Kuba siyakhulelwa, okanye nangaphambi kokuba sibe, sicinga ukuba ubomi buza kuba njani nosana lwethu. Siphupha ngeziganeko zoomama apho ekucaceni kwemini, sihleli kwisitulo esigungqisayo, sincancisa usana lwethu. Uninzi lwabasetyhini lizimisele ukuncancisa kuphela usana lwaboKodwa emva kokuhanjiswa esi sigqibo sithintelwe zizinto zangaphandle (phantse rhoqo) kwaye ukuncancisa kuyaphazamiseka.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukusilela ukuncancisa kungasonjululwa ngokufumana iingcebiso ezichanekileyo.; khumbula ukuba oomama bakho okanye oomakhulu bakho okanye abanye oomama ababonisi ngabacebisi. Phantse bonke abantu basetyhini abakungqongileyo, kwaye ndiqinisekile ngale nto, bathi khange bakwazi ukuncancisa ngenxa yeX okanye Z (ngesiqhelo kuba baphelelwe lubisi). Umama omtsha uyothusa, kwaye ukucinga ukuba ubisi lwakho alukondli umntwana wakho kunokukubeka ecaleni umbono wokuncancisa kuphela kwaye uqalise owenziweyo ngaphandle kwesidingo salo. Ngale ngcebiso, amathuba okuncancisa ukuhamba phakathi kwakho nosana lwakho ngokwendalo aphezulu:
Fumanisa, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, themba ubuchule bakho
Fumanisa, kodwa hayi ngelizwi lomlomo kwindalo yakho. Nxibelelana neewebhusayithi ezikhethekileyo zokuncancisa kwaye uthethe nabazalisikazi bakho. Ndikucebisa ukuba uphephe ukubonisana nokuncancisa oomama beebhotile. Lumkela oogqirha babantwana uninzi lwayo luphelelwe lixesha. Makungabikho mntu okwenza ukuba ubuthandabuze ubuchule bakho bokuncancisa; usisilwanyana esanyisayo, amabele akho enzelwe ukondla ubomi obutsha. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umama okanye umakhulu wakho khange akwazi ukuncancisa. Ngaphandle kokuba kukho ingxaki yokwenyani yomzimba okanye yehomoni, bonke abantu basetyhini bayakwazi ukuncancisa. Kwaye nawe, ke itoni yethemba kwaye uthembe umzimba wakho.
Okungakumbi, ukubukela okuncinci
Sukubeka iiyure esifubeni sakho. Isithethe sesifuba, njengoko ndisibiza njalo, kukunika ibele zonke iiyure ezi-3 kwaye kungabi ngaphezulu kwemizuzu engama-20. Ngalo mzekelo uya kuqonda ukuba akukho ngqiqweni: ukuba babeka iglasi yamanzi kuwe, kuyakubakho iiyure apho ufuna isiselo esinye kuphela kwaye kuya kubakho iiyure apho uya kusela khona ngaxeshanye. Ukuba emva kwesiselo sokuqala ongakhange ugqibezele iglasi yakho, ubufuna esinye kwaye abakunika sona nangona unxaniwe, ubunokwenza ntoni xa ungakwazi nokunxibelelana? Khala.
Abantu bangacinga ukuba la manzi khange akuphelise ukunxanwa kwakho, kwaye ayingawo amanzi asemgangathweni kwaye banokuwatshintshela elinye. Kuyafana nokuncancisa. Kuya kufuneka uyeke umntwana akhuphe amabele kakuhle kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthatha imizuzu engama-20 kunye namanye amaxesha 1 iyure. Ngokufanelekileyo, nikela ibele elinye kuphela kwisondlo ngasinye; ngale nto uyaqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ufikelela kwinxalenye etyebileyo yobisi eyona yanelisayo. 
Akukho manzi okanye ijusi
Ulwelo ngaphandle kobisi lwebele alufuneki kude kube malunga neenyanga ezi-6, kulapho kuqalisa khona ukondla okuncedayo. Oomama abaninzi kwaye loluphi olona lwaphulo-mthetho, oogqirha babantwana, bacebisa ukuba unike amanzi endaweni yebele xa umntwana ekhala ukuze angaqheli ukubambeka imini yonke. Ubisi ikakhulu ngamanzi; kuphelisa ukunxanwa kosana lwakho kunye nenxalenye yalo yesondlo eya kulondla ukuze limncede akhule esempilweni, into amanzi angenakuyenza.
IiJusi, nokuba zindalo kangakanani, akukho mfuneko yazo. Isiqhamo sinezixa ezikhulu zeswekile ezingeyomfuneko kolu sana lincinci. Kwiimeko zokuqunjelwa, oogqirha babantwana abaninzi bacebisa ukunika ipulp e-orenji encinci. Sithetha ngokuqunjelwa xa usana kunzima ukukhupha kwaye lwenza nzima kakhulu kwaye lincinci ilindle. Iintsana ebeleni zinokuhamba ngaphezulu kweveki ngaphandle kokudyobha ilweyile kwaye emva kwelo xesha, zenze izitulo zepasti ngaphandle komzamo.
"Unceda" ogqiba ukuncancisa
Kuba usana lwakho luzelwe, uyakuva igama elithi "nceda" amaxesha aliwaka. I-15 mL yoncedo eyaziwayo emva kokuncancisa yilento ihlala iyeka ukuncancisa. Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, kuya kufuneka ancancise ixesha elide ukukhuthaza ubisi oluninzi ukuba lungene. Kubalulekile ukuba wazise ngeengxaki zokuncancisa Ukuze xa usuku lokuqhambuka kwayo lufikile, sukucinga ukuba uyakuphelelwa lubisi.
Uncedo lobisi olungeyonyani kufuneka lusetyenziswe kuphela kwiimeko apho umama wayenokwehla kwimveliso yobisi ngenxa yengxaki yehomoni. Kodwa lumka xa usebenzisa iibhotile (kunye neepacifiers) njengoko uza kudida usana kunye ukuphazamisa ukuncancisa.
Kwaye njengengcebiso yakho, ungabahoyi abantu abangena phakathi kwakho kunye nebele lomntwana wakho. Nguwe obeka ukuqala kunye nokuphela kokuncancisa kwakho.
Inqaku elilungileyo uYasmina! Ndingathanda nje ukubonisa ukuba ngokukuko xa kungekho mntu uphucukileyo okanye indawo enolwazi, kungcono ukuya kumaqela enkxaso yokuncancisa, apho abacebisi bazalisekisa umsebenzi wabo ngempumelelo. Nangona kunjalo, bakhona oomama okanye oomakhulu abangakhange baqeqeshwe kodwa banobulumko, ngakumbi ukuba ngaba banomdla wokuncancisa, i-priori ndingathembela kubo.
Umzekelo, umama wamncancisa ixeshana elifutshane, umakhulu wam ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-2. izokwazi ", njalo njalo. ukuncancisa kwaphela iminyaka emi-3, akukho nto ... nangona ndizazi ixesha elide.
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