Abantwana bafana neziponji kwaye ukubanceda bafumane imikhwa elungileyo besebancinci kuya kubanceda bakhule kwaye bonwabe ngakumbi. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba babamkele, kuya kuba lula ngakumbi kubo ukuba bazenze kwaye bazenze ngokuzenzekelayo. Makhe sibone ezinye iingcebiso indlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba atshintshe imikhwa kwaye siza kubona ukuba zeziphi ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo kubo.
Imikhwa ebhetele yabantwana
- Ucoceko. Imikhwa elungileyo yokuzilungisa idlulela ngaphaya kokuhlamba ibhedi yemihla ngemihla. Xa bekwiminyaka elungileyo, kufuneka sibafundise ukuxukuxa amazinyo yonke imihla njengenxalenye yesiqhelo ukukhusela imingxunya kunye neengxaki zamazinyo. Ukuba zihambe zicocekile kwaye zinenkangeleko entle, ukuhlamba izandla ngaphambi kokutya, ukuhlamba ubuso xa zivuka, ukudibanisa iinwele ... ezi zezinye zeendlela zokuzilungisa zomntu.
- Ukutya kunye nokuphumla. Abantwana bafuna iinkqubo ukuze bazithembe. Kuya kufuneka babe nokutya kunye neendlela zokulala, apho baneeshedyuli ekufuneka zifezekisiwe. Ukutsiba ekhefini yinto enye, kodwa ezinye iinkqubo zonyaka kufuneka zihlonitshwe ngabantwana nangabazali. Ukulala uphumle kuya kunceda ukukhula kwengqondo yakho kwaye kukuncede uphumle ngakumbi kwaye ungacaphuki. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kufuneka balale ixesha elingakanani ngeminyaka, siyakushiya Oku kubhaliwe.
- Ucwangco kunye nolungelelwaniso. Abantwana kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kulungelelwaniso lwendlu, ngakumbi izinto zayo. Ngale ndlela bayakufunda ixabiso loxanduva kunye nokuphatha izinto zabo. Kuxhomekeke kubudala babo, sinokubanika uxanduva oluthile ekhaya ukuze babenako ukuziqhelisa.
- isimilo esihle. Isimilo yinto oyifundayo ekhaya hayi esikolweni. Ukuziphatha kakuhle ngaphandle kwekhaya, ukuba uyayazi indlela yokusabela kwiimeko ezithile, kwaye unexabiso ... kuyakumnceda ukuba azi ukuba angadibana njani nokusingqongileyo kwaye azi nokuba esidlangalaleni. Basengabantwana, kodwa ukuba sibanika izixhobo, ukuhlala kunye kuya kuba ngcono kakhulu kuye wonke umntu.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho ukuba atshintshe imikhwa
- Musa ukumngxolisa okanye ummohlwaye. Ukohlwaya nokungxola asiyondlela elungileyo yokutshintsha umkhwa. Ngokuchasene noko, umntwana akazukuyazi into ayenzayo engalunganga kwaye uya kukhathazeka. Imozulu iya kuba nobutshaba ngakumbi kwaye uya kucaphuka ngakumbi.
- Ndikunike enye indlela. Ukuba unomkhwa ombi, mncede afumane eminye imikhwa elungileyo kuye. Mhlawumbi loo mkhwa uyakonwabisa, ke kuya kufuneka khangela esempilweni ukuze amenze azive ngokufanayo.
- Hlonipha amaxesha omntwana wakho. Umntwana ngamnye unophuhliso olwahlukileyo, ke kuya kufuneka uhloniphe amaxesha abo. Ukuba banemikhwa emibi enxulumene nobudala babo (ukufunxa ubhontsi, ukuluma iinzipho…) ukubangxolisa okanye ukubenza bazive kakubi kuya kwenza mandundu lo mkhwa. Kuya kufuneka sichaze ukuba kutheni iphosakele kwaye sihlalutye ukuba kutheni besenza oko. Ingangumqondiso wovalo, ixhala ... sijonga ngaphaya kokubanceda. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba ubona into engaqhelekanga okanye ukuba unomkhwa oyingozi kuye.
- Misela umzekelo. Asinakho ukucela umntwana ukuba aziphathe kakuhle kwaye angathuki, ukuba sithetha ngalo lonke ixesha. Abantwana bafunda ikakhulu ngokuxelisa, ke ngaphambi kokuba sicele nantoni na emntwaneni wethu, kufuneka sibone ukuba siyahambelana na nalo mkhwa. Ukuba sifuna ukuba atye imifuno kunye neziqhamo, kufuneka nathi.
- Yiba nomonde. Umntwana wakho unokutyhala umonde wakho umda, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ube nomonde xa utshintsha imikhwa. Hlonipha inkqubo yabo kwaye ubanike indawo ukuzitshintsha ngaphandle kokuzicinezela. Abanye abantwana baya kufunda imikhwa emitsha ngokukhawuleza kunabanye, kuthatha nje ixesha kunye nomonde.
Kuba khumbula ... imikhwa inokutshintshwa ukuze ifaneleke ngakumbi, kuya kufuneka ubengumfundisi olungileyo kwaye ubancede kwinkqubo.