Ukwenza imemori kuhlala kubalulekile, kuyo yonke iminyaka, nangakumbi kuluntu apho kungafane kubhenele kumzamo wokukhumbula izinto. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bangene Iminyaka eyi-0 kunye ne-6 idlala imidlalo yememori ukuphucula amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo kunye nengqwalaselo.
Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke ufunda ukuze wazi ezinye izinto ozithandayo kunye nememori, kwaye uziqhelanise ngendlela eyonwabisayo nabantwana bakho.
Imisebenzi yabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-3
Siphakamisa umdlalo wenkumbulo, phakathi konyaka kunye nemibini, apho umntwana kunganyanzelekanga ukuba ahambe kakhulu. Umzekelo, thabatha oonodoli abathandayo okanye ubathande. Kungcono babe amagama amafutshane. Yonke imihla yenza ingxoxo efanayo phakathi kwaba bantu babini. Into emfutshane, chwetheza iGoodnight Pepe, iGoodnight Lola ..Yonke imihla iyaphinda kwaye uya kubona ukuba kungekudala umntwana wakho uza kuyenza ngokwakhe. Njengoko uyiphinda, unokongeza amabinzana, anje ngala: Phumla kakuhle, uPepe. Phumla kakuhle, Lola, njalo njalo ekuqokeleleni. Lo mdlalo olula uya kulunceda usana lwakho kwaye kancinci kancinci uya kuba nguye oza kubandakanya amava amatsha.
Omnye umdlalo owonwabisa kakhulu khangela into yokudlala efihliweyo. Masihambe siye kufuna uPepe. Into ebalulekileyo ayisiyiyo kangako ukuyifumana, kodwa ngakumbi kukuba umntwana akhumbule apho ebeyikhangele khona. Ukwenza oku, siza kubuza, ngaba sele sijonge kumatshini wokuhlamba? Phinda lo mdlalo izihlandlo ezininzi, akunamsebenzi nokuba umntwana uyakukhumbula na apho ajonge khona, kodwa uphinda isenzo sokukhumbula.
Imemori yememori ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-6
Sele beneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, abantwana bayakwazi ukusebenzisa iindlela zokucengceleza, njengokuphinda, ukubalisa okanye ukubonisa into ekufuneka beyikhumbule. Imemori ye-Autobiographical memory ikhula phakathi kweminyaka eyi-2 kunye ne-4. Kule minyaka ungababuza malunga nento abayenzileyo izolo, okanye usuku lokuzalwa lomhlobo ... ewe, ngumzuzu xa bekhumbula zonke izithembiso ozenzayo kubo.
Owona mdlalo udumileyo kunye Kulula ke ukuba izibini, onokuzenza nzima njengoko umntwana ekhula. Sele usazi uninzi lwamakhadi ajongene ubuso nobuso okanye ujonge ezantsi kwaye kuya kufuneka uwatshatise. Ukulandela umgca ofanayo kukutshatisa isithunzi kunye nomzobo. Ungaprinta, umzekelo, iigusha okanye iiNkosazana zeDisney kwaye unyana okanye intombi yakho itshatise izithunzi kunye nenani elifanelekileyo. Oku kuya kukunceda ulungise ingqalelo yakho.
Le mithambo yeyokuziqhelanisa nememori ebonakalayo ngendlela eyonwabisayo, kodwa kule minyaka yinto yokonwaba kakhulu funda iingoma. Omnye umdlalo ngu yongeza amagama, umzekelo. Ndiya evenkileni enkulu ndiyokuthenga ilitha yobisi, aphendule kuyo unyana wakho, ndiye evenkileni ndiyokuthenga ilitha yobisi nekhekhe, emva koko, wena, ke uyongeza izinto kwinqwelo othengela kuyo.
Imidlalo yokukhumbula wonke umntu
Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-6 ungaqala ukuyenza imisebenzi enzima ngakumbi yememori, ukusuka kwinto eqhelekileyo iphazili, ilungelelaniswe nobudala babo kubunzima, ukuya kuthi ga imidlalo ye semantic.
Indlela elula yokusebenzisa imemori yakho kukubuza ukukunceda uthathe iimpahla, okanye ulungiselele ukutya. Xa uchola iimpahla, uya kuzigcina kwiidrowa ezingqinelana naye, ekhitshini ungacela izithako zokupheka, mbuze ukuba ukongeze ityuwa. Izinto ezinje, ukuba uya kwanda ebunzimeni de unyana okanye intombi yakho yazi zonke iiresiphi zikagogo ngentloko.
Umsebenzi oluncedo kakhulu kunye noncedisayo koku kukubuza, emva kokwenza isenzo esikukhumbuza inyathelo ngenyathelo lemisebenzi oyenzileyo Ngosuku, iishedyuli zeklasi yakhe, ngokulandelelana kwakhe ngokunxiba. Oku kunceda ukuhlela amaxesha ememori.
Ukuba ufuna ulwazi ngakumbi malunga nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuphucula inkumbulo yabantwana bakho, unokucofa apha.