Ungamelana njani nokungabikho kwembeko emntwaneni wakho

Abantwana banokusityhalela kumda wokuziphatha kwabo, ngakumbi xa bengasihloniphi. Ukuba asinazo izixhobo eziyimfuneko, sinokwenza imeko ibe nzima kunokuba siyisombulule.

Ngokungabinayo incwadi yesikhokelo yabazali, siphendula ngokwemvelo kwimiceli mngeni. Ngamanye amaxesha ngokungaphezulu kwaye abanye ngokungagqibekanga, sinokwenza yonke into ibe mandundu kwaye siphulukane nokuphola. Kungenxa yoko le nto sikushiya neengcebiso malunga nokuba zeziphi ezona ndlela zokuziphatha xa ujongene nokusilela kwembeko emntwaneni wakho.

Intlonipho, enye yexabiso eliphambili lemfundo

Njengabazali sinyanzelekile ukuba sifundise abantwana bethu kwiinqobo zokuziphatha. Esikolweni bafunda izinto, kodwa ekhaya kubekwa iziseko zemfundo eziya kuhamba nabo ubomi babo bonke. Abantwana bafuna abantu abadala ukuba baphathe imfundo yabo, babonise ukuba bayabahlonipha kwaye mabahlonitshwe.

Kwiintsuku zakudala, uninzi lwabazali lwalucinga ukuba abantwana kufuneka banike imbeko engenamiqathango. Kwakuyimfundo yokulawula nokulawula. Namhlanje abantwana baphathwa phakathi komqhaphu ukuze bangonzakali. Yimfundo evumelekileyo nengakhuselekanga. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uye kokugqithileyo okanye kwenye. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuba yintoni intlonipho, kwaye kufuneka sibahloniphe ukunqanda iimeko ezinzima.

Ungenzi njani xa umntwana wakho engamhloniphi umntwana wakho

• Ungabahloneli nabo. Ukuba siphendula ngokufanayo kokungabikho kwembeko, sizenzela into embi. Ukukhala, izoyikiso kunye nokuthukisa ekuphela kwento esiza kuyiphumeza kukuba bafunde iindlela ezingakumbi zokungahloniphi, kwaye bayayibona njengento eqhelekileyo (Ukuba abazali bam bayayenza, inokwenziwa). Iya kuyenza mandundu imeko, ukungathembani kuyenziwa kwaye baziva bengaxabisekanga. Musa ukuya kwinqanaba elifanayo, ungalahli ukuphola kwakho.
• Ungenzi nto. Ukuba indlela yabo yokuziphatha engenantlonelo ayinaziphumo, baya kuyenza amaxesha ngamaxesha. Abantwana bafuna imida kwaye amaxesha amaninzi bayasivavanya ukubona ukuba bangaya phi na. Kufuneka siqine kwaye siyenze icace imithetho, kwaye singatshintshi iingqondo zethu ngobusuku obunye. Ukuba akunjalo, iya kudala ukudideka kuwe.

Ungamelana njani nokungabikho kwembeko emntwaneni wakho

• Chaza ukuba kukungabi nantlonelo. Mbonise indlela yokuziphatha engenantlonelo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye kuzakwenzeka ntoni ukuba uyayenza. Kufuneka ungaguquguquki, ubacacisele ukuba asiyondlela efanelekileyo yokuphendula kwaye ubabonise indlela echanekileyo. Kuya kufuneka uqine, ucace kwaye uyenze icace into evunyelweyo ekhaya nokuba yeyiphi na.
• Imigaqo yentlonipho ekhaya. Kwikhaya ngalinye, imigaqo yokuhlalisana kufuneka yenziwe, kubandakanya nokuziphatha okuhle. Kwaye akukhona kuphela umntu ngokwakhe, kodwa nakwindawo yakhe kunye nezinto zakhe zobuqu. Ngokufanayo, iziphumo zokungabikho kwembeko kufuneka kuvunyelwane ngazo.
• Bonisa intlonipho. Umzekelo sesona sikolo sihle. Isimo sentlonipho kufuneka silawule ekhaya. Kufuneka ube ngowokuqala ukuhlonipha imigaqo. Mfundise indlela yokuphatha abanye ngembeko ukuze kubelula ukuba alandele umzekelo wakho.
• Bethelela isimilo sabo esihloniphekileyo. Kulungile ukummakisha xa esenza into engenantlonelo kodwa ukomeleza nokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle. Yenze ngokudumisa, hayi umvuzo.
• Faka iziphumo xa kufanelekile. Xa sele uyazi ukuba kukungabi nantlonelo kangakanani kwaye uyazi iziphumo, kuya kufuneka ungaguquguquki. Musa ukoyika impendulo yakhe, umfundisa indlela yokuziphatha ebomini. Akufanele ubavumele bakuthuke, nokuba zincinci kakhulu.

Intlonipho sisiseko semfundo. Kufuneka sifundise abantwana bethu ngeendlela zokuziphatha ukuze ngomso bazi indlela yokunxibelelana nendalo yabo ngendlela echanekileyo, ethembekileyo nenolwazelelelo. Kunokuba nzima ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuziqhelanisa uya kuyazi indlela yokuphendula, kwaye uya kusebenza ngakumbi.

Kutheni ukhumbula ... cinga kakuhle ukuba yeyiphi imilinganiselo ofuna ukuyidlulisela emntwaneni wakho, imbeko ifezekiswa ngentlonipho.