Abantu banezakhono kunye nezakhono esinokusebenzela ukuziphucula. Esinye sezi zakhono kukomelela, esikwaziyo ukoyisa ukujongana nemiceli mngeni yobomi kwaye uvele womelele. Ngale ngcebiso sinokunceda khuthaza ukomelela kubantwana, ukuze babe nezakhono eziyimfuneko ukuze bahlale bekho phezu kobunzima.
Yintoni ukomelela?
Njengoko sele sibonile apha ngasentla, ukomelela sisikhundla ekufuneka abantu besenzile yoyisa kwaye yoyise iimeko ezithile ezibi kunye nezothusayo, kwaye uvele womelele.
Ukomelela kunokuphuhliswa kuwo onke amabakala obomi kodwa kwakamsinya siqala ukukukhulisa, iziphumo ezingcono, kuba amava amabi avelayo kamva aya kubonakala kwaye atolikwe ngokwahlukileyo kunangaphandle kobu buchule. Abantwana bafunda kakuhle kwaye ukukhuthaza ukomelela kubo kuya kubavumela ukuba bakhule babe sempilweni kwaye baphumelele ebomini.
Uyikhuthaza njani ukomelela kubantwana?
Ngeengcebiso ezimbalwa ezincinci nezilula sinokubenza abantwana bethu bomelele ngakumbi. Kuba asinakubathintela ekubeni behlelwe ziimeko ezingathandekiyo, into esinokuyenza kukubanika izixhobo eziyimfuneko zokujongana nazo. Ukomelela kufana nokuba nempilo yengqondo.
Sesinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo esinokuzinika abantwana bethu. Sisibonelelo esisesakho esi oya kusidinga kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye Iya kubavumela ukuba babe nobomi obunempilo, obonwabisayo kunye nobuhle.
Yakha ukuzithemba kwakho
Ukomelela kwakhona Kuyimfuneko ukuba nokuzithemba okuhle. Ukuze sibancede babe nokuzithemba okusempilweni, singagxila kwezona mpawu zibalaseleyo zomntwana, sivuyisane nempumelelo yabo, singabanyanzeli kakhulu kwaye sibavumele bazenzele izigqibo.
Kubalulekile ukuba thatha uxanduva ngezenzo zakho nakwizigqibo zakho ukuba nokuzithemba okusempilweni. Ukumnceda kwinto yonke, ukungamvumeli ukuba athathe uxanduva kwaye angajongani neengxaki kuya kumenza azithembe kwaye angazi ukuba ajongane njani neengxaki.
Yondla uburharha
Ingqiqo yokuhlekisa Olunye lweempawu eziphambili zabantu abomeleleyo. Ukwazi ukuba uzihleke njani kwaye ubone icala elihlekisayo leemeko, uthanda ukulungelelaniswa neemeko ezibi ukususa intsimbi kulo mbandela.
Unokumnceda ukuba ondle uburharha bakhe ejemplo yehambo yakho kwaye Amabali aBantwana apho imalunga nokomelela, kwaye abalinganiswa bajonge icala elihlekisayo leemeko.
Jonga icala eliqaqambileyo lezinto
Zonke iimeko zinendawo engalunganga nenenxaxheba. Ukwazi indlela yokujonga icala elifanelekileyo sisakhono ivuselela ithemba nethemba, kuba iyasivumela ukuba sazi ukuba sifumana njani isisombululo esifanelekileyo kwaye sinciphise ifuthe elibi lemeko.
Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba babe nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo xa bejamelene nobunzima sinokuyenza ngomzekelo wethu. Xa izinto ezimbi zisenzeka kuthi kwaye sijongana njani nazo. Mbonise ukuba ukucinga okungalunganga akusebenzi kuphela, kukukhawulela, kwaye akuvumeli ukuba ucinge okanye wenze ngokucacileyo.
Khuthaza ukunceda abanye
Awungekhe usebenze ngokuzomelela ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba uzibeka njani endaweni yabanye. Uvelwano luyimfuneko ukwazi ukuba ungazibeka njani endaweni yabanye kwaye ukwazi ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo.
Chaza ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onayo, khuthaza ububele ngokubacela ukuba bakhethe iithoyi zabo abazokunika abantwana abahluphekayo. Mncede xa eyidinga kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba ayenze nabanye abantu abayifunayo, funda ukufunda iimvakalelo zabanye kwaye wazi xa umntu efuna ukwangiwa, igxalaba lokulila, ukumanga okanye "Ndisecaleni kwakho kuyo nayiphi na into oyifunayo."
Yintoni ebeka iinjongo
Inyani lokumisela iinjongo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvavanya amandla kunye nezixhobo zethu ngokwezi njongo zibekiweyo. Iya kukhuthaza ukuzithiba kwakho, ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuxabiseka kwakho.
Ungamnceda akhethe iinjongo ezizizo nezinokulinganiswa, umfundise ubuchule kunye neendlela zokufezekisa iziphumo ezingcono kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakhe, kunye nokubhiyozela impumelelo yakhe kunye naye.
Kuba khumbula ... ezona zipho zibalaseleyo zabantwana azizizo izinto, zixabiso kunye nezakhono.