Inkqubo ye- Usuku lwe-Intanethi kwaye bendicinga malunga nokuba ukusukela nini ukuphuhliswa kolwazi kunye neetekhnoloji zonxibelelwano, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu bunokutshintsha. Oku kukubonakalisa okuya kubonakala kulungile okanye kungalunganga, kodwa ndingathanda ukwabelana nani nonke.
Kwiminyaka eli-14 enesiqingatha eyadlulayo iselfowuni yabenza ubomi bam ukuba bube lula kancinci, kuba bendizakudibana nabanye oomama abanabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa siphume siye epakini okanye siphunge ikofu ngelixa sithetha kwaye sibala ukuncancisa kwethu, ukulala, njl. Izinto zitshintshile kakhulu kwaye uthungelwano lwehlabathi lukhangeleka ngathi ngumnatha wokuloba apho sibanjiswa khona kancinci. Le ngxelo ibonakala iyintlekele, kwaye kubonakala ngathi kuyamangalisa ukuba ndiyayenza ... okanye hayi.
Ndidlulile kumanqanaba ngamanqanaba ngokubhekisele ekusebenziseni kwam i-Intanethi, nakubantwana bam. Ndididekile, ndiye ndafunda, ndathetha-thethana, ndathintela, ndamkela, ndakha, ... kwaye nangona, njengoko uSocrates watshoyo, "Ndiyazi kuphela ukuba andazi nto"; Ndisazi ngokwaneleyo ukuyila iintetho kunye neeworkshops endizinika kwizikolo zooMama nooTata. Okwangoku, xa ndithetha ngokwazi, ndinyanzelekile ukuba ndicacise ukuba ukwanda kunye nokufikelela ngokulula kolwazi esikunikwa yi-Intanethi, kusebenza nakweyiphi na imeko ukuba nolwazi ngakumbi, kodwa hayi ubulumko obungakumbi, kuba oku kufunyenwe ngomonde, umgangatho onqabileyo kule mihla, ngokuyinxenye kuba 'ukucofa' kusishukumisela kwisantya esibi.
Ngaba kunokubakho ubomi bomntwana ngetekhnoloji?
Ukuba kukho ubudala kunye nobudala abulahleki nakubani na, ukuba izindululo zenziwe ngenxa yezizathu ezingaphezulu okanye ezingaphantsi, nokuba. Umbuzo ngulo, akufuneki senze kube lula kubo ukuba bafunde ukunxibelelana (kunye nabo kunye nabanye) kuqala kwihlabathi elingaxhunyiwe kwi-intanethi kwaye emva koko 'siza kubona'? Unxibelelwano yinto enzima kakhulu, ifuna izakhono ezimbalwa, ezincitshiswe kakhulu emva kwescreen. Ukuba ukusukela besebancinci kakhulu sele bonwabile, bayathetha, bayaphupha ... kwi-Intanethi, ngaba baya kuyazi indlela yokufumana omnye komnye? Ngaba baya koyika ukufumanisa 'ubuntu' obukwintliziyo nganye elahlekileyo, banokuba njani kulwandle lwezinto ezibonakalayo?
Andisoze ndonwabe ngokwaneleyo ngokuhlala iminyaka emininzi kwindawo encinci, ngokubayeka bakhwele emithini, ngokuba nethuba lokulahleka nokuzifumana besezintabeni, ukubanika inkululeko nokuzithemba ... ngumoya ovulekileyo othe nca ezidleleni zabo, ukungcola emadolweni, ukuhleka okucocekileyo, izihlobo ezincedanayo ukwakha iikhabhathi, amavili eebhayisikile aqatywe kwiindawo ezingenakufikeleleka. Nangona kunjalo, bayayazi indlela yokuthatha ulawulo lweconsole, vula ikhompyuter, babeneprofayile kwi-Instagram ... ayinzima kangako, ukubuyisa iminyaka elahlekileyo akunakwenzeka.
Andilulo ubuchwephesha, kodwa ...
Ngaphandle kwamandla, ngaphandle kokuzimisela, ngaphandle kokuzibamba, siye siphelelwe ngumonde, sizicingele ngakumbi, sithande izinto ezininzi kwaye sisebenzise abathengi ngakumbi. Ndifuna ulwazi, ndinezigidi zamaphepha, ndifuna ukwamkelwa, ndinokuthandwa okungu-50, ndifuna ukuthenga, ndineevenkile ezikwi-intanethi, ndifuna ukuziveza kwilizwe eliyinyani, ndiyifumana kwimizuzwana embalwa. Kulula, ngokukhawuleza, ngaphakathi komntu wonke ukufikelela ... ingxaki kukuba asazi, Kananjalo asinokwazi indlela yokulinganisa ukusetyenziswa kwetekhnoloji kunye nezinye iinkalo zobomi bethu, akunjalo? ucinga ntoni?
Malunga nombuzo wetayitile "Ungababeka njani abantwana bethu emhlabeni ngaphandle kwe-Intanethi?" Ewe, ewe, inyani kukuba bendikhe ndalibala ngoku. Andizizo iimfundiso ezininzi, okanye ndixelele omnye umntu ukuba enze ntoni, kodwa ndiyazama:
- Ibavumela ukuba benze imisebenzi emininzi ngaphandle kweintanethi.
- Khapha kwaye ulandele ukukhula kwayo (musa ukuhlala uphatha i-smartphone yakho).
- Dlala nabantwana: dlala ngezikrini, dlala ngaphandle kwezikrini (kwaye xa usenza le yokugqibela, sukucinga ngeprofayile yakho ye-Facebook).
- Awuyi kundikholelwa, kodwa awudingi ukujonga imiyalezo ye-WhatsApp rhoqo kwimizuzwana engama-20.
- Zazi ezona mfuno ziphambili nezokwenene zabantwana bakho.
- Nxibelelana kangangoko unako nabantwana bakho, fumaneka.
- Musa ukoyika ukuba baya kuphuma bodwa xa sele bebadala.
- Bakhusele xa beziintsana okanye besebancinane kakhulu ... musa ukubakhusela ekubeni badala, ngaphandle kokuba baneengxaki ezibalulekileyo kubo.
- Misela umzekelo kwaye unqamle unxibelelwano.
Okokugqibela, ndingathanda ukuxelela i-anecdote ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndiyigcina kwimemori yam ... nasentliziyweni yam (ngenxa yezizathu ezingasasebenziyo ngoku). Malunga neenyanga ezili-13 ezidlulileyo, ndathabatha indala ndaya nayo kumnyhadala weWrestling kwisixeko esikufuphi; Ibingowesithathu esiye kuwo, ibingowokugqibela kuba ukukhula nokukhula yile nto inayo, izinto zokuzonwabisa ziyatshintsha. Unyana wam wayephethe iselfowuni yakhe endala, ngaphandle kwebhetri, ndandiphethe iselfowuni yam entsha (eyesibini neyincinci) eyayilahlekile ngabom ikhadi le-SD. Akukho namnye kwaba-2 unokuthatha iifoto, kodwa u-D (ngobulumko obumchaza), undixelele: "Liliphi ixesha elimnandi esinalo, Mama ... jonga bonke abo bantu ngasemva kwelensi, kwaye siyayibona ngaphandle kokucoca ulwelo". Isiphelo.