Indima yootatomkhulu noomakhulu kubomi babantwana yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukogqitha ukusweleka kukamakhulu ayisosiselo silungileyo kuba akukho namnye kwizalamane zakhe. Yintlungu ekufuneka yabelwane ngayo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, kuba inani lakhe lidlale indima ebaluleke kakhulu ngemihla yakhe, kuba mhlawumbi Kwakufuneka azalise indima yesibini njengomama ngamaxesha amaninzi.
Ukusweleka kukamakhulu yinto engaphambi nasemva kokufunda ukuxabisa ukubaluleka kwesihlobo, Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba uxhomekeke njani kwinto yokuba ibiluthando olukhethekileyo noluthandekayo ebesinalo ngaye. Yinyani kunye nemeko ekufuneka wonke umntu ayenze kwaye ke kufuneka sazi ukuba singamelana njani nezo ndaba kunye.
Ukoyisa ukusweleka kuka makhulu
Ngelishwa into engenakuphepheka yenzekile, ukufa yinxalenye yobomi bethu kwaye loo mntu akasekho kunye nathi. Inani likagogo limele imeko yosapho, ukusukela oko Ngombulelo kuyo, izizukulwana ezilandelelanayo ziye zavela.
Kwenzeka ukuba olu hlobo lokufa amaxesha amaninzi ayajongwa ngokwendalo, kuba badala kwaye sithatha ilahleko yabo. Kodwa asingabo bonke abantu baphenjelelwa ngokufanayo yilahleko.
Ukuba ngabantwana abancinci kufuneka uthethe ngokucacileyo kwento eyenzekileyo ngononophelo. Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abachaphazelekayo, sukuyifihla intlungu yakho, ukulila phambi kwabantwana akukubi, kufuneka bazi ukuba nabantu abadala bayaziva kwaye bayibonisa intlungu yabo kangangoko banako.
Esi sihlandlo zijikeleze nosapho olusondeleyo, la ngamaxesha anzima kwaye kufuneka uwoyise Ukuthetha ngentlungu yakho nabahlobo.
Uboniswa njani umakhulu?
Imele umntu obaluleke kakhulu. Ayaziwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ngaba imeko yakhe njengoninakhulu obandakanyekayo Ivela ngakumbi kwinxalenye yoomama okanye yooyise, into eqinisekileyo yeyokuba usapho ngalunye kunye neemeko zilawulwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kubalulekile ukugqithisela lonke ilifa lemfuza kwisizukulwana sabo, ngakumbi iintombi zakhe kunye nabazukulwana bakhe. Abazukulwana bahlala befana noomakhulu kunoomama ngokwabo. Kufakwe nemfuza onke amava kunye neenzingo oziveleleyo, Ukususela kwisizukulwana ukuya kwesinye.
Bafika njani abantwana abadala kula mathuba?
Abantwana abadala banengqondo ngakumbi kwaye mhlawumbi nolwazi lwabo Ndiza kuva ubunzima ngamaxesha amnandi. Sele bekwazi ukukhumbula yonke into abayifundisiweyo kwaye ke qaphela into obenzele yona.
Kubalulekile ukuba oomama nootata bekufanele ukuba sele bedlulisile amaxabiso kamakhulu kwaye lonke uphuhliso lweemvakalelo athe walutyala kubazukulwana bakhe. Umakhulu ebesoloko efuna ukubona abazukulwana bakhe bonwabile. Oko kwamenza waziva kamnandi naye, ke kuya kufuneka uncume kwimeko enjalo, Ngokuqinisekileyo umakhulu wakho uya kufuna ukukubona unje.
Kulungile ukuba umntwana thetha nabazali bakho ngomfanekiso kamakhulu wakho, kuba ngabo ababemazi ngeyona ndlela. Mxelele amabali ahlekisayo okanye ii-anecdotes ukusuka esemncinci kakhulu. ukuyikhumbula kunye nokuhlekisa kuyenza ibe mnandi ngakumbi kuye wonke umntu.
Thetha omnye nomnye phakathi kwabazali nabantwana malunga nelahleko enjalo iya kunceda ukudibanisa ubudlelwane kunye nokuzinika uthando ngenxa yentlungu enjalo. Into yokuba umntwana axhomekeke kubahlobo ikwayindlela elungileyo yokuphuma, kufuneka uchaze indlela oziva ngayo kwaye unokufumana ityala eliyimizekelo yamava akho.