Uvuyo yenye yeemvakalelo ezisisiseko zabantu. Ithanda unxibelelwano, ivumela ukuba sabelane ngamaxesha amnandi emini kwaye ivelise amandla aluncedo kakhulu kuthi nakwiintsapho zethu.
Uvuyo lusinceda ukuba sikhulule ukungavisisani komzimba, lusinike ukhuseleko kwaye lusincede siqonde icala lobomi. Kuko konke oku, yinto ephambili ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo ukonwabela impilo entle yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo.
Njengabazali kufuneka sikhuthaze uvuyo ebantwaneni bethu ngexesha lobuntwana babo, sibancede bayiqonde, bayazi indlela yokuyilawula, bayonwabele kwaye babelane ngayo nabanye.
Indlela yokukhuthaza uvuyo ebantwaneni bakho
- Njengazo zonke ezinye iinkalo zemfundo, kufuneka sibeke umzekelo. Kubalulekile ukuba siyazi indlela yokuqonda izinto ezintle ebomini bethu kwaye sikwazi ukonwabela izinto ezincinci. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukugxila kwiingxaki kwaye sijolise kuwo onke amandla ethu. Bafundise ukonwabela izinto ezincinci eziyinxalenye yobomi babo. Kwezobugcisa, umculo, indalo, ubuhle, njl.
- Kuphephe ukunciphisa iimvakalelo ezintle zabantwana bakho. Abantwana kufuneka bazive bekhululekile ukubonisa uvuyo lwabo kwaye balonwabele. Mamela kubo kwaye wabelane nolo lonwabo kunye nabo, uya kubona ukuba kulula kangakanani ukuyifumana.
- Bancede bagcine isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini babo, ukujonga iimeko ezinzima kungekhona njengezimbi kodwa njengethuba lokufunda nokuphucula izakhono zabo.
- Zibekele usukelo onokulufikelela. Qinisekisa ukuba bajolise ngakumbi kwinkqubo kuneziphumo. Ngale ndlela bayakufunda intsingiselo yomzamo kwaye baya kwandisa unyamezelo lwabo kukukhathazeka.
- Umoya olungileyo kunye nolonwabo ulungele ukuwuzalisa ngokuhleka kunye nokuhlekisa. Cinga ngendlela onokuthi uvelise ngayo ixesha lokonwaba nabantwana bakho. Khumbula ukuba ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza kangakanani na kubuntwana babantwana.
Iindlela zokomeleza uvuyo nolonwabo ebantwaneni
Intshukumo. Abantwana bafuna ukuhamba, ukubaleka, ukuxhuma, ukudanisa, njl. ukuziva wonwabile. Ngelishwa uluntu lwethu kunye nemithombo yolonwabo iya isihlala ngakumbi.
Ukukhanya kwendalo. Iindawo ezibanzi ezinokukhanya kwendalo kunye nokunxibelelana nendalo kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazive bonwabile kwaye bakhule kakuhle.
Ukuzimela. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazi iimfuno zabo kwaye bafunde ukuziveza. Akufuneki silindele le nkqubo okanye senze izinto abanokuzenza ngokwabo. Ukuzimela kunxulunyaniswa nokuzithemba okuhle, kubalulekile ukuze uzive ulungile kwaye wonwabile.
Ukwazi okungakumbi
Ukuba unomdla wokwazi okungakumbi malunga nesi sihloko, ndincoma incwadi ethi 'Ukufundisa uvuyo' ngumshicileli u-Declée De Brouwer (2017). Ngokombhali wayo, uPepa Horno, ugqirha wezengqondo ojolise ekukhuleni okunomdla ebuntwaneni nasekufikiseni, izitshixo zokufundisa ngovuyo kukuzinakekela kunye nokwazisa utitshala.