Zihambile iintsuku oomama bebehleli emakhaya behoye iintsapho zabo. Kule mihla, oomama, ukongeza ekubeni besekhaya kwaye babakhathalele abantwana babo kwaye bakhokele ikhaya eliya phambili, bayasebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya kwaye baziva ngathi kufuneka baziveze ukuze bakwazi ukufikelela kuyo yonke into. Ihlabathi lanamhlanje liyatshintsha kwaye imeko yezoqoqosho inzima kakhulu.
Bobabini abazali kunye madres hoy Kule mihla baxakeke kakhulu kuba kufuneka badibanise umsebenzi kunye nobomi bosapho. Ngoku ngaphezu kwalo naliphi na elinye ixesha, izinto ziba nzima ngakumbi ngenxa yendlela uluntu oluphila ngayo nazo zonke iintlawulo ezimele zenziwe nyanga nganye. Kufuneka usebenze ukuze ufumane imali ekupheleni kwenyanga, kodwa kufuneka ubekho ekhaya ukuze ufundise abantwana bakho ngendlela elungeleleneyo. kwaye ukuze bangasweli lonke inkxaso yemvakalelo abayifunayo yonke imihla.
Oomama abasebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya baziva bexinezelekile kakhulu ngabo bonke uxanduva abaluthweleyo emva komhlana wabo, kodwa kusemsebenzini nakwindlela abazithatha ngayo izinto ebomini apho banokukhokelela ebomini ngolwaneliseko okanye ngokudana kakhulu. Oomama bonwabile ukukwazi ukusebenza kwaye yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ufumane ulungelelwaniso phakathi kobomi kunye nobomi bosapho, kuba yinkqubela phambili rhoqo.
Nazi ezinye iimfihlelo zoomama abaxakeke KAKHULU ukuze bakwazi ukukhokela ubomi obonelisayo kwaye bazive bonelisekile bubomi babo. Umama namhlanje ungaphatha okungaphezulu kunoko bekucingelwa ukuba banakho ukukwenza… Kuba nangona singezizo iiSUV okanye oomatshini, siyayazi indlela yokuzilungiselela kakuhle!
Iimfihlo zoomama abaxakekileyo
Ukucwangcisa nokulungiselela ngundoqo
Ukuba ushiya izinto ozakuzenza ebusuku phambi kokuba wenze ngolandelayo, xa kusisa uya kuqala ukusebenza imini yonke. Ke, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukucwangcisa iintsuku phambi kokuba zifike kwaye zilungiselele izinto xa unethuba lokuba ukwazi ukuqhubela phambili nomsebenzi. Umzekelo, usuku olungaphambi kokuba ulungiselele ukutya kusuku olulandelayo, lungisa iimpahla zabantwana bakho ebusuku ukuze bazinxibe kusasa, balungise iimpahla zakho, njl. Zibonakala njengezinto ezincinci kodwa ziya kukunceda ukunqanda uxinzelelo kunye noloyiko lokuchitha ixesha kwinto yokuqala ekuseni.
Khulisa ixesha lakho lomgangatho wosapho
Ukuba ukwandisa ixesha lakho, liya kuba lixesha elifanelekileyo. Unokusebenza iiyure ezinde evekini, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu oko cwangcisa iiyure ezimbalwa evekini ukwenza izinto nosapho lwakho. Bayakudinga nawe. Jonga izithuba kunye neeyure zasimahla zokucwangcisa imisebenzi yosapho enjengokuhambahamba, ukuya kusela nosapho, ukudlala imidlalo ekhaya, njl. Eli xesha yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Beka ixesha ngokubaluleka kunye neqabane lakho
Kuyimfuneko ukuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwesi sibini ukuze usapho lusebenze kakuhle. Abazali abathandanayo, abathandanayo nabahloniphanayo baya kukhokelela kubomi bosapho ngcono. Ukongeza, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba awungobazali kuphela, ukwangabantu abatshatileyo. Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba ujonge ukhetho ukuze uchithe ixesha uwedwa kwaye wonwabe.
Yabelana ngemisebenzi neqabane lakho
Ukuba ngumama akukwenzi uxanduva lwakho kuphela kubantwana bakho okanye kusapho lwakho. Ukuba utshatile okanye uneqabane, luxanduva lwabo bobabini ukuba yonke into iyasebenza. Kufuneka wabelane ngemisebenzi yasekhaya kunye noxanduva lwabantwana ukuze yonke into isebenze kakuhle. Ukuba ngutata nomama ngumsebenzi wama-50/50… Ningabathetheli ababini kwisikhephe esinye.
Lungisa utshintsho olwenziwayo
Ukuba ngabazali kuthetha ukuba ubomi abuhlali buhamba njalo. Kuba abantwana bazalwa bayakhula kwaye iinkqubo ziya kutshintsha kancinci kancinci. Ukongeza, ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ukusukela xa ungumama okanye utata kufuneka ucinge ngokuphuma okanye wenze izinto ngokubhekisele kubantwana bakho. Yiya kwiivenkile zokutyela apho abantwana bamkelwe kakuhle, Fumana indawo yokwenza umthambo apho abantwana nabo bonwabile okanye ubuncinci bakhathalelwe kakuhle ... Uya kuba neemfuno zakho, kodwa kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise neendlela eziguqukayo kuba abantwana bakho baya kuhlala beza kuqala.
Yiba bhetyebhetye kangangoko
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ubhetyebhetye imihla ngemihla kwaye ulibale malunga nokuqina kwengqondo. Kukho iintsuku apho ungafikeleli kuyo yonke into kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bayagula kwaye awukwazi ukusebenza yonke into ecwangcisiweyo ngenxa yokuba kufuneka ubanyamekele, kufuneka uyirhoxise intlanganiso kuba kufuneka uthathe umntwana wakho uye kugqirha wabantwana. Mhlawumbi ngenye imini ngekhe ubenalo nexesha lokuhlala esofeni kangangemizuzu emi-5 ... Kuyimfuneko ukuba ubhetyebhetye kwaye wamkele iintsuku njengoko zisiza.
Ukungahoyi ityala likamama
Kukho ityala eliqhelekileyo oomama abaninzi abangabavumeli nokuba balale. Banokuziva benetyala ngokungachithi ixesha elininzi nosapho, ngokuba nendlu enoburharha, ukungabinalo ixesha lokupheka ukutya okusempilweni, ngokwenza imali encinci eya kuchaphazela ukuphela kwenyanga kuba kufuneka bekhathalele abantwana babo ekhaya xa begula… Kukuziva unetyala ngayo yonke into! Kwaye oko, Ayilunganga impilo yeemvakalelo zoomama kwaye ayilungelanga nantoni na.
Ayisiyonto inenzuzo kwaye yinkcitho yexesha lakho elinamandla kunye namandla. Sukuvumela ukuba ubutyala obungenangqondo bufike engqondweni. Endaweni yokucinga ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuhlala bekhathalelwe bobabini xa ukhoyo kwaye xa ungekho ecaleni kwakho. Ukuba ulwa yonke imihla ubanike ixesha elisemgangathweni, lokuba xa usebenza lenzelwe bona kwaye ukuba xa ulonwabele, bayazi ukuba bayinto yakho yokuqala.
Funa uncedo nenkxaso
Ukuba kuye kwafuneka uqeshe iinkonzo zomgcini womntwana, kutheni ungenzi njalo? Mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo olongezelelweyo ukufikelela kuyo yonke into kwaye oku akufuneki ukuba yinto embi kuwe. Phantse akunakwenzeka ukuphatha yonke into unilaterally kwaye ngakumbi ukuba ungumama ongatshatanga. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuthi 'hayi', ubeke phambili, ukuze ube nexesha lakho ... Fumana umbutho obulungeleyo ubomi bakho, kwaye wonwabele ubomi bakho ngokwanelisayo!