Ngexesha leminyaka yokuqala yobomi, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuba banokubathemba abo babakhathalelayo. Ngokuphendula nokungaguquguquki, abazali banceda abantwana bafunde ukuba banokuxhomekeka kubantu abasondele kubo.
Inxalenye enkulu yoku ikwabandakanya ukubonelela ngemithetho engaguquguqukiyo kunye noqeqesho njengoko umntwana ekhula. Ukuba umntwana uyakwazi okulindeleke kuye kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa kusaphulwa imithetho, uya kufunda ukuba umhlaba uhleli kakuhle, kwaye nengqondo yakhe iya kuba njalo. Ukwenza oku kunceda abantwana ukuba bakhulise amandla okuzibamba.
Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo kunye neemvakalelo, abazali kufuneka banike abantwana babo ithuba lokudlala nabanye, baphonononge amandla abo, kwaye baveze iimvakalelo zabo. Ngelixa kugcinwa umda, kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukubonelela ngezinto onokukhetha kuzo abantwana ukuze baqale ukubhengeza ukuthanda kwabo: "Ufuna i-ertyisi okanye umbona wesidlo sangokuhlwa?" okanye "Ngaba ufuna ukunxiba ihempe ebomvu okanye ihempe eluhlaza?" yimizekelo yemibuzo abazali ekufuneka bayibuze ukunceda abantwana bazenzele izigqibo.
Kwiimeko zentlalo, nceda umntwana wakho afunde ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Xa iimvakalelo zinamandla, ezinjengomsindo okanye umona, mqonde umntwana wakho kwaye. Bayeke bathethe ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngaphandle kokwenza ngokungafanelekanga. Xa kusenzeka iimpendulo ezingafanelekanga ngokweemvakalelo, ezinjengokubetha okanye ukungxola, yenze icace into yokuba izenzo azamkelekanga, kodwa zihlala zisenzeka inikezela ngenye indlela yokuqonda kunye nokuhambisa ezi mvakalelo zinzulu.
Kuya kufuneka ube ngumzekelo onethemba lokuwubona emntwaneni wakho. Khumbula ukuba izenzo zakho ziya kuba namandla ngakumbi kunamazwi owathethayo. Khumbula kwakhona ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde iimvakalelo kwaye ngenxa yoku, kufuneka uthathe lonke ithuba lokuchaza iimvakalelo.