Kwiminyaka emine amakhwenkwe namantombazana baqala ukulinganisa imisebenzi yabantu abadala kwaye bangene kwinqanaba. Kukho imidlalo emininzi kunye nezinto zokudlala eziyilelwe ngokukodwa ubudala, eyona nto ibakhuthazayo kukukhula kwengqondo, iimvakalelo kunye nophuhliso lweemoto. Konke oku kunokwenziwa ngokudlala.
Imidlalo yabantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo inqanaba leemvakalelo. Inkqubo ye- imvakalelo yokhuphiswano iqala ukuvela, Ungaqala ukuba nemincili ukuba uyaphumelela kwaye uyacaphuka ukuba uyaphulukana. Sincoma eminye yemidlalo efanelekileyo yamakhwenkwe namantombazana kule minyaka, kwaye apha unokungaphezulu.
Ukulinganisa imidlalo yabantwana kwaye ngoba
Njengoko kubonisiwe kwiminyaka eyi-4, Amakhwenkwe namantombazana ayakonwabela ukuxelisa abantu abadala. Lixesha lokuba bathande ukudlala oomama nootata, oombane, abaqhubi beelori ... kwaye banxibe iimpahla zabadala. Unokwenza iimaski kunye nabalinganiswa abohlukeneyo. Khumbula ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ayikho isini kunye nendima, musa ukuwela kwiingcinga.
Omnye wemidlalo onokuziqhelanisa nayo kukubeka izinto ezahlukeneyo ebhokisini, njengezilwanyana, amatye, oonopopi beminwe okanye abanye. Umbono kukuba abantwana badala ibali eliqukethe izinto abaya kuyifumana khona. Singabanika nekhadibhodi ukuzoba indawo elenzeka kuyo ibali.
Kufuneka iqatshelwe into yokuba, kwiminyaka emine ubudala, abantwana bakwisigaba esipheleleyo sokuba kutheni. Bazibuza yonke into malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo, kwaye kufuneka sibaphendule. Amabali sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu ngayo. Khetha ezifanelekileyo iminyaka yabo kwaye ubabukele kunye. Imibuzo malunga nokuba kutheni ngamanye amaxesha iya kusebenza, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ibe neemvakalelo.
Imidlalo enceda ukukhula kwengqondo
Ezinye ze imidlalo enceda ukukhula kwengqondo Yenkwenkwe okanye intombi kule minyaka. Ndiyabulela kolu phuhliso lweemvakalelo, umntwana uya kuphucula ukuzithemba kwakhe, ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba kubuchule bakhe. Ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo kukwabandakanya ukukwazi ukuba novelwano nabanye kwaye uyiqonde imeko yabo.
Umzekelo wokuphuhlisa ulawulo lweemvakalelo ngu dlala oonodoli ugxininisa iimvakalelo zezi. Umzekelo, thatha isilwanyana asithandayo asithandayo kwaye uthi kuye, jonga indlela avuya ngayo indlulamthi. Kulo mgca, ungadlala ukwenza ubuso. Xelela umntwana ukuba enze ubuso obuhlungu, obonwabileyo nobukhathazekileyo ... lo mdlalo unokwenziwa phambi kwesipili.
Omnye umdlalo kukumbonisa imifanekiso Iialbham zosapho kunye nezimvo kwiimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezichazwe kuyo. Ke kwifoto yakhe xa wayemncinci kwaye epakini unokwenza ibali. Chaza indlela awayekuthanda ngayo ukuya kuloo paki, umenze mhle kangakanani ukuba ahambe, kwaye kwakumnandi kanjani ukudibana nabanye abahlobo.
Imidlalo yokuphucula ukukhula kwakho kwengqondo
Kwiminyaka emine ubudala umntwana ukhulisa amandla akhe okucinga nokusebenzisa ulwimi. Ukuze ndi yandisa imemori yakho kukho amakhadi kunye nemifanekiso emininzi. Isiphakamiso sokubonisa umntwana umzekeliso kwaye umcele ukuba ajonge kakuhle. Emva koko kuya kufuneka umbuze imibuzo malunga naloo nto. Unokwenza lo mdlalo mnye egumbini, ubuza, umzekelo, siphi isitulo? Umntwana kufuneka aphendule phezulu, ezantsi, ecaleni….
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