Kungenzeka ukuba xa unezinja ekhaya, ucinga ukuba xa umntwana wakho efika emhlabeni kunokuba yingxaki, okanye nokuba izinja zakho zinokuba nomona. Kuza kubakho abantu abaya kuthi bakuxelele ukuba uyakudinwa ukhathalele usana lwakho kangangokuba ulibale nokondla izinja kwaye nokuzikhupha uhambo kungayinto enkulu. Baza kukuxelela ukuba awuyi kuba nalo ixesha lokuncanca okanye ukubathanda kuba umntwana wakho uza kubaluleka.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba kube njalo, kude kuyo. Izinja zakho ziyinxalenye yosapho lwakho kwaye ukufika komntwana kuya kwenza ukuba ipakethi yakho ikhule, ayikho enye into. Kubalulekile ukuba izinja zibe zezona 'zizihlobo' zibalaseleyo ezinokuba nazo usana (ukuba alunabantakwabo).
Xa ilixesha lokuzisa usana esibhedlele ekhaya, izinja zakho ziya kuba nomdla wokudibana nawe kwakhona. kodwa kuya kufuneka wazise ilungu elitsha lepakethi / losapho eliza kwamkelwa kwaye, ukuze lithandwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kanye kanye ngendlela abafuna ngayo.
Yenza umntwana abe yinkokheli yepakethi
Kuyimfuneko ukuba nje ukuba ufike ekhaya wenze umntwana abe yinkokheli yepakethi ecaleni kwakho. Njengenkokeli ukuba uyizinja zakho, kuya kufuneka ufundise izinja zakho ukuqonda indima yosana ekhaya. Ukuba ufika ekhaya kwaye njengenkokeli yepakethi uzolile kwaye unesimo esomeleleyo, uyakunika inja yakho ukuzithemba, imida kunye nolwakhiwo olucacileyo lwepakethi yakho.
Ukuba bayaqonda ukuba ngubani oyinkokeli yepakethi nangaphambi kokuba umntwana afike, akusayi kubakho nqanaba lobundlongondlongo okanye unxunguphalo malunga nokongezwa okutsha kusapho. Yazisa inja yakho ukuba ulawula, ukuze ukhululeke kwaye izinja zakho nazo zizolile kwaye zilonwabele usana lwakho nokuba luyarhona.
Xa uhamba nosana lwakho, yazi kakuhle leash
Ulawulo olulungileyo lwe-leash lubalulekile xa usiya kuhamba nenja / izinja kunye nosana lwakho. Kuya kufuneka ubandakanye izilwanyana zasekhaya kwiinkqubo zemihla ngemihla nosana lwakho ukuze bazive ngathi bayinxalenye epheleleyo yepakethi. Ukuhamba uhambo yindlela elungileyo yokwenza oku, ke inja yakho iya kuziva ikhululekile ukuhamba kwi-leash ecaleni komhambi ngaphandle kokuba nexhala.
Ukuba inja yakho iyatsala ngenzondelelo kwi-leash kubalulekile ukuba isebenze ukuze ikwazi ukuhamba kwipakethi. Fundisa izinja zakho ukuba zilinde nanini na xa kukho imfuneko, ziyeke nanini na xa u-odola, ucothe xa usitsho ... Ke, ukuba nolawulo olufanelekileyo uya kuba nakho ukuhamba nezinja zakho kunye nenqwelomoya ngaphandle kokuxhamla kwinqanawa wosana lwakho.
Enye indlela yokuthintela uxinzelelo ekuhambeni nosana lwakho kunye nezinja, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuhambahamba nezinja kunye nemoto ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Ngale ndlela unokuziqeqesha izinja zakho ngaphandle kokuba usana lwakho luhlale kwisitrato. Kuya kuba lula kuwe kwaye xa usana luzelwe inja sele izakusetyenziselwa ukuhamba ngokuchanekileyo ecaleni komhambi wakho.
Beka imida ecacileyo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba njengenkokeli yokupakisha ungabeka imida ecacileyo yenja yakho. Ukuba uzimisele ukuseta umda xa umntwana wakho ekwindawo ethile, akukho mfuneko yokuba uyikhuphe inja yakho egumbini ... Oku kuya kufana nokuyishiya kwaye inja yakho ingaziva imbi kakhulu, into eyingozi kuba inokubangela iimvakalelo ezimbi kuwe sana.
Kodwa izinja ziyayiqonda imida kakuhle, Kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho ulele phantsi edlala ungayivumela inja yakho ukuba isondele kwindawo ethile okanye yahlule izithuba ukuze yazi apho ingakhona kwaye apho ingakwaziyo. Ngokuchanekileyo ngokufanayo xa ungamvumeli ukuba alale esofeni kodwa ubeka ibhedi yakhe ecaleni kwesofa ukuze abe secaleni kwakho.
Yazisa isigama esitsha kwii-odolo
Ukongeza kwimiyalelo ezinja zakho zicacile, kuya kufuneka ungenise imiyalelo yokuthobela entsha ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike ekhaya. Umzekelo, ukuba izinja zakho zithanda iithoyi okanye izilwanyana ezifakiweyo, kuya kufuneka uzifundise ukuba zeziphi oonodoli kunye nezilwanyana ezifakiweyo zazo ezingezizo (kuba ziya kuba zezomntwana). Imiyalelo efana 'nokushiya', 'ayisiyo eyakho', iya kuyinceda inja yakho ukuba iqonde ukuba yeyiphi ipropathi yakhe kwaye yintoni engeyiyo.
Bhangqa izinja zakho nosana lwakho
Ungayibophelela njani inja nosana ngaphandle kolunye uhlobo lwengozi kumntu omncinci? Kukho iindlela ezilula zokwenza. Umzekelo, unokuyithengela inja yakho ibhedi kwaye uyibeke ecaleni kwebhedi egumbini lokuhlala ukuze ukwazi ukujonga inja yakho kunye nosana lwakho kwaye, inja iyakuva ukuba ikufutshane ngokwasemoyeni nosana. Usana lwakho luyakuqhela ukubakho kwezinja njengoko ekhula kwaye baya kuqonda ukuba izinja ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yosapho.
Ukubaluleka kwevumba lomntwana
Ukwazisa ivumba lomntwana kubalulekile ekwaziseni izinja zakho. Emva kokubeleka, thumela ekhaya ingubo okanye umnqwazi wosana ukuze izinja zinuke ngaphambi kokuba kusondele umntu omncinci. Ke, unokuyazisa inja yakho ngelixa ufundisa le nto ngevumba lomntwana wakho. Ngelixa umnika ukuba alijoje, kuya kufuneka umxelele igama lomntwana wakho ukuze aqale ukudibanisa elo phunga nelo gama. Myeke anuke ingubo okanye umnqwazi ngelixa uphinda igama uliphindaphinde.
Ngaphambi kokuba ungenise umntwana wakho, bulisa inja yakho njengoko uqhele ukwenza.
Kubalulekile ukuba inja yakho ingalahli ukuqaqamba kwayo, Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubabulise ngaphambi kokuba wazise umntwana wakho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, cela omnye umntu ukuba abambe umntwana wakho ngelixa ubulisa inja yakho. Mngange, mxelele ukuba umphose ntoni ... Kwaye ke myeke anuke iinyawo zosana.