Kungekudala siza kuvula ixesha leeholide ezinqwenelekayo: ihlobo! Ngayo ufuna ukuba ngaphezulu esitratweni, elunxwemeni, yenza izicwangciso nosapho, uye kulala kamva,… Ilanga lisenza ukuba sikude nekhaya, sibe mnyama kwaye sibe kwimeko engcono. Kodwa xa kukho abantwana ekhaya, iiholide zinokwahluka kancinci ukuya kuthi xhaxhe. Kungenxa yoko le nto sikushiya neengcebiso zokucwangcisa ukonwaba kusapho.
Sonke siyathanda ukucwangcisa iholide. Yimihla yokuphumla, ukuphumla, ukubona iindawo ezintsha, ukunqamula kwindlela yesiqhelo, ukuphuma kunye nokunxibelelana nokwakho. Xa kukho abantwana okanye abantwana (okanye bobabini) kuya kufuneka ubone izinto ngakumbi, kwaye ukucwangcisa kungathatha ixesha elininzi. Ngengcebiso zethu siya kukunceda ukonwaba kusapho.
Khetha indawo ekuyiwa kuyo
Isigqibo sokuqala esibalulekileyo. Abantwana banokufaka igalelo kwezabo izimvo, kubalulekile ukuba baziva ukuba uvavanyo lwabo lubalulekile nokuba isigqibo sokugqibela sithathwa ngabazali. Baza kuziva bebandakanyekile kusapho kunye nasekwenzeni izigqibo. Umgangatho kukukhetha indawo oya kuyo wonke umntu ayithandayo, ukuze wonke umntu onwabe. Izinto ezinje ngeminyaka yabantwana, ezoqoqosho kunye nemozulu, zibalulekile xa ukhetha indawo oya kuyo.
Jonga iinkqubo ezikhoyo zokubonelela ukonwaba kusapho lonke. Nje ukuba ukhethe indawo oya kuyo, ungafundisa umntwana wakho imifanekiso yendawo, mncede ayikhombe kwimephu, ambonise amasiko abo ...
Uququzelelwe okanye uhambo olukhululekileyo?
Kuyaxhomekeka. Into elungileyo malunga nohambo olulungelelanisiweyo kukuba ulibale yonke into. Unepakethi ehleliweyo kwaye kufuneka upakishe iibhegi zakho. Ukongeza, ihlala ihambelana neentsapho ezininzi ezikhethe iphakheji efanayo yeholide, abantwana banabantwana abaninzi abanokudlala nabo kwaye nabadala bakha ubuhlobo. Ikwanayo nethuba lokucwangcisa imisebenzi kwangaphambili ngaphambi kohambo.
Kwaye nivela kwiintsapho uyathanda ukwenza inkqubela phambili, eyona nto intle kukuba uhambe wedwa. Usuku ngalunye into eza kwenziwa kusuku olulandelayo icwangcisiwe ngokuxhomekeke kwimozulu, inqanaba lokukhathala, iindawo zokubona ... Kuqhelekile eyongayo ngakumbi ukuba basebenzise izibonelelo zokugqibela.
Uxwebhu
Kuxhomekeka kwindawo oyikhethileyo, zazise kakuhle ngawo onke amaxwebhu oza kuwadinga kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo lokuwacela. Ukusukela ngo-2012, ukuze ubhabhe kancinci, udinga i-DNI okanye ipasipoti. Ukuba uqhawule umtshato okanye wahlukene, ukongeza kwincwadi yosapho, uyakufuna imvume yomlingane wakho wangaphambili kunye nomthetho woqhawulo-mtshato, ukuba ukhona, wokungena kwamanye amazwe. Yilungiselele ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungakhathazeki.
Indawo yokuhlala
Ukukhetha indawo yokuhlala kutshintsha kakhulu kubantwana. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo yihotele yosapho, ngokukhethekileyo inephuli yokubhukuda, kunye nemisebenzi yabantwana. Iya kuba yimpumelelo ukuba unayo ikhitshi, kuba uya konga imali eninzi xa kufikwa ekutyeni ngaphandle.
Ukuba unomntwana, nxibelelana nendawo yokuhlala ukuze babe nokulungela ukulala.
Pakisha
Ziyanda iisutikheyisi ezinabantwana. Ukongeza ekutyeni kwabo ukuba abancancisi, kukho itafile yabo yokutshintsha kunye ne-diapers, i-creams, utshintsho, iithoyi, i-pacifiers, iimpahla, ... Kubalulekile xa uhamba nabantwana ukuba ube ikhithi encinci engxamisekileyo.
Ukuba badala, banokukunceda ukupakisha ityesi yakho.
Sele inqwelomoya
Into efanelekileyo yokuhamba nabantwana kukuthwala i ukukhanya, encinci kwaye kukhululekile ukusonga isitulo. Ezi sizisebenzisa mihla le zihlala zinzima, zomelele kwaye zilawuleka kancinci. Ngaphambili uya kuba nokuhamba ngakumbi kwaye uya kuzola. Ukuba ukhetha inqwelomoya njengendlela yokuhamba, izitulo azithathwa njengesiqhelo umthwalo ukuze uzijonge.
Yiza nokutya okulungiselelwe ukuba kungafumaneki kwinqwelomoya kunye nezinto zokonwabisa umntwana ngexesha lohambo njengokudlala, incwadi yokufaka imibala okanye ukufunda ... Ungalibali ukujonga izithintelo kwiingxowa zokuthwala.
Kutheni ukhumbula ... Eyona nto ilungileyo kukonwaba nosapho kunye nokwenza ubudlelwane.