Ukwahlukana phakathi kwabazali Ayililo ikamva elimnandi lokuba usapho olunabantwana lunokwenzeka, ziimeko kunye nolwalamano olubi oluyityhefu uyala ukuza kule meko. Abantwana bakholelwa ukuba kufuneka bajongane nelona lungu libi, kodwa ngutata okanye umama ekufuneka ejongane neso sikhundla kwaye ukuba kukho umntu obandakanyekayo Ngubani ofuna ukwabelana nge-vid yakhoamava anokuba nzima nangakumbi.
Kunzima ngale ndlela kuba uninzi lwabantwana oluhlala notata okanye umama abayamkeli into yokuba omnye wabo abuyise ubomi babo Ngomntu owahlukileyo kwindalo esingqongileyo, ukubenza ukuba bayamkele kunokuza nothotho lwamanyathelo anokwamkeleka kwaye yiyo loo nto singenakwenza ngendlela elula. Apha sicebisa Uthotho lwamanyathelo ukuze inganzima kuwe.
Amanyathelo neengcebiso ezinokuthathwa
- Kuyacaca ukuba yonke into ifuna yexesha lokutshintshwa nangaphezulu xa ujongene nabantwana okanye ulutsha. Abaze bafumane ngokwaneleyo ingqalelo yabazali kwaye uzame ukubona ukuba ixesha kufuneka kwabelwane ngalo ngokuyinxenye nabanye abantu, kuyacaca ukuba le meko inakho kubo inokudandathekisa.
- Ukudibana kokuqala phakathi kwezi zimbini ukuze ingabi noxinzelelo kungcono yenze ngokungacwangciswanga. Kuya kufuneka ukhethe ifayile ye- indawo ethe cwaka neyonwabisayo, uhlala uhambelana nengqondo yomntwana kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke yazisa iqabane lakho njengomhlobo.
- Ngexesha lentlanganiso gcina umntwana wakho okanye abantwana kwiingxoxo ezifanayo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke zama ukungadibani ngokwasemzimbeni, ngakumbi ukwanga okanye ukuphulula
- Ukuqhubeka neentlanganiso ezilandelayo, kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuba axhaphakile ekuqaleni, ngale ndlela awuyongezi imvakalelo emntwaneni Ziziva zifudukile, amaxesha okuba kunye naye okanye nabo kufuneka aqhubeke ngesiqhelo ngaphakathi komda ohambelanayo.
- Zama yenza izinto ngokubaluleka kwendalo, ukuhlalutya i-psychology yabantwana kwaye bayenze ngeyona intuition intle. Kubalulekile ukuba kukho unxibelelwano phakathi kwezi zombini, ukuba abantwana bazame ukuqonda le meko ngendlela ethambileyo kwaye iqabane elitsha liyaqondakala ngendima yabo entsha.
- Uvelwano yinxalenye yonxibelelwano oluhle phakathi komntu wonke. Ukuba uyayiqonda imeko yabo, iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo kulula ngakumbi kunokuba unokukuqonda. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni enokukuchaphazela kakubi kwaye ifuna izisombululo ezingqinelanayo kwiingxaki zabo. Kuqhelekile ukuba bacinge ukuba umntu othile uza kuthabatha indawo kanina okanye utata kwaye impendulo yabo yokuqala kokungaziwayo iya kubanika ukungazithembi noloyiko. Kuya kufuneka udlulise ukhuseleko kwimeko enjalo.
- Kukho oko gcina imikhwa efanayo nasekuqaleni bezisenziwa ubomi babo bonke, kuya kufuneka yandisa ubukho kunye negunya isibini esitsha esinokuyenza ngaphandle kodwa ngokuqhubekayo nangokwemvelo, Ukuba loo mntu umisela imigaqo okanye izitayile ezintsha kwaye igunya lakhe libalasele ngaphezu kwayo yonke, impumelelo yakhe ayinakuqinisekiswa.
- Musa ukuphazamisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla, Ubomi bosapho kufuneka buqhubeke nakho konke ukuqheleka, umntu ngamnye kufuneka ahloniphe indawo yomntu ngamnye, sifumana inkcazo yokuba mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo kuya kubakho enye endlwini kwaye izizathu zethu kunye nokudityaniswa okutsha akufuneki ukuba kube ngendlela yebrusque . Qala ukwabelana ngamaxesha Ukutya okanye ukulala ubusuku obunye ekhaya kunokuba sisiqalo esincinci sokwamkela inxenye yale seti intsha.