Sonke siyazi Izibonelelo zokuziqhelisa umdlalo. Nangona kunjalo, ilizwe lethu liyaqhubekeka ukuba phakathi kwabo banamazinga aphezulu okuhlala phantsi, kunye nemingcipheko oku okubandakanya impilo yethu yomzimba neyengqondo.
Indlela yokuphila yangoku ayinanto yakwenza neminyaka edlulileyo, xa abantwana bachitha ixesha labo lokubaleka bedlala ezitratweni. Namhlanje, abantwana bethu bachitha iiyure behleli phambi komabonwakude, itablet okanye umdlalo wekhonsoli. Ukongeza, uhambo alufane lwenziwe ngeenyawo, sihlala sihamba ngemoto okanye ngezothutho ezisezidolophini, ukuze, ngaphandle kokuba umdlalo wenziwa, umsebenzi womzimba uphantse wangabikho. Indlela yokuphila yangoku imema ukuhlala phantsi, ke Kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bafuduke. Ke ngoko, kule posi yanamhlanje, sifuna ukushiya ezinye iimbono zokukhuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba benze imithambo.
Ungabakhuthaza njani abantwana bakho ukuba badlale imidlalo?
- Shumayela ngomzekelo. Abantwana, ngakumbi abona bancinci, bafunda kuthi. Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho benze umthambo, qala ngokuzilolonga ngokwakho umdlalo.
- Vumela abantwana bakho bakhethe ngokukhululekileyo umdlalo abafuna ukuwenza. Ukuba baziva ngathi lo msebenzi ngowabo ukhetho, baya kukhuthazeka ngakumbi.
- Umsebenzi womzimba njengentsapho. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ube ziimbaleki ezikhethekileyo, nokuba unexesha elininzi. Naliphi na ixesha lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuhamba. Ngomculo kunye nomdaniso nabantwana bakho. Dlala izinto ezibandakanya ukuhamba nabo. Guqula ukuphuma kwakho uye emall okanye kumva we-TV ukuhamba emaphandleni, ukukhwela ibhayisekile okanye ukuhamba ngebhola. Bathathe uye nabo kwizithuba apho kukho abanye abantwana abanokuthi babaleke badlale nabo. Amathuba anokuphela.
- Yenze ibe mnandi. Musa ukwenza umsebenzi ukhuphiswano okanye uxanduva. Fundisa abantwana bakho amaxabiso anjengemidlalo kunye nentlonipho kwabanye.
- Nciphisa ixesha lesikrini. Akukho mfuneko yokuthintela ngokupheleleyo imidlalo yevidiyo okanye umabonwakude, kodwa ukumisela iishedyuli zokuyisebenzisa. Ngalo lonke ixesha yenze ngendlela elungileyo, awungekhe wenze ngathi umntwana wakho ufuna ukuphuma nawe ayokudlala imidlalo xa usandula ukuthatha inkqubo ayithandayo. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ukuba abantwana bakho bahlukane nezikrini, qala ngokwenza ngokwakho. Cima iselfowuni yakho kwaye uphume uye konwaba nabantwana bakho.
- Shiya imoto ekhaya. Zama ukuhamba uye kwiindawo xa kunokwenzeka. Ukuba ivenkile enkulu, ipaki okanye isikolo akukho kude, ungathatha ithuba lokuthatha uhambo. Unokusebenzisa ithuba iindlela zesikolo ukuba zikhona kwindawo yakho.
- Nika iithoyi ezimema intshukumo. Ibhayisekile, iibhola, izihlwitha, iintambo zokutsiba, iirakethi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyathanda imidlalo yevidiyo, zininzi, ezinjengeWii, ezisebenzisanayo kwaye zilingise ezemidlalo, ukuze usebenzise ithuba lesikrini ukuze zihambe kancinci ngeentsuku apho ungeke ukwazi ukuphuma.
- Bakhuthaze uze ubaxhase abantwana bakho. Nokuba uyayithanda okanye awuyithandi kakhulu imidlalo abayikhethileyo, kufanele ubekhona ekuvuyeni kwabo ngempumelelo yabo kwaye ubancede boyise ubunzima.
- Bafundise izibonelelo zokuba kufanelekile. Thetha nabo malunga nendlela ebaluleke ngayo imidlalo kwimpilo yabo. Chaza umngcipheko wokuhlala phantsi. Babuze ukuba baziva njani emva kokwenza imisebenzi yomzimba, ukuba uziva uphilile okanye hayi. Ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba ezemidlalo ziyamnceda, uya kukhuthazeka ngakumbi ekuziqhelaniseni.
Ngamafutshane, zama ukwenza abantwana bakho ukuba babone imidlalo njengento eyonwabisayo ekwaluncedo kubo. Khumbula ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba abantwana bakho babe zii-aces zomdlalo kodwa basempilweni kwaye bonwabile. Ndiyathemba ukuba izimvo endizicebisayo ziluncedo kuwe kwaye ziyakukhuthaza ukuba uhambe.
Impelaveki emnandi!