Ungamelana njani noxinzelelo malunga nokubuyela esikolweni

Iinyanga ezintathu zeholide lixesha elide kwaye abantwana bayaziqhela ukungayi esikolweni kwaye iinkqubo ziyanyamalala. Ukubuyela esikolweni kunokuba nzima kakhulu kuba ubuvila bubagqithile ubomi babo. Ukuba unabantwana abancinci, unokukhathazeka nangosuku lwabo lokuqala lwesikolo. Bobabini abazali nabantwana kufuneka baqhele ezinye iindlela kwakhona.

Xa abantwana sele bekhulile unokukhathazeka malunga nezinto zesikolo, impahla, ootitshala, abahlobo babantwana bakho, Bazakuba iiyure ezingakanani ngaphakathi kwiziko lemfundo… Nantoni na ebandakanya ukubuyela esikolweni. Kubantwana, ukubuyela esikolweni kunokuba yinto enomdla, kodwa inyani kukuba yinto ebenza babe noxinzelelo olukhulu. Ukuba abantu abadala banoxinzelelo ngokubuyela emsebenzini, kutheni le nto ingenzeki ngabantwana kwaye babuyele esikolweni?

Uninzi lwamaxhala abantwana bakho malunga nokubuyela esikolweni lusenokubonakala ngathi lusisidenge kuwe, kodwa kunokuba ziingxaki ezinkulu kubo. Abancinci okanye abengekho kangako abantwana banokufumana uxinzelelo olukhulu xa bebuyela esikolweni. Ukuze oku kungenzeki kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqale ukulungiselela xa ixesha lifikile okanye kukho iiveki nje ezimbalwa kude kuqale isikolo. Kodwa, ungamelana njani noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lokubuyela esikolweni kunokubangela abantwana bakho?

Buyela kwiishedyuli

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana ngexesha lasehlotyeni babeneeshedyuli ezingaqhelekanga kwaye ngaphandle kwenkqubo, okanye ubuncinci ukuba iindlela azinikwanga yonke imihla. Xa kuncinane okushiyekileyo ukuba isikolo siqale kwakhona, kufuneka iinkqubo zokuthatha inqanaba eliphakathi kwakhona ukusuka ekhaya. 

Umzekelo, elinye icebo lelokuba abantwana baphinde balale kwangoko, bakhethe ixesha lokulala. Nangona kungadingeki ukuba bakhawuleze njengokuba bekwazi ukulala ebusika, kuya kubaluleka ukuba yonke imihla ibe ngexesha elinye kwaye kwindawo enye. Unokuqala kwakhona ukubavusa kwangethuba kwaye ungabavumeli balale ixesha elide njengoko bafuna, kungenjalo xa kuqala isikolo kuya kubaxabisa ngakumbi ukuvuka kusasa. Oku kuyabanika ukhuseleko kwaye baya kuqonda ukuba imizila yesikolo iza kubuya kungekudala. 

Yazi kwaye ubeke imida

Nangona kuyinyani ukuba unokulindela kangangoko ufuna, kuya kuhlala kukho iimfuno ezintsha, iimfuno okanye izithintelo apha endleleni. Abantwana baya kwikhosi entsha kwaye iya kwahluka ngokupheleleyo kuleyo yangaphambili ukuze kubekho imingeni emitsha ekufuneka ihlangane nayo. Nokuba umntwana wakho unengxaki yokufunda okanye akunjalo, wonke umntu kuya kufuneka asebenze nzima ukuze azuze okona kulungileyo kubo. Ukufunda kwimiceli mngeni emitsha, ukuqhubela phambili ujongane nezithintelo ezinokubakho, ukufunda kwiimpazamo okanye ukufuna uncedo lobungcali xa kukho imfuneko yokuphucula ukufunda.

Kubalulekile ukuba njengabazali uzibuze ukuba yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye yintoni enokubanceda baphucule abantwana bakho, iziphumo azisayi kuba, ukuba ayizizo iinzame abazibonisayo kwaye apho baqonda khona ukuba ukunyamezela kuya kubanika iziphumo ezilungileyo ... Nangona Imicimbi yindlela kwaye ayisiyiyo kwaphela isiphelo. Ukuba bhetyebhetye kunye nokuqonda mihla le akunako ukusilela.

Amalungiselelo njengesiqalo

Ukulungiselela kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi xa kusiza amaxesha oxinzelelo okanye azisa ixhala. Ukuba, umzekelo, kufuneka uthenge iincwadi, izinto zesikolo okanye enye into eluncedo esikolweni, kungcono uyenze ngaphambi kokuqala kukaSeptemba kuba umthwalo onawo wokungazifumani izinto onokuthi uzidlulisele ngabom ebantwaneni bakho.

Ngaloo ndlela, Ukuba kukho into ongayifumaniyo, unexesha elaneleyo lokuyifumana kwaye ulungiselele yonke into. Kuyafana nakweyiphi na enye into oyifunayo. Ukulungiselela kubalulekile. Ngaba unokucinga ukuba uqala umsebenzi omtsha ngaphandle kokulungiselela yonke into oyifunayo ngaphambili? Iya kuba sisiphithiphithi kuwe.

Inkathalo yomzali ikwabalulekile

Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho baphile kwaye bazive bengenalo ixhala, kuya kufuneka uzikhathalele nawe kwaye babone ukuzola kunye nokuzola kuwe. Ukuba bakubona uxakekile okanye usoyika malunga nokuqala kwesikolo nangasiphi na isizathu, uya kuba usigqithisela kubo. Unokuba nencoko nabantwana bakho ukuze bazi ukuba bazakuqala nini esikolweni kwakhona kwaye ngaloo ndlela banokubala iintsuku bade bashiyeke. Ke banokulungiselela utshintsho olulandelayo.

Kukwabalulekile ukuba ungazityesheli iimfuno zakho zeemvakalelo, nezabantwana bakho. Ukungahoyi kweemvakalelo kuya kukonyusa uxinzelelo. Kuya kufuneka ubenenyani malunga nokulungiselela ukubuyela esikolweni kwaye ugxile kuloo nto, kodwa ngaphandle kokuyityeshela eminye imiba enjengokuphumla okuyimfuneko ngaphambi kokuba uqale kwakhona.

Thetha nomntwana wakho ukuze ufumanise ukuba yintoni ingxaki

Ukuxhalaba kunokuba yinto yokwenyani xa abantwana bakho bebuyela esikolweni, kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba ungajongi kwenye indawo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphilanga, thetha naye kwaye ufumanise ukuba zeziphi izizathu zokuba engaphilanga kwaye akhangele izisombululo, kodwa ungajongi kwenye indawo.

Mhlawumbi uziva ungaqinisekanga kuba ucinga ukuba lo nyaka mtsha wesikolo uza kubabiza, mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba awuzukuba nabahlobo aboneleyo, Mhlawumbi uza kuqala isikolo esitsha kwaye woyike ukungazi ukuba uza kufumana ntoni, unokoyika abanye abantwana abanengcwangu okanye abadala ukuxhaphaza esikolweni ... Zininzi izizathu ezinokubangela ukungonwabi ngaphakathi kwabantwana bakho. kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba uphande ukuze wazi ukuba yintoni emxhalabisayo kwaye imenze abenexhala.

Ukuba kungenxa yokuba ungaziva ufuna ukuqala isikolo kuba ukhululekile eholideyini, emva koko ukwenza iinkqubo kunye nokulungiselela kuya kuba zizitshixo.