadala, ndiphantse ndagabha ngumsindo xa ndicinga ukuba ngenye imini intombazana yam encinci iyakwenzeka kuye "..." ukuncoma kukuhlukumeza ngaphandle kwemvume, Kwenye indawo intombazana idlwengulwa ngamakhulu amabanjwa entolongweni, elinye liyafa libethelelwe eArgentina, kwaye nantsi utata wesibini wayenobunewunewu bokuzoba aze angcwabe intombazana eneminyaka elithoba "...
Ndizifumene ezi ngxelo ndikhangela ulwazi lokuba ndibhale le post malunga # NgoLwesithathu omnyama, nangokubulawa kwabantu basetyhini; kuba namhlanje usuku lokuqhankqalaza ngokuchasene nobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini lubizwe eArgentina. Abafazi bema iyure yonke, umyalezo ojikeleze kuTwitter ufundeka ngoluhlobo: "Ukuba ubomi bam abunamsebenzi, veza ngaphandle kwam"; abangaphantsi kwe-17 abasetyhini kunye namantombazana abulawe ezandleni zamadoda kulenyanga kwelo lizwe kwelinye icala le-Atlantic. Kwaye kungekudala kwakudala abafazi babesele bematsha kwizitrato zaseArgentina, kodwa ukubulawa kukaLucia ngo-Okthobha nge-8 kuwugqibile umonde wethu.
#Niunamenos #nosqueremosvivas # NgoLwesithathu omnyama, zezinye zee-hashtag esizifundileyo ezinxulumene nesi sihloko. Ayenzeki eArgentina kuphela kuba sithetha ngamanani ehlabathi angama-65.000 abasetyhini ababulawa ngumfazi ngonyaka. Ndirhumela amagama e Umama kaLola Chomnalez, oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala wase-Uruguay owabulawa ekupheleni konyaka odlulileyo, ngubani ifuna imigaqo-nkqubo yoluntu yokuthintela ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini 'kwaye ifuna ukuba uluntu luyeke ukuba ngumbukeli wale ngxaki.
U-Lucía Pérez ubulawa kwaye ngolwe-#Lwesithathu omnyama uyabizwa
U-Lucia wayeneminyaka eyi-16 kwaye ngo-Okthobha u-8 wahlaselwa ngokwesondo ekunzima kakhulu ukukuchaza: waya kwikhaya labucala apho ubuncinci amadoda ama-3 amfaka iziyobisi okanye amnyanzela ukuba athathe iziyobisi, amdlwengule kwaye 'ambethelele' ngokumazisa leyo 'inokuba yayiyintonga' kwilungu lobufazi. Ubundlongondlongo obungenabuntu babangela ukugqithisa okungaphezulu kwesisu sangasese esibangele ukubanjwa kwentliziyo: iintlungu ezivela ekubethelelwe zibangele umbono onjalo. Umtshutshisi kweli tyala uxela ukuba akazange abone 'ukuphambukiswa kweziganeko'.
Abahlaseli bakhe bamhlamba kwaye bafuna ukumenza akholelwe ukuba usweleke ngenxa yokubanda. Zibeke ezihlangwini zakhe, ezika mama wakhe, utata wakhe, umntakwabo. EArgentina, naphakathi ko-2008 ukuya ku-2015, ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunyuke nge-78%. Nangona kunjalo, ubundlobongela kwabasetyhini ingaphezulu kwamanani kunye neenkcukacha manani kuba imalunga neentlungu, iintsapho eziqhekekileyo, ukubandezeleka, ukungabikho kohlwaywa, ukungakwazi ukufikelela kuluntu oluhambelanayo, ubulungisa, ... ukuba akusekho 'Lucías'.
Namhlanje, konke ukuya kwi-obelisk. # Akukho namnye ongaphantsi #WednesdayBlack pic.twitter.com/Sh1HBnQ7bK
-Isizwe (@LANACION) 19 Oktobha ka-2016
Singomama, singootata… kwaye sineentombi noonyana.
Loluphi uxanduva, akunjalo? Kwaye kukungancedi ntoni ukwazi ukuba konke oku kuyenzeka kwilizwe elinye apho baya kuthi bazulazule ngokukhululekileyo kwisithuba seminyaka embalwa.
Ngaba sifuna uluntu olukhululekileyo nolulinganayo lweentombi noonyana bethu?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba, 'ubufazi' yingcinga yokuba abantu ababhinqileyo ngabantu, kodwa le yinkcazo engalunganga kwaye akukho noluvo lunye lokuphila kobufazi, kodwa inye kuphela injongo: aphelise ukungalingani kwaye aphelise ubundlobongela obuveliswa ngusolusapho obujoliswe kwabasetyhini. Ngoku singavota kwaye sifunde, kodwa bayasibulala; Asibiyelwanga ngaphakathi kweendonga ze-4 zendlu, kodwa olunye ugonyamelo olufihlakeleyo lusenziwa kuthi.
URosa de Luxembourg wayengumbhali-ngcamango kaMarx ozelwe kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane ye-XNUMX, owalwayo "Ngehlabathi apho silingana ngokwasentlalweni, sahluke ngokwabantu kwaye sikhululekile kwaphela": kum yinkcazo egqibeleleyo yobufazi, kuba isinika inkululeko yokwahluka phakathi kwethu neziqu zethu, kwaye ngaxeshanye silingane… kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke SIMAHLA.
Kodwa iya kukhululeka kangakanani intombi yam kwiminyaka embalwa ukuba uyoyika ukwehla ngesitalato wedwa? Uza kuziva njani ngokufanayo nabanye abantu ukuba uyagwetywa ngokunxiba iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane kakhulu? Ndicinga ukuba kulungile ngoku, lixesha lokuba siyinqande le barbarism abanye bayazama nokuzithethelela ngayo"Onke amadoda alingani", "amadoda nawo ayasokola kubundlobongela", "intombazana akufuneki ihambe yodwa", "fundisa iintombi zakho ukuze zingakhubekisi".
Ndiphendula ndithini:
- Ewe awafani onke, maninzi amadoda asixhasayo apha endleleni nasemzabalazweni; nangona nathi kufuneka somelezane.
- Sonke sinokuba ngamaxhoba obundlobongela, kodwa ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini abufani nesiqendu sobundlobongela esenzekileyo endodeni. Abacalulwa, abahlupheki ngenxa yomsantsa womvuzo, abahlukunyezwa esidlangalaleni, njl.
- Intombazana ingahamba yodwa, njengokuba inkwenkwe ihamba yodwa… Ukuhamba wedwa okanye ukunxila okanye ukuthatha nantoni na ayizizo izizathu zokuthethelela udlwengulo.
- Uluvo lokuba amantombazana 'acaphukisa' lihlazisa kakhulu kwaye luphuma engqondweni egulayo, ungakholelwa. Abasetyhini banelungelo elipheleleyo lokuphila ngokwesini ngaphandle kokutolikwa njengokucaphukisa.
Kwaye sithini kubafana namantombazana?
Into esibaxelela yona nento esiyenzayo, kuba sizizipili zabo: inkwenkwana xa ibona utata wayo ekhwaza unina inokuphinda ivelise isimilo sendoda endala; intombazana encinci ebona udadewabo omdala ethobekile ngelixa isoka lizama ukumlawula ngewhatsapp, ufunda nokuziphatha okuyingozi kuye.
Abantwana ngabantwana, abantakwabo, abahlobo, abazukulwana, abazala ... babafazi, kwaye umama notata banokwenza ukuba umntwana ngamnye anxibe iiglasi ezimfusa zokuqonda umhlaba. Kufuneka sinxibelelane ngakumbi silusapho kwaye siveze amaxabiso ethu, siqhawule ucalucalulo, kwaye ekugqibeleni sibeke etafileni isidingo soluntu olulinganayo. Inkwenkwe kufuneka yazi ukuba ayinakubamba intombazana ngaphandle kwemvumeAsinakuphinda sifundise amantombazana ukuba abaleke aye emakhaya, agqunywe ngokupheleleyo kwaye ajonge ngasemva ngalo lonke ixesha bephuma besiya epatini.
Isichazi-magama seRAE sichaza uluntu ngokuthi "siseti yabantu, abantu okanye izizwe ezihlala phantsi kwemithetho efanayo" okanye "iqela labantu bendalo okanye ekuvunyelwene ngalo, elilungelelaniswe ukusebenzisana ekuphumezeni iinjongo ezithile." Ngokoluvo lwam, ukuba asinakho ukuphelisa ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini (ukusuka kwii-micromachisms ukuya ekubulaweni kwabantu basetyhini) kufuneka siyeke ukuzibiza 'uluntu'. Kwaye ngendlela, ndiyigqiba iposti nge-infographic eluncedo kakhulu ukusibeka.
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