I-hereditary factor yenye yezinto ezihlala zikhona kwizifo kunye nokuziphatha kwabantwana. Ukungxama yinto ekhoyo inokudityaniswa njengento yemfuza, kodwa asimele silibale ukuba yimbonakaliso ebangelwa indlela yokuziphatha enokuthi iphenjelelwe ngabo babangqongileyo.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana ukuba angangxami Ezi zezinye zezitshixo esinokuthi sinqumle ukuze sikwazi ukumisa ngengqondo ezinye iziphumo ezimangalisayo kwixesha elizayo. Singakunika ezinye izikhokelo onokuzilawula ukwazi ukusombulula imeko yakho, kodwa ukuba awukayazi ukuba injani impatho engxamileyo, sizakuyijonga ngezantsi.
Unjani umntwana ongenamdla?
Awuyi kukwazi ukulawula i-tantrum ngaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-10, ukususela Akayiqondi imiphumo yezenzo zakhe. Ngabantwana aba Abayihloniphi imithetho yomdlalo kwaye rhoqo Bafuna ukufumana indlela yabo. Abazami ukuqiqa kwaye bahlala befuna ukuphumelela nokuba ukukopela
Yiyo loo nto ukuziphatha kwabo kunokuba ndlongo nabanye abantwana abafunda nabo, ekubeni bethanda ukukhwaza baze bacaphuke ngokulula, ekubeni Abanakuqiqa. Yenza izinto ezisileyo ukuze ufumane ingqalelo, Abayihlalutyi into abayithethayo nokuba ineempembelelo ezinokubachaphazela abanye.
Bathanda ukuqhanqalaza rhoqo kuba abadibanisi nganto ingeyiyo eyabo izilangazelelo. Bakufumana kunzima ukulandela imigaqo kwaye njengesiphumo Bakhathazeka ngokulula kakhulu. Kungenxa yalonto Abanawo umonde wokulandela imiyalelo yemidlalo emininzi xa bedlala njengeqela.
Yintoni enokubangela ukungxama kwakho
Oku kuziphatha kunokwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, nangona umntwana ngamnye enokwenza ngokungxama. ngezinto ezithile ezijikeleze ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Umcimbi kukujongana nokuba yintoni enokubangela ukuziphatha okunjalo kunye nendlela yokujongana nayo.
Ukuziphatha kwakhe kugxininisiwe engayazi indlela yokuma kwaye ucinge ngaphambi kokuba wenze. Ukuba umntwana udiniwe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, mhlawumbi banokubonisa ezi ntlobo zeziphumo.
Ndiyakwazi ukuba ngumntwana onoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kuba mhlawumbi baneengxaki esikolweni okanye kubomi bentsapho okanye baxelisa nje ilungu lentsapho eline-ADHD yokuziphatha.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba angabi namdla?
Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela umntwana kunye Thatha amanqaku ngokuziphatha kwabo. Singenza ingxelo yokukhathazeka kwakho kwaye sicele uncedo kwingcali. Nangona kunjalo, i imibono yokukwazi ukumelana ekhaya Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lunokunceda umntwana ngokufanelekileyo:
- Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kufuneka ube ngumzekelo ocacileyo, Simele sigcine ihambo engumzekelo ukuze umntwana angaxelisi ihambo enjalo. A ukuzola ukusuka kubazali inokuba licebo elihle kakhulu.
- Ngokukwazi ukuba kufuneka uchaze imithetho ethile ekhaya, uhlalutye kwaye ubhale uhlobo lokuziphatha, ukuba aluchanekanga kwaye lunokukhokelela kwimeko embi, misela umgaqo wokuzama ukukhusela ukuba kungenzeki kwakhona. Yenze ibe nothotho lweziphumo ukuba awukwazi ukubathanda, ukuba wenza ngolo hlobo.
- Menze ahlalutye indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye nomzuzu eyaqala ngawo. Kuya kufuneka uzijonge ngokwakho indlela oziphethe ngayo kwixesha elizayo, nokuba akukho lula kuwe ukuyiqonda okokuqala. Yimfuno efuna ixesha nonyamezelo, ulawulo oluninzi kunye nomsebenzi, kodwa kusezandleni zabazali ukuphumeza isicwangciso esihle.
- Menze alandele uthotho lwemiyalelo, yenze ihambelane nothotho lwemithetho. Amaxesha amaninzi kuyafuneka ukuba unyanzelise imiyalelo yokuziphatha phambi kokuba uphume endlwini okanye ngaphambi kokuba wenze umsebenzi othile. Kuya kufuneka unike isaziso sento ethethwa kukungayilandeli kunye neziphumo ezinokubakho ngenxa yokungathobeli. Ukuba iziphumo zibangelwa luhlobo oluthile lwesohlwayo, kufuneka sisoloko sizama ukuqinisekisa ukuba eso sohlwayo siyenziwa.
- Iindlela zokuphumla zisebenza kakhulu. Ukuba nomntwana azilolonge uhlobo oluthile lomdlalo kunye nokuwudibanisa nobudlelwane bobudlelwane lukhetho olulungileyo kakhulu. Ukuzilolonga ngokuphefumla Yinkqubo esebenza kakuhle kakhulu.