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Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabantwana esikolweni kufuneka lunyamezele ukungcungcuthekiswa kunye nezoyikiso zokuziphatha kwabanye abantwana. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi ukuba ukuxhaphaza kunokwenzeka nanini na. Abantwana bakho kufuneka bakulungele ukujongana nezi meko ngendlela esempilweni, nokuba bangakhululekanga kangakanani.

Akukho mntu ufuna ukuba abantwana babo bangabi nakuzinceda xa kufikwa kumba wokuxhatshazwa. Ukuba awubalungiseleli abantwana bakho kwangethuba, abayi kuyazi indlela yokwenza ... Kwelinye icala, ukuba ubalungiselele, baya kuyazi indlela yokujongana neemeko ezahlukeneyo.

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nabantwana bakho malunga nokuxhaphaza okanye ukuxhatshazwaKuba ngale ndlela baya kwazi ukuba into eyenzekayo kubo ayisiyonto iyodwa, abayi kubekek 'ityala ngokwenzeka kubo kwaye ke baya kuqonda ukuba yingxaki ngokubanzi. Akayedwa kwaye kuya kufuneka akuxelele okwenzekayo ukusukela mzuzu iqala ukwenzeka ukuba ube nakho ukufumana izisombululo ngokukhawuleza.

Oku kubalulekile ukuze bazi ukuba bajongane njani nokuxhatshazwa nangaphambi kokuba yenzeke. Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga nendlela yokujongana nabaxhaphazi, indlela yokukhuseleka kwezinye iimeko, kunye nokujongana nezi meko zingathandekiyo. Ukuba uyazi neendlela zokuzikhusela, kuya kuba ngcono kakhulu.

Xa abantu becinga ngokuzikhusela, bacinga kuphela ngendlela yokuphendula kuhlaselo, Oko kukuthi, funda ukuthatha inyathelo. Ngokwenyani, ukuzikhusela akunanto yakwenza nokubetha okanye ukwenzakalisa omnye umntu. Kubandakanya kuphela ukwazi imeko-bume, ukumamela ithuku naphambi kokuba kuvele ingxaki, ukwazi indlela yokuziphatha ngokuzithemba nokulawula imeko ngokuchanekileyo.

Iindlela zokuzikhusela

Ukulwa okukhuthazayo akukaze kube ngumbono olungileyo, kodwa kukho iindlela ezithile zokuzikhusela ezinokusetyenziselwa ukuzikhusela kuhlaselo oluthile. Kukho iindlela ezisebenza ukuthintela ukubetha kuhlaselo kuye, ukuzikhulula ekubethweni, ukurhoxisa isandla somhlaseli ngexesha lohlaselo ... kunye neendlela zokuzikhusela kuhlaselo lomntu ongaphezulu komnye, oko kukuthi, ukuhlaselwa kweqela. Konke oku kunokufundwa kwiiklasi zokuzikhusela.

Okokuqala, kufuneka uthethe nabantwana bakho ukuze baqonde ukuba izakhono zokuzikhusela ayizizo ukuqala imilo, yenzelwe kuphela xa kungekho khetho ngaphandle kokuzisebenzisa. Phambi kokuba uqale umlo kufanelekile ukuba uzisuse kwimeko leyo usebenzisa ilizwi eliqinileyo lelizwi. Ukongeza, kukho izikolo ezinganyamezeli kwaphela ubundlobongela obuphathekayo kwaye zinokugxotha zombini umhlaseli kunye nexhoba lokuxhatshazwa xa ezi meko zisenzeka. Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ngokuchanekileyo ukuba zeziphi iindlela zokuzikhusela kwaye abe noqeqesho oluninzi ngaphambi kokuzisebenzisa.

Ulwimi oluchanekileyo lomzimba

Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuthintela ukuxhatshazwa kukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana banokuzithemba nokuzithemba. Xa umntwana ezithembile uya kuba nakho ukuma kakuhle, ukuhamba ngokuzithemba, kunye nokugcina ujongano lwamehlo nabo babangqongileyo. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba abantwana abajongananga, bashiyeka emva kwiqela, bazama ukuba bangathethi ... ziya kubonakala zingenamandla kwaye zilula amanqaku okuhlaselwa.

Kufuneka usebenze ekhaya, udlala indima kwezi ndlela. Khumbuza abantwana bakho ukuba nokuba baziva bengakhuselekanga, kufuneka bahambe ngokuzithemba kwaye babulise abanye abababulisayo ngokujonga emehlweni nangokuzithemba.

Hambani kwiqela

Abaxhaphazi abadli ngokutsaleleka ekuhlaseleni abantwana abakumaqela okanye abanabahlobo abaliqela. Umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba kungcono ukuya kwiindawo ezinabantu abaninzi, okanye uhambe neqela labahlobo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akanalo iqela labahlobo anokusabela kulo, kuya kufuneka ke usebenze naye ngezakhono ukuze abe nabahlobo. Ubuhlobo bunokukhusela ukuxhatshazwa. Nokuba umhlobo omnye unokunceda ekuthinteleni ukuxhaphaza.

Thembela kwithuku lakho

Ithuku labantu lilumkile. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuqonda okusingqongileyo kunye neempawu eziyingozi ukuphuma kwimeko. Ukuba kukho iqela elinetyhefu labantwana kufutshane, kungcono ukushiya indawo. Kukho iimeko ezithile ezinokubangela ukuba ii-alamu ziqhume, njengaxa umntu ejonge kuwe ngendlela engaqhelekanga esitratweni.

Umhadi wesisu usilumkisa ngobungozi kwaye kufuneka simamele. Sisakhono esibaluleke kakhulu kuba sinceda ukuba sazi ngento eyenzeka ngeenxa zonke kwaye abantwana bayakwazi ukunqanda uhlaselo. Oku kubalulekile nakubantu abadala!

Kungcono uhambe kunokuba ulwe

Iindlela zokuzikhusela zilungile ukwazi ukuba nokuzithemba okungcono, kodwa akufuneki zisetyenziswe ngendlela engenasiqinisekiso. Kuya kufuneka ujolise kuqala ekushiyeleni imeko kunokuba ujongane ngqo nokwenzekayo.

Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuba ngamanye amaxesha xa izinto ziqala ukungahambi kakuhle, kuya kufuneka ujike uhambe. Xelela abantwana bakho ukuba ayibobugwala obu, bubulumko. Kuthatha isibindi kunye nesibindi ukuhamba kude kwimeko enzima kakhulu. Gxininisa kubantwana bakho ukuba kufuneka ushiye imeko ngaphambi kokuba iphume esandleni. Ukuba akunjalo, imeko inokuba mandundu kwaye ukuxhaphaza kuyaqala.

Ithoni eqinileyo yelizwi

Xa umntwana ekumzuzu wokuxhaphaza, baya kuba namava kwaye boyike. Kodwa nokuba unezi mvakalelo, kubalulekile ukuziqhelanisa neethoni ekhuselekileyo yelizwi kwaye usebenze ngokuzithemba ukuze ungxengxeze imeko. Ngamaxesha amaninzi abahlaseli bafuna kuphela into ekujolise kuyo kwaye Ukuba umntwana ubonakalisa ukuzithemba, abo baxhaphazayo banokuyeka kwaye bayeke ukukhathazeka.

Ziqhelanise nabantwana bakho ekhaya ilizwi eliqinileyo nelingxolayo kwilizwi. Ke, xa bejamelene nokungonwabi okanye imeko entsonkothileyo, banokuyibeka ngokwendalo, ngaphandle kokuvakala benyanzelekile kwaye abayi kulibala ukuyibeka ngenxa yemeko kunye nemithambo-luvo yabo.