Baninzi ootitshala abafundisa ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, abafundisi abadadayo, abacinga ukuba kunjalo fundisa umntwana ukudada Kuya kufuneka uqale ngeendlela zobuchwephesha kunye noomatshini ... blah blah blah. Andiqhubeki, kuba yonke le ingamampunge. Kwaye ndiza kukubonisa.
Cinga ngayo okomzuzwana. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho omncinci ukuba adlale ibhola, umzekelo. Ngaba ungaqala ngokubeka ibhola ezinyaweni zakhe umfundise ukuba abaleke nayo, ukupasa, ukudubula, ukuphepha, ukuqhuba, nazo zonke ezo zinto? Yintoni? Into yokuqala esiyenzayo kukudlala nabo, kwaye siyishiya ibhola ukuba baphande ngayo ngebhola, bayichukumise, bayiphose. Kwaye sidlala izinto ezininzi ezinokuthi okanye ezingabonakali njengebhola ekhatywayo. Kungenxa yokuba into yokuqala ekufuneka bayenzile kukuziqhelanisa nemeko-bume, bazi umzimba wabo, balinge kwaye bonwabe. Into efanayo iyenzeka ngokudada: Okokuqala kufuneka udlale ngamanzi kwaye uqhelane nokusingqongileyo, ukuba ukudada uze uphucule ubuchule kwaye kuya kubakho ixesha.
Ukubaluleka kokwazi ukudada
Ebuntwaneni ukwazi ukudada Igqithile, ngokoluvo lwam. Into ekufuneka yenziwe ngabantwana yazi zikhusele kwindawo ehlala emanzini. Kwaye oko akufani nokudada, ubuncinci ukungayiqondi indlela abanye abafuna ukusithengisa ngayo (zininzi kakhulu, ngelishwa).
Ukuzikhusela kwimeko yasemanzini, abantwana kufuneka funda ukuhamba emanzini, ukuhlala emoyeni kwaye "uphefumle." Ndiyifake kwizicaphuno kuba indenza ndonwabe kakhulu xa ndisiva abantu bethetha ngokubaluleka kokufunda ukuphefumla emanzini. Uyabona, nokuba ngoku sasiza kujika sibe ziintlanzi, endaweni yoko, siye kwii-amphibians.
Kwaye andithethi ukuthi ukwazi ukudada akubalulekanga. Ngapha koko, ndicinga ukuba ukuqubha kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kuyacetyiswa ngezizathu ezininzi. Ndifuna nje ukukunyanzela oko eyona nto iphambili kubantwana kukuba baziphathe ngokwabo emanzini ukuze bafumane ukuzithemba kwaye benze iziseko zento eya kuthi kamva ibe ziintshukumo zobugcisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokudada ngokwendalo. Njengokwemvelo njengokubaleka okanye ukuba nebhola kuxa umntwana efunda ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo.
Iindlela zokuqalisa ukufundisa abantwana ukudada
Ukwazisa abantwana ngokuqubha, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubasa kwizifundo ezinzulu ukuba awufuni. Kwaye ukuba uyakwenza oko, kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ukuvavanya la manqaku alandelayo.
Umntwana kufuneka adlale kunye nasemanzini
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyikhumbule xa ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho afunde ukudada yile ntoe kufuneka umvumele adlale emanzini kunye namanzi. Abantwana kufuneka bazive bekhululekile kwimeko-bume yasemanzini, baziva ngathi amanzi yinto emnandi kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, abanokuyiqonda.
Kodwa abanye abantwana bayoyika amachibi amakhulu okanye anzulu kakhulu, nokuba banxiba zonke iintlobo zezixhobo zokudada. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile, ukuba sibona uloyiko, ukuqala ngamachibi angekho nzulu, ukuze umntwana azuze ukhuseleko. Ukuba ngabantwana abancinci kakhulu, ngekhe ubenangxaki koku.
Ukuba umntwana uyahleka kwaye uyakonwabela ukudlala, ukutshiza kunye nokusebenza ngokukhululekileyo, inkuthazo yakhe yokufunda ukudada iya kuba phezulu, kwaye ukufunyanwa kwezakhono ezisisiseko ezivela kwimisebenzi yomzimba kuya kuqhuba umsebenzi wobugcisa olandelayo.
Imidlalo kufuneka ikhuthaze ukukhula kwezakhono ezisisiseko
Ukongeza ekwenzeni imidlalo yasimahla, kubalulekile ukucebisa enye imidlalo ijolise ekuphuhliseni izakhono kunye nokunyakaza kuya kufuneka siyenze kamva. Sithetha ngokukhaba, ukubetha kwazo zonke iintlobo, ukuntywila kwindawo ethe tyaba, ukujika, ukutsiba, ukuqhuma, njl.
Imidlalo ikwayindlela entle yokuba abantwana baqale ukubeka iintloko zabo phantsi kwamanzi, bafunde ukubamba umphefumlo wabo, kwaye bafunde nokulungelelanisa iintshukumo.
Kwaye kwafika ixesha lokufundisa ngobugcisa
Unokuchitha iinyanga udlala imidlalo nabantwana ngaphandle kokuziva ukuba kufuneka uqale ubafundise ubuchule. Ukwenza oku, qhubeka uyibuze njengomdlalo, kwaye uhambe ngesantya sakho.
Musa ukumngcatsha !!!!
Ungaze uphose umntwana emanzini ngobuqhophololo, kwaye kuncinci ukuba sele ibonisa iimpawu zoloyiko. Ayonwabisi, ayisebenzi, ayilungelanga nantoni na. Kwaye sukuvumela nabani na ukuba ayenze.
Kwaye uloyiko lwamanzi ngokuqinisekileyo luya kudlula ngolunye usuku, kodwa uphawu oza kulishiya kuye ngokwenza into ekhohlakeleyo- okanye ubavumele ukuba bayenze kuye- liza kukuthatha.