Ukufika kwinqanaba lokufikisa lutshintsho lokwenyani kuninzi lwabaselula. Lixesha ebomini apho ubuntwana bushiyeke khona ukubeka iziseko eziya kukhokelela ebudaleni. Enye yeengxaki eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo kulutsha oluninzi kukuswela inkuthazo ebomini.
Ukuba uyayiqaphela le ngxaki yenkuthazo, kufanele ukuba ibe ngumsebenzi wakho ukumenza abone ukuba kuxhomekeke kuye ukuba abe nobomi obonwabisayo obuzele yimpumelelo kunye neeprojekthi. Nazi izikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele ukuze ukhuthaze umntwana wakho ofikisayo.
Yoyisa uloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa uthotho lokungazithembi okanye uloyiko mihla le, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufumane indlela yokuphanda ukuba loluphi uhlobo lokungazithembi. Nje ukuba uyazi Kuya kufuneka uzame ukoyisa ukuze ubenakho ukufumana inkuthazo eyoneleyo kwakhona yokuqhubeka nokulwa imihla ngemihla.
Khuthaza italente yakho
Gxininisa into oyithandayo kwaye uyikhuthaze kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba umntwana wakho ugqwesa kwimisebenzi ethile ngoko ke kufuneka umxhase nanini na apho unako ukuze aqonde ukuba angakonwabela ngokupheleleyo ukwenza into ayithandayo. Ngale ndlela, ukukhuthaza kwakho kuya kunyuka ngendlela efanayo nokuzithemba kwakho.
Sukumphatha njengomntwana
Ngamaxesha amaninzi, abazali benza impazamo enkulu yokuphatha umntwana wabo ofikisayo njengomntwana, into ethatha umthwalo kulutsha. Umntwana wakho mdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba anganoluhlu loxanduva kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umthembe ngamaxesha onke. Lixesha lokuba azive eluncedo kwaye aqale ukumthumelela imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo.
Mvuyise xa echukumisa
Ukuba umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo uyakwazi ukwenza into elungileyo, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uvuyisane naye ngalo lonke ixesha ukuze inkuthazo yakhe inyukele phezulu. Emva koko, uyakufuna ukuseta iinjongo ezahlukeneyo ebomini oya kuthi ufezekise ngazo zonke iindleko. Ukubona ukuba abazali bakho bayakwazi ukuvuyisana nawe ngalo lonke ixesha usenza into entle, kuya kukwenza ukuzithemba kwakho kunyuke kwaye uzive uzimisele ngokupheleleyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekamva lakho
Enye yeengxaki ezinkulu abakwishumi elivisayo abanazo namhlanje kukuba banezinto ezimbi xa kufikwa kwikamva labo. Umsebenzi wabazali ubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ubazise ukuba babenobomi babo bonke phambi kwabo ukufumana oko bakufunayo. Kuya kufuneka ubazise ukuba kuxhomekeke kubo kwaye ngabo kuphela abaza kuphumelela ebomini. Kuya kufuneka ubeke ukubeka ecaleni ecaleni ngalo lonke ixesha kunye nokubheja kwithemba. Kungale ndlela kuphela apho umntu omtsha anokuziva ekhuthazeka ukuba abe ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini kwaye aphumelele ngandlela zonke. Umsebenzi wabazali awunandawo yokwenza abantwana babo bazive bonwabile ngamaxesha onke ngekamva abalindelweyo.
Sebenza ngokweemvakalelo
Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bubalulekile xa kuziwa ekufumaneni umntwana wakho ukuba akhuthazwe ngalo lonke ixesha kunye nokomeleza ukuzithemba kwabo. Ukuba kwelinye icala imeko yakho yeemvakalelo iphantsi kakhulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ube neengxaki ezinzulu njengokuphazamiseka okanye ukudakumba. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ke ngoko ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana babo teen unemeko entle yeemvakalelo ekuvumela ngamaxesha onke ukuba uzive ukhuthazwa likamva elihle elikulindeleyo. Iimvakalelo zibalulekile xa kuziwa ekufumaneni umntu omtsha ukuba nokuzithemba anokufezekisa yonke into abazimisele ukuyenza.
Ukunqongophala kwenkuthazo ngokungathandabuzekiyo yenye yeengxaki ezinkulu ezijamelene nolutsha namhlanje.