Ukuba ukukhulelwa kuhlala kukodwa, isenzo esikhokelwa luthando phakathi kwabantu ababini, Ukuzalwa komntwana kufuneka kube yinkqubo ebuthathaka yothando phakathi kukamama nomntwana wakhe. Ngoku, sonke sicacile ukuba okwangoku, indlela esiza ngayo emhlabeni ibekwe emgangathweni kwaye ilandelwe ngokomgaqo, kangangokuba uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo ludla ngokuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqokalondel 'ingob) into eseleyo kwaye ayinamsebenzi kwaphela.
En nuestro espacio de «Madres Hoy» queremos celebrar contigo la semana del ukuhanjiswa okuhloniphekileyo, apho kukho ukucinga ngokubaluleka kokudumisa isidingo sokukhetha ukuba sifuna ukuzala ngantoni. Ngoku siyayazi loo nto Ukhuseleko kunye nokuba neengcali ezifanelekileyo kubalulekile xa unabantwana bethukodwa asinakulibala inyani yokuba i-WHO uqobo Isilumkiso kule minyaka idlulileyo: Abasetyhini abaninzi baphathwa ngokungenantlonelo nonyanyekelo kumaziko ezempilo ngexesha lokuhanjiswa kwabo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba singene kweli candelo, sitshintshe iindlela zokusebenza kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, sikwazi ukuzenzela isigqibo ngendlela esifuna ukuzala ngayo. Ngesi sihlandlo, sifuna ukucacisa iziphumo ezinokubakho ngendlela esiza ngayo emhlabeni.
Indlela esiza ngayo emhlabeni: ifuthe likamama
Zimbalwa izinto ezinokufunyanwa ngamandla amakhulu kunye neemvakalelo kunokukhulelwa. Kukho iinyanga ezisithoba zokucwangciswa, inkohliso yokondla, impahla yokuthenga, igumbi lokuxhobisa, umzimba kunye neentliziyo ezimbini zokuzinyamekela ngokutya okufanelekileyo, ukuzilolonga kwaye kunjalo, unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo oluyimpumelelo esizama ukuseka ngalo yonke imihla. sana sifunde ukuthanda ngaphandle kokwazi ubuso bakhe.
Singatsho ngaphandle kwempazamo ukuba ngalo lonke eloxesha siqhubile ngendlela entsonkothileyo apho Ngaphezu kwako konke, sifuna ukunxibelelana neso sidalwa sikhule ngaphakathi kuthi.. Nangona kunjalo, xa umzuzu wokuhanjiswa ufika, siphulukana nolawulo lwemeko yokuzibeka ezandleni zeengcali, eziza kuqinisekisa "ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle."
Eyona nto ifunyanwa ngabasetyhini ezibhedlele kukuthotywa isidima nokuziphatha kakubi. Yonke into yokufota ngokweemvakalelo ebesisebenze kuyo iinyanga ezili-9 yaphulwe kwigumbi lokuhambisa ngaphandle kokucela imvume kwaye ngequbuliso.
- Oomama babekwa kwindawo ye-lithotomy kwaye bahlala rhoqo kwaye bafumana i-episiotomies, ukuqhekeka kwangaphambi kwexesha kweembumba, ukucheba, i-enemas, kunye nokubeka iliso kumntwana ngombane.
- Ukuba ugqirha wakho ubona kufanelekile, uya kutofelwa nge-synthetic oxytocin ukukhawulezisa abasebenzi.
- Kwiminyaka yakutshanje sikwaqwalasele inani elikhulu lamacandelo okubeleka, apho kunye nokungeniswa uqobo kusenza sizibuze ukuba ingaba lo mfazi wanamhlanje akakwazi ukuzala ngokwendalo.
- Enye into edla ngokukhalaza oomama abaninzi kukuthotywa okucacileyo okukhoyo ngexesha lokubeleka.. Inyaniso yokungakwazi ukukhetha isikhundla xa ubeleka (asinakulibala ukuba «inkabi» yeyona ndlela intle kakhulu yokusebenza koochwephesha), okanye izinto ezinje ngokuhlanjululwa njengokuchetywa kweengcango zivuliwe, zivelisiwe Ngaphandle kobuhlobo ngaphambili yabafundi kwizenzo, benganxibanga kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bejolise kwicandelo le-cesarean njengeyona ndlela inokukhetha, yenza ifuthe leemvakalelo libe namandla kakhulu.
Uxinzelelo lwasemva kwesifo esibuhlungu njengesiphumo sokubeleka komntwana
Kwiphepha "Umbutho weTrauma yoZalo»Ukusuka e-United Kingdom kusinika izifundo ezininzi malunga neziphumo zolu sana lokuzalwa luhlaselwe ngabasetyhini abaninzi namhlanje.
- UMonique bydlowski ngugqirha wezifo zengqondo oyingcali kumava engqondo okuba ngumama nokuzala. Kangangokuba inguye owaqamba igama elithi "post-obstetric traumatic neurosis", njengesiphumo sobunyani obucace gca awaqala ukukubona kwasekuqaleni kweminyaka yoo-60.
- Ukuzalwa komntu lixesha lokuba sesichengeni okukhulu kwabasetyhini, kwinqanaba lobuchopho kukho imeko ethile ye-neurobiological kunye ne-hormonal elungiselelwe ukunika indlela kubhalo kunye nokuqala kobudlelwane kunye nosana, ukuba yaphuka, inokubangela iziphumo ezingaphezulu kwesinye. Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka yenye yazo.
- Ukubandezeleka, imvakalelo yokuziva uthotyiwe, yokungakwazi ukulawula okanye ukungakwazi ukwenza izigqibo kwiimeko ezininzi, ubona ukuba umntwana wakho ulawulwa njani kwaye ususwe kuwe phantse kwangoko ukuyibeka, umzekelo, kwisifukamisi, yinto ebaluleke kakhulu inqanaba lengqondo.
- Kwaye asinakulibala into ebalulekileyo: inqanaba loxinzelelo linokuba phezulu kangangokuba le cortisol egazini iya kuchaphazela umgangatho wobisi ngexesha lokuncancisa.
Ukuzalwa komntwana kufuneka ibe sisenzo sothando, kodwa… kuthekani ukuba ayisiyiyo?
UMichel Oden yingcali yokubelekisa yaseFrance eyaziwayo ngokuthethelela ngokucacileyo ukuzalwa kwendalo. Ukuqanjwa kwamagumbi okusebenza kwanamhlanje kunye neendlela zonyango kuyaphula olo phawu lweemvakalelo kufuneka lwenziwe phakathi kukamama nomntwana kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba bezelwe. Njengoko yena ngokwakhe esichazela, ukuba iimvakalelo nothando zikhokelela ekubeni sizise abantu kweli hlabathi, Akuqondwa ukuba kutheni namhlanje isenzo sokuzalwa sinokuba, ngamanye amaxesha, sibe yinto ebuhlungu kumama kwaye ngakumbi emntwaneni.
Makhe sijonge ezinye zezo ziphumo zokungonwabisi into eyaziwa ngokuba "kukuzalwa ngothando."
Umtya we-umbilical
- Sayichaza kwasekuqaleni. Isiqhelo esiqhelekileyo kukunqumla phantse kwangoko oko kudibana nomama, nokuba siyayifuna okanye asiyifuni, sisipho sendalo ekufuneka sisigcinile okwemizuzu embalwa.
- Ngaphakathi inimba Kukho iimilimitha ezingama-40 zolwelo apho iiseli zeziqu, izondlo, kunye nezinto ezininzi eziluncedo kuphuhliso lwexesha elizayo lomntwana. Ngumnikelo kwimpilo.
- Ukuba siyisike kwangoko sibeka ubomi bosana olusanda kuzalwa emngciphekweni. Inkaba ifana "nesitofu sokugonya" athe umama wasinika umntwana wakhe ukuba alwe, umzekelo kwizifo ezinjenge-tetanus.
Imizuzu eliwaka yokuqala yobomi bakho inokumisela ubukho bakho
Asitsho, iyasixelela Nils bergman ugqirha wabantwana odumileyo kunye neonatologist owaphinda wasixelela ngoxinzelelo olunetyhefu "lokuhanjiswa okungalunganga", kokubanda, okumiselweyo, ukungabi nabuntu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwanokunikezela okubuhlungu komama nomntwana.
- Ukwahlukana kwangoko phakathi komntwana nonina kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba ezelwe kunokuvelisa inqanaba eliphezulu loxinzelelo kangangokuba konke oku Unokwenza uhlengahlengiso lweemetabolism kunye nokuqonda kwengqondo ekukhuleni komntwana ngomso.
- Incubators ngamanye amaxesha inokuba ziindawo apho siphulukana nenxalenye yesibophelelo nabantwana bethu. Asinakulibala loo nto zimbalwa izinto ezinokuba namandla njengokunxibelelana kolusu nolusu phakathi kukamama nomntwana, kunye nolo lokuqala lokuncancisa.
- I-DNA yethu ilindele ukuba umanyano olusondeleyo phakathi kukamama nomntwana, kwaye ukuba akwenzeki, ukuba lo mntwana utolika ukuba umhlaba "apho aya khona" uyinto enobutshaba, ebandayo nesoyikisayo, ingxaki yemvakalelo inokuvela ngomso.
- Ukuzalwa okwenziwa ngothando, ngentlonipho phakathi kukamama nomntwana, apho bonwabela loo mizuzu ili-1.000 kunye, ulusu kulusu, uqalisa ulungelelwaniso oluhle lwe-neural oluya kwakha kwaye luqinise izakhiwo ezinamandla njenge-amygdala okanye i-cortex yethu yangaphambili: abakhi bezobuntlola beemvakalelo nezentlalo.
Kufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo. Unako kwaye kufuneka ukhethe ukuba loluphi uhlobo lokuhambisa olufunayo.
