Ukuba ukhe wazibuza ukuba amanyathelo akhe okuqala azakuba njani, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba uzokugqiba unyaka wakhe wobomi Mhlawumbi sele uzama ukuzibeka ngokwemvelo ekuthatheni amanyathelo akho okuqala.
Kukho oovulindlela kangangokuba ngeenyanga ezili-9 sele boyisile kwaye abanye bagqitha nangonyaka abaqalisi ukuphuhlisa iinzame zabo zokuqala. Ukuba kwindawo apho ufumanisa ukuba umntwana sele ezama ukwenza iinzame zakhe zokuqala, abazali Sinokuhlala sibakhuthaza kwaye sibakhuthaza, kodwa ngesantya esizolileyo, ngaphandle kokubeka uxinzelelo kubo.
Zinjani izigaba de iqale ukuhamba
Uninzi lweentsana luqala ukukhasa, kwaye nditsho isininzi, kuba abanye abaphumelelanga kobu buchule, bakufumene emva kokuhamba. Ngumsebenzi onzima njengo umntwana ozama ukuthatha izakhono ezithile ezinokumvumela ukuba afezekise iinjongo ezininzi.
Ndiza kuzama ukuthamba ukuma, Uya kubambelela kulo naliphi na inqanaba lenkxaso kwaye uya kusebenzisa imilenze yakhe ukuze akwazi ukuthatha loo manyathelo amancinci. Uya kuyifumana kungekudala unokufikelela kwezinye iintlobo zezakhono kwaye inyathelo lakho elilandelayo Kuza kuhamba ukusuka kwenye ifanitshala kuye kwenye ngaphandle kolunye uhlobo lwenkxaso.
Njengoko ezi ntlobo zemilinganiselo zingaqinisekiswanga kakuhle nokuba, kufuneka sivumele abantwana ukuba benze njalo ngesiqinisekiso esifanayo sokuba siyabanika, Kufuneka sikhathalele zonke izinto eziphambili zefanitshala kwaye uwagqume ukuze angabi yingxaki kuyo nayiphi na into onokuyifumana xa usiwa kancinci.
Uninzi lwabantwana baqala ukuhamba ngokwendalo, iminyaka ebandakanyiweyo kule nkqubo ihlala iphakathi kweenyanga ezili-10 nezili-18, kuyaqondakala ukuba uninzi lwabazali lubona kufanelekile ukubanceda bahambe xa befikelela kunyaka omnye. Ayisiyonto ingako ukubakhuthaza nokubakhuthaza, kodwa ewe oko kubalulekile ukuba ungacinezeli imeko.
Ungabafundisa njani?
- Ndikunike ukuzithemba. Xa umntwana ekugqibeleni eqala ukusukuma kwaye abe nolungelelwaniso olulungileyo emva koko sinako mkhuthaze ukuba ahambe. Njalo Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nokudlala, ukuzola kunye nokuzola, ukuba umntwana abone ukhuseleko.
- Ndikunike ukhuseleko. Ukuba sifuna ukukukhuthaza, sinokwenza ukuba uthembe ukuthembela kwifenitshala okanye izinto endleleni yakho, siya kuba yinkxaso yakho enkulu, sinokubabamba phantsi kweengalo zabo kwaye sikhokele amanyathelo abo okuqala. Ukubamba izandla ngumbono olungileyo kodwa kukhuseleke kancinci njengoko benokwenzakalisa izihlahla zakho.
- Yomeleza ibhalansi yakho. Ungathandabuzi ziqhelise ukunyathela kwakho ngeenyawo, ubunzima bemisipha yeenyawo zakho namaqatha kufuneka ithoniwe kwaye iinyawo zakho kufuneka zikhule. Ukuba kufuneka ubekwindawo enohlobo oluthile lwezihlangu, kuya kufuneka usoloko ukhetha leyo iqulethe ithambe kwaye ibhetyebhetye kuphela insoles eyilelwe ukukhula ngokuchanekileyo kwe-arch yonyawo Musa ukukhetha isihlangu esixinene kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuba sibanzi ukuze izinzwane zihambe.
- Nika indawo yenkxaso. Ngumbono olunge kakhulu ukufumana ezinye ifanitshala enokusebenza njengenkxaso, Kukho izinto zokuhamba ezinokusetyenziswa njengezixhobo ezilungileyo kakhulu kunye nezinto zemihla ngemihla esinokuba nazo ekhaya.
- Emva kokugaqa ukukhula kwabo kwengqondo kuphuhla ngokuhambelana Kwaye baya kuthi ngokuzithandela basinike imikhondo malunga nokuba bafuna ukuqala nini ukuhamba. Sisoloko simema wena ukuba uqale uthathe amanyathelo akho okuqala.
- Hlala uncumile. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhathazeka xa esiwa kwaye eqala ukukhala, ungaze umyeke ahlukane. Mnike olona ncumo lwakho lubalaseleyo kwaye udlale phantsi kwesikhubekiso sakhe. Ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka sibanike eso siqinisekiso sokuba siza kuza siluncedo, kwaye sibakhuthaze ukuba baphinde bazame.