Umsebenzi olinganiselayo kunye nobomi bosapho kubonakala ngathi yimfazwe kanaphakade, idabi elingaziwayo ukuba ungaphumelela njani ... Akululanga ukuba ngumama kwaye ujike umsebenzi osisigxina, ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nobomi bosapho kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kuye nawuphi na umama wale nkulungwane yeshumi elinesithandathu. Kodwa ayisiyonto ingenakwenzeka kwaphela, kwaye ukwazi ngakumbi oko Abasetyhini bayasebenza, banemveliso kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, oomama.
Ukuba ungumama kwaye uyaphangela, ndiqinisekile uyayazi le nto ndithetha ngayo. Ngesi sizathu, ungathandabuzi ukuqala ukucinga ngokusengqiqweni, yeka ukubandezeleka kwaye ucinge malunga nento ekufuneka uyenzele ukulungelana nosapho kunye nawe. Ukuba kukho imfuneko, bhala nganye kwezi ephepheni iingcebiso ukuze ukwazi ukuzisebenzisa ukuqala namhlanje.
Sukuziva unetyala
Oomama abaninzi baziva benetyala kuba bachitha ixesha elininzi losuku kwiiyure zabo zokusebenza ezahlulwe kubantwana babo. Babuhlungu kakhulu kwaye loo nto ayivumeli ukuba babe nemveliso njengoko benokuba njalo. Kodwa ungathini ukuba ndikuxelele ukuba ukuya kusebenza yonke imihla sesona senzo sikhulu sothando osinika umntwana wakho? Uluntu lwanamhlanje lusekwe ngendlela yokuba kufuneka oomama basebenze (kwizihlandlo ezininzi) ukulungiselela ukuziphilisa kwaye ukwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno ezisisiseko zosapho (njengokuhlawula amatyala, ukuthenga, ukunxiba iimpahla ezifanelekileyo, njl. Ke yonke intsasa xa uphuma ngomnyango, yenze ngoncumo! Umzamo wakho lulonwabo lwabo, kunye nawe! Unomsebenzi wobugcisa ekufuneka uwuhoyile.
Fumana ezinye iinkqubo ezilungileyo zakusasa
Ukuba intsasa iqala ngoxinzelelo, iya kuba xa usuku lonke luye lwajijelwa wonke umntu. Kungcono ukuba ebusuku yonke into icwangciswe kakuhle kusuku olulandelayo. Lungiselela isidlo sasemini sabantwana, shiya iimpahla zilungile, oobhaka sele belungisiwe, umsebenzi wesikolo ugqityiwe kwaye uqiniseke ukuba bayolala becocekile. Ekuseni iya kuba lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthetha malunga nokuba kukho utshintsho olwenziweyo ngolo suku kusapho, kwaye Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nesidlo sakusasa kunye ukomeleza ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo.
Fumana umntu oza kukugcina
Iiyure zesikolo zilungile, kodwa azinakuhlala zigubungela lonke usuku lomsebenzi. Abantwana abanatyala ukuba iishedyuli zabantu abadala azifani okanye kufuneka sisebenze iiyure ezininzi ukuze sikwazi ukufumana umvuzo olungileyo ekupheleni kwenyanga. Kodwa kufuneka zikhathalelwe kakuhle ngalo lonke ixesha. Buza abahlobo bakho okanye usapho ukuba bayabazi abantwana abagcina abantwana ukuze bakwazi ukubaqesha ngexesha elifanelekileyo xa kuvela imeko kaxakeka emsebenzini. Khumbula ukuba nanini na unakho abantwana bakho bafuna ukuba kunye nawe kwaye bachithe ixesha elisemgangathweni, kwaye nangona umsebenzi wakho ubalulekile, nabantwana bakho banjalo.
Nangona ufuna ukuqesha umntu ogcina umntwana kuyakufuneka wenze udliwanondlebe lomntu, wazi ukuba bafumaneka ntoni, wazi ukuba ngamava abo anyamekela abantwana abakwiminyaka yabantwana bakho (kwaye ikwangamava abonakalayo) kwaye baya kuba ukuba nenombolo yefowuni ekhoyo ukuze ukwazi Nxibelelana naye nanini na kufanelekile.
Kodwa khumbula ukuba umntu ogcina umntwana uya kuhlala eyinto elungileyo., xa usazi kwaye usazi ukuba ukhetho lokuqala lokukhathalela abantwana bakho luya kusoloko inguwe. Ukuba umsebenzi unokulinda, abantwana bakho kufuneka bahlale beza kuqala. Ukuba awukwazi ukulinda ngenene, emva koko ukhethe ukuqesha umntu oza kubagcina ngeeyure ozifuna ngosuku oluthile.
Yiba nekhalenda yosapho kunye neshedyuli kwifriji
Ukuba neshedyuli yosapho yemihla ngemihla efrijini kubalulekile ukuze wonke umntu azi into eyenziwa lilungu ngalinye losapho mzuzu ngamnye wosuku. Ke akuyi kubakho kunqunyulwa kumalungu osapho kwaye abantwana baya kwazi ukuba baphi abazali babo kwaye bafika nini ixesha ekhaya kwaye ngoba. Ukongeza, ukuba banemisebenzi yangaphandle, baya kuba nakho ukubazi kwaye babenakho ukuya yonke imihla kwindawo apho bahambelana khona. Njengokuba oko kwakungonelanga, abantwana kufuneka babeneeshedyuli zomsebenzi kwigumbi labo lokulala ukugcina iingqondo zabo zilungelelaniswe.
Ukongeza, ukuba nekhalenda yosapho ekhaya kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba ngale ndlela ezona ntsuku zibalulekileyo zinokumakishwa kwaye abantwana baya kuba nakho Unombono olungileyo wexesha kunye nokwazi ukuba kusele malini umzekelo wokufika komhla wokuzalwa, okanye into engekhoyo kwiKrisimesi okanye kwiiholide ezizayo.
Nxibelelana nabantwana bakho
Ukuba awunandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokuba kude nekhaya imini yonke, okanye ebusuku awuyi kubakho ukuze ulalise abantwana bakho, elinye icebo kukusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe obutsha ukuze abantwana bakho bangaziva ukuba ukude. Ungathetha nabo emnxebeni okanye kwiSkype. Ukuba awunaxesha lalonto, unokurekhoda ividiyo ubafundele ibali okanye urekhode ilizwi lakho ucula ilullaby yabo abayithandayo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuya kumdlalo womntwana wakho, menze akubone okubalulekileyo kuwe Kwaye mnike inqaku lenkuthazo okanye umtsalane ukuze azi ukuba uya kuba nawe ngamaxesha onke. Tsalela umnxeba ukuze uthethe nabo okanye uthumele iifoto ngeWhatsApp kwiqabane lakho ukuze abantwana bakho babone into oyenzayo.
Sebenzisa ithuba lokuseta ixesha
Kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba ulisebenzisa njani ixesha lokuthatha ixesha elisemgangathweni usapho. Umzekelo, ukuba kufuneka wenze iminxeba okanye ujonge ii-imeyile, kungcono ukuyenza xa abantwana bakho sele belele. Thatha ixesha lokuba neqabane lakho ebusuku kwaye thintela ukwenza izinto ezininzi xa ukunye nabantwana bakho. Sukuchitha ixesha, phumla xa kufuneka uyibeke bucala ifowuni xa ukunye nabantwana bakho.
Yenza amaxesha akhethekileyo
Kuya kufuneka wenze amaxesha akhethekileyo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ebomini bakho kwaye konke kubaluleke ngokulinganayo: Ixesha elikhethekileyo njengosapho, ixesha elikhethekileyo njengesibini kunye nexesha elikhethekileyo.